Amantombazana amaninzi akwazi ukuphatha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba bayiphosa umfana, kwaye bacinga ukuba angaziphindezela njani. Ukuba kukho umnqweno onjalo-kholwa kum, akukho nto inzima kule nto. Nangona kunjalo, ungakhohlwa ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi ubuhlobo bubuyiselwa ... Kodwa emva kokubuyiselwa kwakho okuyingqungquthela, kuya kucaca ukuba akunakwenzeka.
Yintoni engafanelekanga ukwenza?
Ukuqala, siza kuxubusha abo bahambayo abangayi kubakho nantoni na. Kufanelekile ukuthetha ukuba umnqweno wokuziphindezela ngokwawo uphantsi kwaye uyingozi, kodwa kukho amaxesha apho oku kuphela okukhethwa kukho ukuthoba umphefumlo wakho ovukelayo. Kukho nawuphi na, zama ukuzenza ezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Buyela emuva ukuze ubuyisele. Ngamanye amaxesha kuvela ukuba akulula ukubuyela, kwaye uya kuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo kule nkqubo, kwaye xa uziqhenyuka ukushiya, umshiya, uya kucinga ukuba uyisidenge esisisilumko esingakwaziyo into ayifunayo. Yaye yakho imvakalelo iza kuba nzima - awuyena i-robot. Ngoko oku kukhethwa ngokukhawuleza.
- Spoilage yepropati. Ukuba usika i-suit yakhe ebiza, bhala phantsi imoto yakhe okanye uchithe into esuka kwiphoneli yakhe, kwaye unokuyibonakalisa, uya kuba noxanduva lwakho phambi komthetho. Iimvakalelo iimvakalelo, nemali yimali. Ukuziphindezela okunjalo kuza kuvela kuwe ngakumbi, kwaye kungcono ukuba ungathathi amathuba.
- Impindezelo, efuna utyalo-mali. Abanye abacaphukileyo abasetyhini abagxininisi nakwi-billboard yokubhengezwa ngombhalo ongathandekiyo kunye nesimboli sazo zangaphambili. Ngoko ke ubonisa ukungaxhasi, ukuhlazeka kunye nentukuthelo, ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kukukwenza. Inokwenzeka ukuba, abayi kuhleka ngaye, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho.
- Impindezelo, enokuba nzima kuwe. Abasetyhini abaninzi, becinga ukuphindisela kwindoda yabo yangaphambili, banqume ukuba nomthandi omhle baze bambize ngeliso kumlingane osele. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awuyiva nantoni na kulo mntu, nakuye, okanye kuwe, olu buhlobo aluyi kunika nantoni na, kwaye akufanelekile ukuba ufumane ithuba lokuligcina. Musa ukulibala ukuba ukuba ubuhlobo bakho bububi kwaye wushiya ngenxa yobomi obungenakuxolisa kunye nawe, ekuboneni nomntu ngokukhawuleza, uya kukubiza ngelinye lala mazwi anzima ahlabayo athetha ngamabhinqa obuhle kwaye avuye , ukuba wahlala nawe.
- Ukunyuka ebomini bakhe. Abanye abafazi abaneenjongo zokulimaza zangaphambili baqala ukubhaka ukuthanda kwakhe kwangoku. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, akukho mntu uyayikhathalela le nto, kwaye kuphela yinto evengezelayo.
Into ebalulekileyo ekukhetheni kwakho ukubuyisela kuyimpawu elula. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ungabuyiseli umntu onomvakalelo onika ithemba lokuhlaziya ubudlelwane. Emva koko, isiqhwithi sovakalelo siya kuhlala, kodwa ukuphindisela kwakho akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhohliwe.
Indlela yokuziphindezela ngayo ngaphambili?
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuziphindezela umntu ngokulula kwaye ngaphandle kotyalo-mali oluthile. Into ephambili - umnqweno kunye nobuqili!
- Ukuba lowo wangaphambili uye washiya enye, kwaye uyazi ukuba banabo ngoku, unokubenza babe ngumhlwa ongalibalekiyo. Shayela ukuhanjiswa kwe-pizza, uSushi, amayeza - malunga nantoni na - kwaye ubeke umyalelo wedilesi yakhe. Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka uququzelele yonke into ngendlela yokuba abahlangulayo beza kanye ngesigama seyure. Ukuze ungabonakali phambi kwendoda entsha njengendoda enxibayo, mhlawumbi uyayithengisa nempahla embalwa yokuqala, kodwa ekugqibeleni iya kumnceda.
- Ukuba uhlala kunye kunye nesizathu sokugxeka kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu, unokwenza ubomi bakhe bungenakubekezeleka. Omnye umfazi oyisisombululo ubeka intlanzi eluhlaza kwi-cornice yekhetheni-kwaye akafumananga ixesha elide ngelixa ediliza kwaye ekhupha ivumba elimangalisayo lezilwanyana zasendle ezibolile.
- Yintoni enye into ethandekayo kumntu? Yakhe imoto! I-chip efana nefungo elinobuhlungu linokuguqulwa kwaye kuyo, ukuphosa i-shrimp phantsi kwesihlalo.
Musa ukulibala ukuba umonakalo kwipropati inokulimaza, kungekhona kuye, ngoko unike umqondo wokumisa umbhobho wakhe wokukhipha okanye ukuthulula ishukela kwiitanki zerhasi.