Lonwabo

Umxholo wobungqingili besithandwa sabasetyhini, okokuqala, abafazi ngokwabo. Thelekisa amagama athi "ibhinqa elingatshatanga" nelithi "umntu okhululekileyo" -ininzi ngamagama athi abantu abaninzi banqabile ngokucacileyo ukuba yedwa umfazi kunye nendoda. Kule nqaku siza kuqwalasela into ngokwalo, ukubonakaliswa kwayo kunye neendlela zokunqoba.

Ingxaki yobomi bentombi

Esi sikhalazo esifanelekileyo sabesifazane besiphi na ubudala. Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba uluntu lunokuba lusizi okanye ulwalamano nabafazi. Yaye inentsingiselo kulo mazwi, wonke umntu unokuzifaka imali. Umzekelo: "Ndiyodwa, ndinayo intombi." Okanye: "Umyeni wam akayandiqondi nonke, ndihlala ndedwa ...". Uvela phi le ngxaki?

Izizathu zobungqina bentombi

1. II Complexes. Yonke intokazi kwaye, ngokukodwa, imagazini yamadoda ifaka iphepha layo umfanekiso wesetyhini efanelekileyo. Ibali elifanayo kunye nama-movie, iziqeshana, ukuthengisa. Ama-actress kunye neemvumi zichitha ixesha kunye nemali ebusheni babo nobuhle. Akumangalisi ukuba abafazi, kude nehlabathi eliluhlaza, kunzima kakhulu ukugcina ukhuphiswano olunjalo. Ukuthelekisa ngokwakho kunye nobuhle obungapheliyo obangela iingxaki kunye nokungaqiniseki.
2. Iingqungquthela. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi bazama ukulandela iminye imibono eqhelekileyo, kwaye ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bazama ukudlala indima ye-bitch okanye ibhinqa elibulalayo. Oku kuquka "amadoda athile athande ..." - isisu, i-blondes, ixhasayo kunye njalo. Ukugxininisa kwiinyaniso ezingathandabuzekiyo, abafazi badlala indima ebudlelwaneni, kwaye oku akubenzi ukuba zomelele okanye zide.
3. Ukungabi nentsingiselo. Kutheni ndifuna ukufumana iqabane? Ngaba uxolo lomama nezinye izihlobo? Ukuqhubeka kunye okanye ukufumana iintombi? Ngoko kuyimfuneko? Ngelishwa, amaninzi amantombazana nabasetyhini bafumana olu xinzelelo loluntu. Kwisigaba esithile, ukunyanzeliswa koluntu sele kuseyomnqweno-ukulungiselela, ekugqibeleni, ubomi bakhe.

Kwilizwe lethu, isithethe sisaphila, ngokubhekiselele kuyo umfazi onokuthatha kuphela ubudlelwane nomntu. Enjalo Ukufakela ngokuqhelekileyo phakathi kwamakholwa. Phakathi kwamabhinqa angamaOthodoki, incwadi ethi "Ubungqingili besetyhini" ngu-Marina Kravtsova iyathandwa, apho umbhali anika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokulungisa yakhe injongo. Kodwa kungekhona nje ukholo oludlala indima kwilizwe elijongene neentlanga. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, amantombazana aphulaphule iindaba zobuxoki malunga neCinderella kunye ne-Snow White kwaye bathabatha kubo umzekelo - indlela yokuphila ubomi ngamaphupha enkosana ezayo. Ngaba ndifuna ukuba ezo zizathu ziza kuphelelwa lixesha kwihlabathi lanamhlanje? Namhlanje, ibhinqa linethuba lokuba ngumkhosana onobubele. Kwaye xa umntu ehlala kwaye eqonda ngokupheleleyo kuyo yonke imiba, ubomi bakhe buqulethwe ngendlela efanelekileyo.