Ubusiso buhlale luyindlela yokubonisa iimvakalelo zomntu komnye nomnye. Ibonisa isimo sengqondo somlingane wakho kuwe. Ngamanye amaxesha u-kiss, umnqweno ungathatha indawo yamagama amaninzi, impendulo. Izenzo zinokutshela kakhulu ngomntu, kunamagama akhe.
Abantu bambalwa bacinga ukuba kutheni abantu bange. Ukuba umntu wayenengcamango enjalo, ngoko wayeyithatha njengento encinci kwaye wayigxotha, kwaye abanye baxhalabisa kakhulu ukukhangela impendulo yembangela yokubanga.
Makhe sizame ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abantu bathanda ukumanga kwaye nokuba kulungile yini kumzimba.
Kutheni abantu bebanga?
Isizathu sokuqala sokuba abantu bangazibangi ukukrakra yinkcubeko. Wonke umntu, xa efumana imeko yesithandane, engazi ukuba uyafuna ukumanga umntu ovakalelwa kuye. Izibalo zibonisa ukuba, okokuqala, isiqingatha sesintu sesidinga ukuphana kaninzi kunabesifazane.
Isizathu sesibini kukuba ukubanga kwihlabathi lanamhlanje lihlolwe njengento ebiminyanzelo kwiimeko ezithile, phakathi kwabantu abathile.
Ngoko, kwiindawo zothando, umnqweno wokubanga uvela ngokubhekiselele kumbono womntu ongenamdla. Njengomphumo wale nto, umntu unomnqweno omkhulu wokubanga umlingane, nokuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna okanye akunjalo.
Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba indlela yokubamba yindoda neyabhinqa ihluke kakhulu. Kwiimeko ezininzi, umntu ulindele ukuba ukubamba kuphele kunye nolwabelana ngesondo. Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba bakulungele ukulala ngesondo ngaphandle kokuqala kubanga. Kwaye nabasetyhini, ngendlela yokumanga, banikela indima ebalulekileyo kwiphunga kunye nenkcazo yeqabane labo. Kwakhona ukuba banokuyeka ukutshata ngaphandle kokubanga kwangaphambili.
Abameli besigxina esinqabileyo bakhetha ukunqabana, okuhambisana ne-salivation enkulu. Oku bayazama ukuqonda ukuzala kwabasetyhini.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zifumanisa isizathu sokuba umntu afune ukumanga. Ngoko, ngoncedo lokubamba rhoqo kumlingani ohlala ehlala naye, indoda inceda umfazi ukukhusela umkhuhlane wakhe kwi-cytomegalovirus, ehlala ematheni. Emva kwakho konke, ngokutshintshiselana kwamathambo kunye nomfazi ofanayo, akukho zixhobo zokuvelisa le ntsho longwane. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba le ntsho longwane iyingozi kumzimba wesetyana ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ingabangela ukukhubazeka kokuzalwa komntwana.