Ephupheni, umntu akakwazi ukuzilawula, ngoko ke kulo meko ulwimi lwakhe lomzimba luya kuba yinyani. Izazinzulu zaseBrazil zaze zafumanisa idibaniselwano phakathi kwezimo xa zilala kunye kunye nolwalamano olubini. Makhe sicinge ngezikhundla eziqhelekileyo abazithandayo abazenzayo iphupha.
Inentsingiselo yezimo zokulala kunye
- Gcoba "isipuni" okanye "uhlebe" - indoda iyambamba intombazana engasemva, ngelixa isibini silala, sidibene ndawonye, iintloko zijoliswe kwicala elinye. Ezi zinto zibangela ukuba ulala yedwa ziqhelekileyo kwaye zinentsingiselo: "Siyancedisana". Ukuba isibini sithanda ukulala ngolo hlobo, ke oku kungathi umnqweno wokuseka ubudlelwane emva kwexesha elithile lokupholisa. Esi sikhundla sithathwa ngabantu abanobuhlobo obuzinzileyo, obubiza kakhulu. Kubonakala ukuba kwakungekho lula ukufezekisa imeko ekhoyo, mhlawumbi emva kokuvavanywa kokungazange kwenzeke ukuba bacinge ukuba bayayilungiselela indlela yovuyo. Kwaye ngoku babini banesaba kakhulu ukulahlekelwa yilokho abanako.
- Ukuhlaselwa "kwintshutshiso". Kufana ne-"spoon", kodwa ke umfazi ubamba indoda. Kubonakala ukuba le ntokazi inkokeli kwintsebenziswano, kwaye indoda iyafuna ukunyamekela kuye. Ukuba intloko yomlingane ithambekele ekuthinteni ukuthintela, kuthetha ukuzama ukwandisa okanye ukugcina indawo yakho.
- Gcina "umqubu" - indoda kunye nomfazi balele, bajike, ngasinye kwisahlulo sakhe sombhede. Le meko ibonisa ukuxabana okanye ukungaqondi kakuhle ixesha elide. Nangona, ukuba isibini sithatha into enjalo yokulala kunye neyona nto ikhululekile, oko kungabonisa ukuphazamiseka kobudlelwane.
- Hlala "Chanel" - amaqabane alala kunye nomqolo wabo komnye nomnye, echukumisa izikhwebu zabo. Esi sikhundla sithathwa njengento ekhululekile kakhulu yokulala, ehlangene ngumbutho oqinileyo. Ngoko abantu banokulala bezintlobo ezahlukeneyo zesimo, kunye nemikhwa eyahlukileyo. Baye kunye, kodwa ngamnye wabo ngumntu. Ukuba isibini silala kule ndawo, sithinta iintloko, amahlombe kunye nomva, kodwa sishiya indawo yamahhala kwindawo yokumisa, oku kunika abathandi abanemibono eyahlukileyo yehlabathi. Ngoko ke, kunzima ukusho nto malunga nexesha elizayo kule nxulumano. Ukuba i-pose iyamkelwa ngabafazi, oku kubonisa umnqweno wabo wokuzikhusela kwilizwe langaphandle.
- Gcina "uthando luyakwamukela" - isibini esilala esivumelwaneni, ngokubambelela ngokubambisana, ukugcoba izitho. Esi sikhundla sinqwenela ekuqaleni kobudlelwane kwaye sithetha ngeemvakalelo ezithandana nabo. Ukuba kukho umgama omfutshane phakathi kwendoda kunye nomfazi kule ndawo, oku kubonisa ukuzimisela ukuhlala kunye kwaye kungabikho komzimba. Kulo mbini, bobabini bakulungele ukuwamkela iimpazamo zomnye.
- Isikhundla se "nophahla" - amaqabane alala ebusweni babo, omnye ukhonkxa omnye ngamagxa okanye entloko. Ezi zinto zibuhlungu xa zilala ndawonye zibonisa ukuxhatshazwa kwesi sibini, kodwa ngelo xesha bathetha ukuba akukho mdla wesondo, kuba akukho nxu lumano.
- Hlala "umzala" - intombazana ilele kwisifuba somntu ombambazelayo. Oku kuthethwa ngumbutho ozinzile kunye nobudlelwane obuvumelanayo. Ibhinqa liziva likhuselwa yindoda yakhe, kwaye iyayixabisa ukunakekelwa kwayo nenkxaso.
- Hlala "ngenxa yesibambiso" - amaqabane alala ebusweni, ephethe izandla. Ngokuqhelekileyo abathandi bokulala abafana neemeko. Ziyakwazi ukufana kunye nangaphandle - ngokukhula okanye umzimba. I-posture kumqolo ibonisa umuzwa wokhuseleko, kodwa amaqabane adinga ukunxibelelana ngokomzimba.
- Gcina "ukuzimela" - amaqabane abuthongo kwisisu ngaphandle komnye nomnye. Isandla somnye wabo sithinta umzimba womnye. Oku kuthethwa ngomnqweno wobabini ukugcina ukuzimela, ukwesaba ukudibanisa omnye nomnye. Umnxeba ngesandla sakho ubonisa umnqweno wokufumana inkxaso yokukhupha loloyiko.
- Hlala "ubuso nobuso" - amaqabane alala ehlangothini lawo, ejongene, engathinti iinyawo. Oku kubonisa ukuba kukho uxhulumano oluqinileyo phakathi kwabathandwayo, kodwa banyanzeliswa ukuba bachithe ixesha elide ngokuhlukileyo.
Njengoko uyakubona, izimo ozithathayo ephupheni kunye nentanda yakho unokukwazi ukuthetha ngokubanzi malunga nalo. Kodwa ke, akufanele ube yindawo ehlelwe ngayo ekuhloleni, okokuqala, siyazama ukufumana indawo yokulala ekhululekile, kungekhona enye ehambelana nesimo sethu sengqondo. Kwaye, okwesibini, ukubaluleka kweso sitshatileyo kungashintsha ngokubanzi nasiphi na isenzo. Umzekelo, i-"child" iyathetha ngokuphathelele ulwalamano olufanelekileyo, kodwa ukuba kule ndawo umfazi ubamba umfazi ngesandla esile esifubeni sakhe, njengokungathi uvale intliziyo yakhe esandleni sowesifazane, ixabiso liyakushintsha. Esi sikhundla siya kuthetha ukuba indoda iyayika ukuvumela intombazana ukuba isondele kakhulu.