Ngethuba lethu, abasetyhini abangabantwana nabantwana abasayi kubangela ukugxeka okunjalo ngaphambili. Ngelishwa, iintsapho ezingaphantsi ziqhelekile. Kubafazi abasemakhondweni abo bafundisa abantwana babo, kunenjongo ehlukahlukeneyo ekujoliswe kuyo. Makhe sijonge kule nkcukacha ngokubanzi kwaye sifumane ukuba unomama ongenamnye ufumana.
Ngokomthetho, umama ongatshatanga unokuthathwa njengowesifazane ongatshatanga ozala umntwana okanye oqhawula umtshato wakhe. Umhlolokazi akayithathwa njengomzali ongatshatanga, kuba kulo nyaka ityala elikhethekileyo "Ngokuphathelele ukulahlekelwa ilungu elinye losapho" lonyulwe.
Ziziphi iingenelo zoomama abangatshatanga?
- Ngokomthetho waseRussia, oomama abangabasebenzi abanomvuzo wenyanga ka-58 oyalelwe abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-16 ubudala. Ukusebenza koomama abangatshatanga, isibonelelo si-40% somvuzo omyinge.
- Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ngeenzuzo kunye neenzuzo njengomama ongatshatanga, ungaqhagamshelana nabaphathi bezentlalo kwindawo ohlala kuyo. Amagosa karhulumente anyanzelekile ukuba akuxelele zonke iintlawulo ezikhoyo ngoku.
- Ngaphansi komthetho waseUkraine, urhulumente unika umntwana ade afinyelele kwiminyaka eyi-18 ubudala. Ukuba ufunda ifom yexesha elizeleyo-ukuya kwi-23 iminyaka. Imali yentlawulo ngumlinganiselo phakathi kwesigamu somvuzo ophilayo womntwana kunye nomyinge wenyanga yengeniso yenyanga kwinyanga ezintandathu zokugqibela, kodwa kungekhona ngaphantsi kwama-30% omvuzo wokuphila komntwana.
- Ngaphantsi komthetho waseRashiya, ukuba unina omnye unokufumana imali engaphantsi kwe-minimum minance, unelungelo lokuba ngu-15, ukuba uphakamileyo-5. Nani, intlawulo yabantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 isungulwa ngendlela ye-15 ngenyanga.
- Iintlawulo kumama abangabodwa ekuzalweni komntwana wokuqala zi-1000 nina, ekuzalweni kweyesibini - 1600 nina, kunye nokuzalwa kweyesithathu kunye no-2300
- Ngokuphathelele i-Ukraine, ngo-mama wayo wokuqala, u-3500 uyadingeka, ukuba umntwana wesibini - 7.000, ukuba ube ngowesithathu nantoni na elandelayo-14,000.Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iintlawulo ezithile zokubeletha ziyasebenza kwikhefu lokubeleka.
- Abantwana abanina abangatshatanga banokutya ngaphandle kweentlawulo ezikolweni kunye neenkulisa kabini ngosuku. Kukho neenzuzo ezithile kumama ongenamnye ukutyelela abantwana bakhe kwizibonda zezingane kunye nezikolo zobugcisa. Ukongezelela, amaziko okufunda esikolweni sangaphambili, kwindawo yokuqala, yamkela abantwana boomama abasebenza. Ngexesha elifanayo, intlawulo yomxholo iyancishiswa ngesiqingatha.
- Ngokomgaqo wezeMisebenzi, oomama abangatshatanga abachaphazelekayo nokunciphisa abasebenzi kunye nokuxothwa. Ukuba ishishini litshintshiwe, iziqinisekiso ezithile zinikezelwa koomama abangatshatanga ngendlela yokunyanzeliswa kwengqesho. Kwakhona, oomama abangatshatanga banelungelo lokuphumla konyaka.
- Xa utshintshela oomama abangatshatanga, akuvumelekile ukuba bayeke ukugqitywa kwekhontrakthi yengqesho kunye nokunciphisa iintlawulo zabo malunga nokubeleka.
- Ukuba umntwana unokukhubazeka, unina unikezelwa iintsuku ezongezelelweyo ezine ngenyanga.
- Oomama abangatshatanga, irhafu yombuso iyancitshiswa kwaye, okokuqala, izindlu zinikezelwa.
- Ukuba umama ongatshatanga uyatshata, unako ukufumana inzuzo yenyanga yenyanga, kodwa ukuba umyeni uthatha umntwana, le nzuzo iya kulahleka.
Sawahlula amalungelo angundoqo omama ongenamnye, kodwa sinokucebisa ukuba uqhagamshelane namagunya akhethekileyo ngolwazi oluchanekileyo nolwaziweyo okanye ufumane ulwazi kwiikhowudi ezifanelekileyo. Uncedo olungundoqo kubamama abangatshatanga lunikezelwa ngefom yeenzuzo zelizwe. Ukuze ufumane isibonelelo somama ongenamzali, kufuneka ufake isicelo, isitifiketi sokuhlala komntwana, incwadi yokulondoloza kunye nomsebenzi, isitifiketi sokuzalwa kunye nepasipoti.