Ukuba iinqanaba eziliqela ezedlulileyo inkcazo ebalulekileyo yebhinqa yayicatshulwa njengobuthakathaka, abameli bezocansi namhlanje banzima kakhulu ukubiza abagulayo. Thina siqhuba iimoto, i-yachts kunye neeplani, ukufumana imali, ukuhlala kwizithuba zobunkokeli, ukudlala ibhola lebhola. Kodwa kukho konke oku, phantse elowo wethu amaphupha ngokufihlakeleyo ukudibana nesigxina esinamandla nesibindi esiza kusikhusela kuzo zonke iingxaki zobomi, sinike iintyatyambo kunye ngokubanzi-ukuthanda ukungazi. Ngoko ke, kunye neminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, umbuzo othi "Indlela yokunciphisa indoda engqondweni kwaye ibe yinto ekhethekileyo kwaye ingenakulinganiswa na?" Isalokhu ihleli kwi-ajenda.
"Kukholelwa ukuba ibhinqa lingawunqoba ngokumnika iincoma. Kwaye kuthiwani ngabameli bezesondo ezinamandla? Ingaba umntu uyazi iibinzana ezibalulekileyo emva kokuba isikhulu sakho siza kulungela ukusinda kunye nawe ekupheleni kwehlabathi? "
Iimpawu eziphezulu ezi-5 eziqhuba abantu ababi:
- "Andizange ndive ndilunge ngaphambili." Ngaphezu koko, eli binzana lingabizwa nje kuphela emva kokulala ngesondo, kodwa emva nje kokuhlwa ngokugqibeleleyo kwi-cafe okanye ukuhamba epakini.
- "Wena ungumntu onqabileyo kakhulu owake ndadibana naye." Emva koko, zama ukuqinisekisa amagama akho ngezinye izibonelo ezikhonkco, ukuze umnxibelelwano wakho angacingi ukuba uyamthoba.
- "Ndiye ndikulungele ukuphinda!". Ngexesha elifanayo, kubalulekile ukubheka ngokukhethekileyo kwinqununu yakho kunye nokumomotheka. Nangona kunjalo, oku kufuneke ukuba uthethe ukuba uthembele ngokuqinisekileyo umntu kwaye akayi kukhangela ukuba usondele kuye.
- "Mhlawumbi uya kulahla ngendebe yekhofi?" Kukho, kodwa kwinqanaba leendlela zokunciphisa ingqondo yomntu eli binzana likhokele phambili. Nangona kunjalo, kusebenza kuphela ukuba kukho enye into kwinkqubo yokuzonwabisa yenkcubeko, ngaphandle kwekhofi.
- "Ndiyakuthanda." Iingcali zohlobo. Inokukuqhubhisa, ngoxa ungokobuhlobo obunzulu, nakweyiphi na imeko, ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo kunokusongela.
Kodwa zonke ezi zikhethiweyo, ewe, zilungile njengempendulo yombuzo othi: "Ndingathini ukuqhuba umkhwenkwezi?" Kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ukuba lo mntu uhlangene iminyaka emininzi kwaye uyazi yonke into ngomnye, nangaphezulu. Kunokumangaliswa kwimeko?
"Sitshatile iminyaka eyisibhozo. Kungekudala, ndaqala ukuphawula ukuba ubuhlobo bethu nomyeni wakhe bube buthathaka-ububele, uthando luye lwaphela, yonke into ibe yinto eqhelekileyo. Kodwa kukho konke oko ndiyazi ukuba sithandana. Ungaphinda uqhube njani umyeni udidekile kwaye uvuselele iimvakalelo zethu? "
Enyanisweni, nangona emva kweminyaka emininzi yokuhlala kunye sinento into ekumangalisa ngayo umlingane wethu womntu, ngenxa yoko kufuneka sibe nomnqweno wokuhamba ngaphaya kweendlela eziqhelekileyo zobomi kwaye sifune ukwenza into engavamile. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa zokuba, ngokubhekiselele kubafazi abaninzi, baqhuba kakuhle kwiimeko ezinjalo.
- Mqhube udibanise embhedeni ... Fumana isethi yeengubo zangaphantsi ezinobungqineli kunye ne-erotic, upheke into enomnandi ekudleni, uthenge i-CD enefilimu enomdla, biza umyeni wakho ngomsebenzi kwaye ... kummema ngomhla.
- Sichitha ixesha elingakumbi kunye nomnye. Yiya kwi-cinema okanye kwi-nightclub kunye, susa usuku emsebenzini kwaye ulungise ukuhamba ngothando ukuya epakini elisondele okanye kwi-ice rink.
Into ephambili kukuba uhlale ukhumbula ukuba ubudlelwane bomsebenzi onzima imihla ngemihla, ngoko banako ukutshintsha ukuba kube ngcono ngokulula
Emva kwakho konke, ekuphenduleni umbuzo: "Ziziphi iintlobo zabantu abafazi abaphanga kakhulu?" Uninzi lwabaxhamli beli ndoda alithandabuzi ukuphendula: "Lowo unomdla wokuthetha naye kwaye akayi kutyhubela embhedeni." Isiphetho: ngokuhambelana nale miqathango elula, unokuba ngumfazi ongekho konke, omhle kwaye ongenakufumana umntu wakho.