Abaninzi abasetyhini balungele ukufumana umntu omthandayo, kodwa nantsi ingcamango ecacileyo yendlela yokwenza ngayo. Abanye bakwenza amanyathelo angqongqo, umzekelo, ukulungiselela izicwangciso ezihlukeneyo, ukuqhuba amasiko, ukwenza iplastiki, njl. Ukuba uyazi iimfihlo ezithile, akukho nto iya kufuneka kwaye indoda iya kuwela ezinyaweni zakhe.
Indlela yokwenza umntu agijime emva kwakhe?
Ukhuphiswano phakathi kwabasetyhini luphezulu kakhulu, njengoko, njengoko kwaziwa, kunabantu abambalwa kakhulu, oku kuthetha ukuba umntu makabe ephuma kwisihlwele.
Izindlela ezili-10 eziqinisekisiweyo zokufumana indoda ukuba igijime emva kwakho:
- Inkulumo eyaziwayo - "amadoda athande amehlo" isebenza, ngoko kufuneka usebenze ngokubonakala kwakho. Namhlanje, umfazi unendlela ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuphucula ukubonakala kwakhe. Okokuqala, kufuneka usebenze kulo mfanekiso, kwaye oku kufuneka ubhalise kwi-gym uze uphinde ucinge ngokutya kwakho. Okwesibini, i-styles and make-up zibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuzalisekisa le mqathango, kufuneka uhambe kwi-salon enobuhle.
- Kwengqondo, kukho enye icebiso elisebenzayo lokufumana umntu ukuba agijime emva kwakho-ukuba abe neempembelelo. Ubomi bwenene, kunye neengxaki ezininzi kunye nokudumala, ngoko ekusebenzelaneni nobulili obuhlukile bafuna ukukhulula nokuzonwabisa. Ukumomotheka ngokunyanisekileyo nokubukeka komntu ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kutsala indoda.
- Ukunyamezela kunye nokunyamezela kuyimimangaliso echasene nesondo esahlukileyo, ngoko kufuneka uyilibale ngale mpawu. Ibhinqa elungileyo lincinci, linyamekela kwaye lungafinyeleleki. Ngokusemthethweni, bonke abazingeli bendoda kwaye bathanda ukunqoba amaxhoba, kodwa kulo mzekelo, kubaluleke kakhulu, musa ukubetha.
- Enye isincomo, indlela yokwenza indoda esatshatileyo igijime emva kwakho-idumise kwaye imncome. Nantoni na into ongayithethayo, abameleli besondo esomeleleyo bafana nokuba kwiindawo zokuqala, ngoko kubalulekile ngexesha elifanelekileyo ukuthetha igama elimnandi, ukubonisa impumelelo kunye nokufihla amaphutha. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuwuxabisa, ngakumbi xa ukwenza nabanye abantu.
- Nangona abantu abayithandi "i-dummy", musa ukuba bahlakaniphile kwaye babonise ulwazi lwabo ngeli thuba, kuba ukuziphatha okunjalo kunokubonakala njengento yokuqhayisa okanye umnqweno wokugqithisa okanye ukuhlazisa.
- Indlela eyingozi kodwa esebenzayo indlela yokufumana umntu ukuba asebenze emva kwakho emva kokulwa - makamncintisane. Ukwabelana naye, akayi kuba namntu kwaye ekugqibeleni uyaqonda ukuba nakwephi na umzuzu omnye umfana angakhokelela umntu omthandayo. Kuphela kubalulekile ukuba uzive umda, ukuze ungafumani ilebula "emoyeni".
- Musa ukumela abameli beesondo eziqinileyo zesondo ezithintekayo ezixhomekeke entanyeni. Musa ukucela nantoni na i-blackmail, kuba ukuba umntu ufuna ukwenza okuhle, uya kukwenza.
- Enye indlela yokufumana umntu ongaphambili ukuba agijime emva kwakho akuyi kuqikelela. Ukuba, emva kokutshatyalaliswa , ibhinqa libiza ngokukhawuleza kwaye libonisa ukuba umntu owangaphambili uhamba, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumangaliswa, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kukhanyela, nangona yonke into ixhomekeke kwimeko ethile kunye nezizathu zokuhlukana.
Kuphi na ubudlelwane bokuphila ngokucwangcisa akuyiyo into enomdla kwaye isisombululo esona sisisombululo. - Kubalulekile ukuba unomdla ebomini lomntu, umzekelo, ukubuza malunga nezinto ezithandwayo, ukukhethwa kokutya, ukuthanda, ubuntwana, ngokubanzi, kufuneka aqonde ukuba akanandaba.
Inkqubo yokunqoba indoda ifanele ibe yinto enomdla, ngoko ungakhohlwa ukumkhuthaza ngenxa yezenzo zakhe, kodwa kulungele ukulingana, ngoko kukho ukukhuthaza ukufikelela ngaphezulu. Ukudlala kunye nokudlala kuyintsimi ethembekileyo ekutsaleni isondo esahlukileyo.
Kufuneka ube ngokwakho kwaye ungadlala ukuze ukholise umntu, kuba kungekudala okanye imfihlakalo iya kuzaliseka, kwaye umthandayo unako ukusinda.