Indlela yokuba yedwa yindoda?

Wena, ngokwenene, unqwenela ukuziva ungaphumile kumncintiswano kumntu wakho othandekayo, jonga amehlo akhe onothando malunga nekhefu, uphulaphule ukuncoma, uyagxininiswa? Ingaba liphupha eliluhlaza okwenene, elingenakufumaneka, elingenakwenzeka? Namhlanje, siya kuthetha malunga nendlela yokuba yedwa yindoda yakho, indlela yokwenza ukuba iphupha lalo mfazi lizaliseke.

Yiba ngowona nto

Indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokwenza "ukukholisa" wakhe okhethiweyo ekupheleleni kwakhe kukumenza abe yedwa, iyodwa kwaye iyona nto ibhetele. Ukubeka nje, umele umqinisekise ukuba uyona mhle. Mxelele ngokuthe ngqiqweni, yitsho indlela ehlakaniphile ngayo, enhle, enomdla, kwaye uya kuziva ukuba kufuphi nawe. Uya kufuna uluntu lwakho ukuze uzive ungcono kwakhona, kuba nguwe kuphela onokumxelela ngokuphelela kwakhe.

Isizathu esiqhelekileyo

Kodwa wena, ke, ufuna ukuqala nawe. Indlela yokuba ibe yinto ekhethekileyo kwaye engenakwenzekayo - idideka kakhulu, kodwa into eyona nto yinto engafanelekanga ngayo kwiminyaka emide yokuhlala kunye, yiloo nto oyikwesaba kakhulu.

Iingqondo zesini kunye nabasetyhini zizinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Abafazi bafuna umntu ukuba athethe nabo, kwaye amadoda afuna izinto zibe khona. Ewe, ibhizinisi kwaye kuyinqweneleka - jikelele. Indoda idinga umlingane kwaye kuphela iimvakalelo eziye zavela ekunqobeni ubunzima obuqhelekileyo zinokukwenza ube yinto ekhethekileyo kunye neyodwa.

Beka iinjongo ezifanayo, ukuba imihla ngemihla unesiqhelo somsebenzi, ungalindelanga ukuvuselelwa kwemizwa evela kumyeni wakhe. Cinga ngento ebangela umdla kubo bobabini kuni, mnike indoda inxaxheba ebalulekileyo, kwaye kufuneka ube ngumnene wakhe nangesobunxele, ngaphandle kokungenakuyenza ngaphandle kwayo.

Musa ukumnika yonke into kwi-saucer enomda ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka

Indoda kufuneka ifeze into yonke, yikhona ke iya kukwazi ukuzihlonela. Unokumthengela isikhundla (ukuba unemali), iimpawu ezixabisekileyo, unokwenza konke esikhundleni sakhe ukuze angabi ngothuli, kodwa akayi kuxolela ngenxa yale nto. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukwazi, indlela yokuba yinto enye kuye, umshiye indawo yokukhula komntu, ungamshiyi i-oxygen kwaye ungathathi ixesha lakhe iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku. Indoda yinto engaphandle, umfazi ungumntu ongaphakathi. Indawo yakho yindlu, indawo yomntu yinto ephuma ngaphandle kwendlu. Kufuneka abe ngumntu ngaphandle kweendonga zekhaya kwaye into engcono ongayenzayo ayiyikuphazamisa.

Ukudibanisa i-getter kunye nepompom

Xa umntu wakho ebuyela ekhaya evela kwinqanaba lakhe langaphandle, kufuneka abe nomuvo onqobayo. Mqumbise, umamkele kwaye umfundele ngokufudumele kunye nesidlo sakusihlwa.