Okokuqala, masizixhase ngolwazi ngalolu hlobo oluyimfihlakalo oluye lwadlulelwa iintliziyo zabantu bonke kwiinkulungwane zabantu.
Iingcali zenzululwazi, abathandi bokutshabalalisa iindaba ezimnandi, nokuba le mvakalelo ikwazi ukudibanisa ize ibone phantsi kwe-microscope. Kwaye bawubona ntoni na? Idayari eqhelekileyo. Ewe, akuqhelekanga. I-Hormonal, i-cocktail, ukusuka kwinye ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu echaphazela ingqondo yomntu. Intliziyo igubha, ukuthuthumela kwagijima emzimbeni wakhe ... "Luthando," ucinga. "Le phenylethylamine yandise izinga le-adrenaline ne-endorphins," zitsho iingcali. "Hayi," uyacaphuka, "Ndiyayithanda le ndoda, ndifuna ukuba naye ubomi bam bonke, ndifuna ukufundisa abantwana bethu, ukwabelana ngokuvuya kunye nosizi ...". "Ewe," izazinzulu ziza kuthi, "kufuneka kube njalo, uluntu lugcina ulondolozo lwezilwanyana." Ngoko ngaphambi kokuba uqhelane nomntu oyithandayo, qaphela ukuba unomdla kulo mntu okanye amahomoni akukhokela.
Kwaye kubangelwa isayensi esetyenziswe kwii-shelf. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba ngexesha lokubanga ubuchopho bakho bukhangela "ukwakhiwa kweekhemikhali" zeqabane, liqokelela yonke idatha yokuqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo kohlobo. Iingcali zenzululwazi zihlolisise iimvakalelo zethu neemvakalelo zethu. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, basasaza uthando kumamolekyuli. Inyaniso yenza into ebalulekileyo ngathi - ukuba uyathanda umntu, ngoko uluntu lunikezele ukuba uyamthanda.
Ewe, masithi oososayensi mabachithe iinyanga ngeesonyi kunye ne-microscopes, sinokuthanda isidlo sokuthandana kunye namakhandlela, ukunyaniseka, kunye nolonwabo lwentsapho. Kuphela apha kuqala kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ungayazi njani umfana.
Ewe, ukuba uyithemba kuwe, inomdla kwaye inomdla, ngoko ayiyi kuba yingxaki kuwe ukuba ufumane umntu ukuba ajonge. Kuya kukwanela nje ukubonisa ukuba unomdla kuwe. Kuphela ngokwenene, kuvela ukuba akukho namantombazana amaninzi anesibindi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kunye namantombazana enhle kakhulu ahlupheke kwiintlinkes, ngenxa yoko bavaliwe kwaye bangenakuxhamla. Ngoko uyifumana njani intombazana enhle intombazana ecinga ukuba iyinto eqhelekileyo engathandekiyo? Ukholelwa, kuba, othandekayo wam, wonke umntu unomntu kwaye unomdla.
Ngoko, wathi kuwe: "Ndifuna ukudibana nomfana!" Yintoni ongayenza ngokulandelayo? Ziziphi iindlela zokuhlangabezana nomfana usebenzisa amantombazana namhlanje?
Ubutyebi benkulungwane yethu ye-Intanethi. Udinga kuphela ukucacisa iiparitha eziyimfuneko kwiindawo zokuthandana okanye kwinethwekhi yentlalo kwaye ukhetha ngokuzinzileyo ukusuka kwinani elikhulu labafana abafuna ukujwayelana nabo. Omnye "kodwa" - ebomini kungenakuba ngumntu oyancomayo kwiifoto kwisayithi.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqhelane nomntu omhle esitalatweni, zama ubuncinane umlindi. Mhlawumbi indlela yakhe ayiyi kuba yinto ekhangayo njengaye. Kodwa ukuba usagqiba isigqibo, yiba ngakumbi. Musa ukukhumbula ngokukhawuleza indlela yokumazi umntu. Kuya kuba yincinci kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kulubala. Yenza njengoko uziva. Into ephambili kukunyamekela, kodwa ungabi nxamnye. Ukuba unomnqweno wokudibana, kuya kuba nokwaneleyo kwento yakho. Nangona, ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unamahloni, zama ukuqala incoko.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukumazi umfana, jonga ngokusondeleyo kuye - cinga ngezinto anokunomdla kuzo, apho usebenza khona. Oku kuya kukunceda uqale incoko kwaye umdla.
Mhlawumbi unethuba lokufumana inombolo yefowuni yomntu oyithandayo. Makhe sicinge ukuba ubhale ntoni umntu ukuba adibane? Kungcono ukuqala iibhalelwano ngezinye iincwadana ezimnandi - ihlazo alisoze lihle.
Ukuba ungaziqhelanga ukuthatha amanyathelo okuqala, khangela idilesi yakho indawo apho ungadibana nayo indoda enhle. Kwakhona kuxhomekeke kwizinto ozizonwabisayo. Umzekelo, ukuba uyayithiya ibhola, ngaba kufanelekile ukuchitha ixesha kwibala lezemidlalo? Kwaye nangona ukhona kwaye ukwazi umntu, ngaba uya kuvuyisa inkampani enjalo?
Ewe, kungcono ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukudibana nomntu. Ufuna ulwalamano oluqinileyo okanye umncinci, umfesane. Mhlawumbi ufuna nje umhlobo okanye umntu onomdla. Oku kuya kukhetha ukukhethwa kwendawo apho ungadibana khona nomfana.
Zama ukunciphisa ubomi bakho - bhalisela iikhosi, udibanise noluntu olunomdla. Ukuba ukwesaba ukuqhelana nomfana, mhlawumbi, ukuba unomdla, kuya kuba lula ukuba uqhelane naye uze uthethe ngento ethile.
Into eyona nto yinto yokuzithemba ngakumbi. Ungesabi ukusebenzisa ingcinga yakho, kwaye wena ngokwakho uza kufumana indlela yokumazi umntu owamthanda. Musa ukwesaba ukuvula ii-horizons ezintsha, wenze abahlobo abatsha. Unikwa ubomi obodwa kuphela - uyinyamekele kwaye uvela kwiingozi kunye nokuqhelekileyo.