Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba ibhinqa liyaqaphela ukuba akasayi kuba nomdla kunye nomnqweno wangaphambili kumyeni wakhe. Oku kunokuchaphazeleka yimiba emininzi, kwaye kungekhona ukuba umntu unetyala. Umzekelo, ukungabikho komnqweno kungabangelwa kukuba ibhinqa ayinandaba nezesondo, okanye akanalo ulwalamano lomtshato, kwaye awuyi kubeka ukukhathala kwindawo yokugqibela. Kwaye apha, xa ibhinqa lijongene nengxaki yokungayifuni indoda yakhe, kukho isidingo sengcebiso malunga nento yokwenza kule meko.
Ewe, indlela engcono xa umfazi engafuni ukulala nomyeni wakhe ukuphulaphula ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo kwaye uzame ukugcina imeko.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa umfazi engafuni umyeni - iingcebiso zesazinzululwazi
- Ungazama "iindlela endala". Ngokomzekelo, thola umdlalo omtsha ohlangeneyo okanye uhambe uhambo oludibeneyo. Ukutshintsha imeko kungatshintsha yonke into.
- Njengekhetho, iqabane lizama ukuhamba kwindawo ethile. Ngoko uya kukwazi ukujongana nale ngxaki, ukubona kude . Mhlawumbi ngale ndlela umfazi uya kulikhumbula umyeni wakhe, kwaye ubunzima beentsebenziswano ziya kutshabalala ngaphandle kokulandelwa. Kwaye kwenzeka njalo, emva kokuchitha ixesha elide umnqweno uyavuka.
- Kukho isisombululo esisisigxina - ukuhlala ngokwahlukileyo. Oku kwakhona, utshintsho lwendawo, ubomi bakho. Mhlawumbi isizathu sokungabikho komnqweno kwakukho ubomi obuthile. Kwaye ubomi bunokutshintsha yonke into. Uya kulahleka "ukuba" ubomi obuqhelekileyo.
- Musa ukuphepha umlingane wakho ukuba ufuna ukuthandana. Kukulungele ukufumana isizathu ngokuxoxa ngale ndoda. Mhlawumbi kufuneka nje ukudibanisa ubomi bobulili. Unokuzama imidlalo yokudlala .
Ukuba umfazi akafuni umyeni wakhe kwaye engayazi into enokuyenza, unokuhlala uphulaphule ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo. Le meko ichanekile, mhlawumbi, kuyimfuneko kuphela.