Inzondelelo yindoda kumfazi yinto eninzi, kwaye ayisoloko imnandi - ngubani othanda ukuba phantsi kolawulo oluqaphileyo? Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha sifuna ukuba umyeni wakhe abe nomona, ncinane. Kodwa indlela yokwenza ukuba akwenze, makungacingi ukuba uyaqonda ukuba injongo iphunyezwe?
Indlela yokwenza umyeni wakhe abe nomona?
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokwenza umthandwa wakho abe nomona, kodwa indlela le ndlela okanye loo ndlela isebenza ngayo kumntu wakho kunzima ukuqikelela -buntu bethu. Ngoko qaphela ukuba ungayithandi iMexico.
- Thetha ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwifowuni yomnxeba nomhlobo wakho (ukuba akukho nanye, inxaxheba yakhe ingadlala ngumhlobo). Yaye incoko iqala nomyeni, ngoko waqonda ukuba ubiza umntu, uze uye kwelinye igumbi.
- Kumyeni wayekhwele, qalisa ukuhlawula ngakumbi ukubonakala kwakho, ixesha elide ukhethe ingubo yokuya emsebenzini. Kwaye ukuba ubuza "Kutheni uhlakaniphile kangaka?" Memezela ngokukhawuleza kwaye ubhekisele kwimeko efanelekileyo.
- Ngaba umyeni wakho uhlala ebiza kuwe phakathi kwelanga? Thatha ifowuni kungekudala, kodwa emva kokubiza kwe-3-4 kuphela.
- Zama ukuhlawula ingqalelo encinane kumlingane wakho, ukuya kwiklabhu yezempilo, ukuya kwimyuziyam kunye nemibukiso, ngokwemvelo, ngaphandle kwayo. Into ephambili kukuba ubuye ukusuka kwezo zihambo ukuze ungonwabi.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo bachithe ixesha kunye nabahlobo, behleli kunye nabo kude kube sebusuku. Kwaye kungcono ukuba umyeni wakho akazazi iinombolo zeefowuni zala bahlobo.
- Ukuba ubanjwe ungenakunceda ngokubhekiselele emona, zama ukujonga phambi kwakhe ngothando lomnye umntu omaziyo.
- Amantombazana amaninzi acinga indlela yokwenza umyeni owayengumyeni ngomona. Nayi indlela efanelekileyo yokulungiselela ubomi bakho, ukubonisa ukuba ngaphandle kwakho uzive ulungile.
Izimpawu zomona womntu
Ngaba ucinga indlela yokwenza umyeni wakho abe nomona? Kodwa mhlawumbi sele engayifumani indawo yesikhwele, kodwa awuboni? Ngoko, uyayiqonda njani ukuba wakwazi ukwenza umona womyeni wakho?
- Amadoda, nangona zizidalwa ezisuka kwenye iplanethi, zikhwele ngokufana nabafazi. Ngoko ke, ngaphandle kwemibuzo yeklasi "apho kwaye kunye nobani", ukuba babuyela ekhaya kamva kunesiqhelo, kaninzi abakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle.
- Ukuba unomhlobo wesilisa, kwaye udla ngokuqhagamshelana nabo, umyeni onomona uya kubonisa ukuba ufuna ukwazi kangakanani ixesha elide, kwaye uya kuzama ukuqhelana nabo bonke abahlobo bakho.
- Ukuva ukuba uya kwindawo ethile nomhlobo wakho okanye nenkampani apho kukho amadoda angashadile, umyeni wakho unomona kuwe, kwaye uya kuhlala ezama ukukucela.
- Yaye ukuba udibana nomhlobo wakho esitalatweni phambi kwendoda yakho, intanda ethandekayo iza kuza kuwe, kwaye uzakuzama ukutsala ingqalelo kuyo yonke indlela, njengokuthi "lo mfazi uxakekile."
- Kukho olunye uhlobo lwabantu abangenalo ukubonisa umona ngokuvulekileyo. Oku kunjalo ngokukodwa kubantu abasebenzisa ukuba "bahlale buso", ukufihla imizwa yabo. Ukuba umyeni wakho ungowolu hlobo, ngoko ufumanisa njani ukuba wakwazi ukumenza umona? Kule meko, kuya kufuneka uzame kwaye unake ingqalelo kwiinguqu ezincinane kwihambo yomyeni wakho.
Umzekelo, endaweni yokuqala ukusuka emnyango ukuya kukubuza apho ukhona khona, kunye nazo zonke iimeko zokuhlwa, uya kuphuma kwimisebenzi yomsebenzi, njengokuthi "njani kusihlwa?" Kwaye "konke kulungile?". Kwaye kuza kuqala ukuthatha umdla ngomso, kwaye, njengokungathi ngokungaqhelekanga uya kukhumbula ngokuphathelele wakho umhlobo wesikolo, uya kubuza, ixesha elide ukuba uyabonwa. Kwaye ke kuya kuba nzima ukufumana malunga nabani na onkampani ohlala uwatyelela kuyo.
Ngaba uzame zonke iindlela, ungazi njani ukwenza indoda ethandekayo ibe nomona? Kwaye uthetha naye, abanye abantu ababa nomona ngenxa yokuba bayamthanda kwaye bayamthemba okhethiweyo wabo. Mhlawumbi ngombuzo wakho "Ngaba nawe, andinomona nonke?" Ngaba iya kuba impendulo "Ewe, ndingathini, ndiyakuthanda!".