Yonke into intombazana iphupha ukuba ibe yinto enqwenelekayo kwaye iyinqweneleka, kodwa ngelanga, akubona wonke umntu owaziyo ukuphumelela ingqalelo yabantu. Indoda ayiyikukhathazeka kwaye ihlale ibenomdla kubafazi abathandayo abafazi abanomdla kunye nabalungileyo, uthanda "ukuzingela" nokufezekisa injongo yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ukugcina ukukhusela kuphela xa umntu enqobayo akwanele. Ukuba awufuni ukuba okhethiweyo wakho athobise kuwe, soloko umgcina unqabile nje ungayithandi!
Yintoni abayithobelayo?
- Amabele - le nxalenye yomzimba idonsa indoda kwindawo yokuqala. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba iziphakamiso apha zingabonakali.
- Imilinganiselo yomzimba. Kubalulekile ukuba siqaphele ukuba apha asikhulumi malunga neparameters ukuba ngamnye umfazi ufuna ukufana, oko kukuthi, ukulingana. Ngomntu wesimo sobuhle, akukho mali i-parameters, into ephambili kumntu kukuba ibhinqa lakhe linamalungu omzimba.
- Ubuso bowesifazane. Okumangalisayo kukuba, abaninzi abantu abafuni ubuhle kwimpawu zobuso bowesifazane, kubanele ukuba ubuso bubumnandi bumnandi bumnandi.
Nangona kunjalo, ungagxininisi ukunakekelwa kwabantu, ngokuqinisekileyo abakwazi ukuqaphela i-manicure yokuqala yeklasi okanye i-hair styles, kodwa iinwele ezingcolileyo, izipikili ezide kakhulu kunye nokucoca phantsi kwazo, baya kuzibona ngokuqinisekileyo.
Indlela yokuphumelela ingqalelo yabantu?
Ukutsala ingqalelo yomntu oyithandayo, kufuneka ukhangeleke. Zama ukuhlala uphakathi kwengqalelo, ungazungezi kunye nabahlobo abathandekayo, ngaphandle koko uya kufikeleleka. Amadoda ayesaba ngokungahloneliyo, ingakumbi phambi kwamanye amabhinqa. Ngaphandle koko, kutheni ufuna abakhuphiswano?
Umgaqo oyintloko ekutsaleni ingqalelo yindoda ngumbonakalo ongenakwenzeka. Njalo uzama ukubheka okusemandleni akho, oku akuyi kudibanisa kuphela ukuzithemba kwakho, kodwa ukukhangela umntu oyithandayo.
Ngamamatheka - amadoda athande ukuvuleka kwaye kulula ukuthetha kunye namantombazana, malunga nala mabhinqa, indoda iziva ikhululekile kwaye iqinisekile.
Indlela yokufumana ingqalelo yomntu?
Bonke abantu bangabantu abazingeli bemvelo. Bathanda ukunqoba abafazi, iingcamango zabo zikhuthaza iminqweno yenyama malunga nomntu onomdla kuye. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba umntu unqobe "umbingelelo" uya kuba ngumdla kwaye ubanda. Kwaye a maninzi a mabhinqa aqala ukuzibuza "Indlela yokugcina ingqalelo yabantu?".
Okokuqala, ziqonde ukuba amaqhinga kunye nokukrokra aziyi kukuqwalasela indoda. Kukulungele ukuhlalutya ulwalamano lwakho kwaye ufumane umzuzu xa batshintshile. Mhlawumbi uvumele umntu ukuba 'avule' umphefumlo wakho, ukuba yenzani ukuba uvumeleke ngokuthe ngqo. Indoda imele ihlale "kwi-hook" kwaye ikuthande kangangoko kunoko. Kodwa nangona kunjalo ulahlekile kwaye wawa phantsi kweenyawo apho uphakamise khona umntu, ufuna ngokukhawuleza ukulungisa imeko.
Ukwenza oku, tshintsha ngokuphawulekayo isitayela sakho. Yiya kwi-beautician, utshintshe iinwele zakho, ubuyekeze umbala weenwele zakho, qala ukudlala ezemidlalo uze udle. Unokukuncedisa kwakhona ikhabethe lakho ngezinto ezintsha, zonke ezi ngasentla ziya kukunceda uzive kwakhona njengowesifazane onqwenelekayo kwaye okhangayo.
Emva koko, cwangcisa umhla nomntu. Oku kunokwenziwa kwindawo engakulibalekanga okanye apho ungayi kuphazamiseka khona. Injongo yakho kukuvuselela iqabane lakho, emva koko kufuneka ulungise umphumo. Qala ukusebenza ngeephoso zakho. Ukuba ngaphambili ungavumi ngesondo - bonisa uthando okanye, umzekelo, ukuba ufikeleleke kakhulu - udlale kunye nomntu wakho, umcebise, unganiki ukufikelela emzimbeni, njl njl.
Kwaye ukuba nonke nenza umntu olungileyo ukuba athande nawe kwakhona, kwaye wena ngokuziphakamisa intloko uya kuphinda uthathe indawo yakho yodumo kwi-pedestal yomntu, ujonge impumelelo yakho.