Batshatile abantu ngokubanzi okanye bathandana. Kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onokukwazi ukuthwala iimvakalelo ngeminyaka. Oku akumangalisi, kuba umntu ulungele ukwenza iimpazamo. Ngexesha lomtshato, isithuba sesibini kwizandla zombhalisi, ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato - kumagosa kwiingxabano zentsapho.
Uthando luvakalelwa, kwaye ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, lingafihla ngenxa yesizathu esithile okanye lunokutshabalaliswa ngumlingane wakho. Uqhawulo olunqabileyo luhamba ngokukhawuleza, lufana nokugqithiseleyo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukuxabana phakathi kwabatshatileyo kuqala ngenxa yabantwana, impahla okanye ezinye izinto, okanye ezinye iimvakalelo zisabisa kwi sibini esitshatileyo kwaye zikhokelwa ziimvakalelo kunokuba zizizathu. Ngenxa yoko, ngenxa yezikhalazo kunye nezinto ezingavumelaniyo, umyeni nomfazi abakwazi ukufumana isigqibo esiphezulu kwizinto ezimbini. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kuvela kwiinkqubela ezinjalo abantwana bahlupheka.
Iingxabano zentsapho ziphikisana ngenxa yobuhlobo bomthetho.
Iingxabano zomtshato zentsapho ziquka:
- Ukuqhawulwa komtshato / uqhawulo lomtshato;
- ukuqaphela umtshato ongafanelekanga;
- isigqibo / ukupheliswa / utshintsho kwisivumelwano somtshato;
- ukwabelana kwipropati efunyenwe ngokubambisana;
- Iingxabano malunga nokukhuliswa kwabantwana;
- ukusekwa kobodwa;
- ukubuyiswa kwe-alimony;
- ukhuseleko / ukunyanzelwa / ukuthintela amalungelo omzali.
I-Family Code Code ibonisa ukuba iqela labantu labanobuhlobo bezomthetho:
- abazali, abantwana, abantwana abamkelweyo, abazali abavayo;
- umtshato;
- ugogo, utatomkhulu, umkhulu-makhulu, umakhulu-makhulu, abazukulu, abazukulu;
- utata ongumama, oomama, ozala;
- umzala, umntwana ozala.
Icala lomthetho leengxabano zentsapho
Izifundo ziye zabonisa ukuba iingxabano eziqhelekileyo ziphathelele kwinkqubo yomtshato, ukwabelana kwipropati yomtshato, iimpikiswano malunga nentlawulo yokuxhasa abantwana. Xa kukho ukungquzulana okukhulu phakathi kwabatshati okanye abantwana kunye nabazali abangenako ukuchongwa phakathi kwentsapho, omnye kufuneka aphendule kumagqwetha kwiingxabano zentsapho ezikhethekileyo ekuxazululeni ezo mpizo. Baza kukunceda uqonde ingxaki, unike iindlela zokuphuma kuyo kwaye unike iingcebiso eziyimfuneko. Uninzi lweengxabano zentsapho lunokulungiswa ngokuthula, olubandakanya ukusayinwa kwezivumelwano okanye izivumelwano ezifanelekileyo. Umzekelo wamaphepha anjalo uya kuba yintrakthi yomtshato, isivumelwano sokuhlawulwa kwe-alimony yomntwana, ukwabelana kwepropati. Kwimeko apho isivumelwano asizange siphumelele, iingxabano zentsapho ziya kufuneka zenziwe isigqibo enkundleni. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuqwalaselwa kweengxabano zomndeni enkundleni kuyabiza kwaye kuyinkathazo, kodwa ekuqwalaseleni ukuba isithuba somntwana kwisikali somntwana okanye inxalenye yepropati yakho, uya kuzuza ngokugqithiseleyo kunokuba uza kuchitha kwigqwetha kunye negqwetha leengxabano zentsapho.
Okumangalisayo kukuba, kodwa iingxaki zentsapho - ingxaki enzima kakhulu yamatyala enkundla apho iincinci, ezibonakala zincinci, zibalulekile iinkcukacha. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukukhetha ummeli oqeqeshiweyo kwimibango yentsapho. Ingcali ejongene neengxabano kwimicimbi yentsapho kufuneka ihokelwe kungekuphela kwemiba esemthethweni, kodwa nakwizengqondo, ukwenzela ukuqonda abaxumi, ukukunceda kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuxazulula impikiswano nokuza kudibanisa ngokukhawuleza.
Ukongezelela, igosa elungileyo liya kulondoloza ixesha lakho kwaye likukhulule kwiimeko ezifana nale:
- ukuqokelela ulwazi kunye namaxwebhu;
- qha ga mshelana na magunya karhulumente;
- ukusetyenziswa kwamaphepha.
Kwakhona, ngokusebenzisana nommeli, umthengi akanakho ukuphuma kwinkqubo yenkundla, akudingekile ukuchitha amandla, impilo kunye nexesha elinde, kunye nokuqhagamshelana nomdlali.
Ukuba kukho ukungavumelani, ngoko kufuneka kusombululwe ngokukhawuleza. Ukunyameka kwiimeko ezinjalo kunokukhokelela ekudakaleni kobudlelwane phakathi kwamaqela, ukudinwa kwengqondo kunye nokuvela kwengxaki yengqondo kubantwana.
Ukwahlukana kungaba yindlela eya ekuphileni okungcono, ngaphandle kokuba uhlalutye iimpazamo zakho uze wenze izigqibo. Into ephambili akuvumelekanga ukuvumela iimpazamo zomthetho.