Ukukhweleka komzimba kuyimeko yokukholelwa ngokupheleleyo kumntu okanye okwenzekayo kumlingane ukuba atshintshe .
Bonisa kwaye ubuyisele!
Izibonakaliso zekliniki zesi sifo zivame ukubonakaliswa ukuba umona (okanye umona) uhlala ekhangela ubungqina bokungathembeki kwesiqingatha sakhe sesibini, kunye neengxoxo ezinamandla kunye nezikhombisayo malunga nokuzinikela kwalowo mva ubona ngathi "ngumgaqo-nkqubo wokucoca," ophantsi kwakhe Injongo kuphela: ukumbeka ukuba alale (okanye) aqaphele. Ukongezelela koko, isigulane esinobukhwele besifo, iimpawu zazo zingabonakalisa ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ziphuhlise ngokunyuka, ngokuqhelekileyo zicacisa iinkcukacha ezahlukeneyo zokuziphindisela kwaye zilungiselele ngokucokisekileyo (umzekelo, ithwala isikhali, ukuba iyakwazi ukubamba i-cheaters ngokubomvu).
Umona womntu
Ubukhwele obudlulayo kumadoda buqhelekileyo kunabesifazane, kwaye lukho ngenxa yenguqu kwi-psyche ebangelwa utywala okanye iziyobisi, kwaye unokuba ne-schizophrenia ephuhlisayo kunye neengcamango eziphakanyisiweyo. Indoda ekhweleyo iququzelela ukujonga ngenyameko yomfazi wayo, ngamanye amaxesha isebenzisa iindlela ezininzi zanamhlanje, kubandakanywa izibhugi ezikhuselekileyo, ikhamera zokhuseleko okanye izinto ezibizwa ngokuba zibububuxoki. Uthi "idemoni" lomkhwenkwe womyeni wakhe, ehlezi entloko yakhe, uhlala emxela kuye ukuba othembekileyo, ulala aze abone indlela eya kuguqula ngayo, kwaye akukho nto ebaluleke ngayo: ingaba ngumqhubi we-pizza kunye nomqhubi wemoto edlulayo, kwaye umcebisi kwisitoretye se-hardware. Zonke iinkolelo zakhe ekungabonakali kwezi ngcamango uyaziqonda ngokugqithiseleyo, zibheke njengobunye ubungqina bokuba unelungelo lakhe: ongenatyala akayi kulungiswa.
Umona wesifazana
Iimbangela zokugonyelwa kwabasetyhini, ngokusemthethweni, zihambelane ne-etymology yesifo esifanayo kumadoda, kuphela ngokuchasene neyokugqibela, kwabasetyhini, i-catalyst yeyo ngxaki ihlala ixinezelekile , esekelwe kwiimeko ezincinci ezifakwe kwi-
Ukuze ugweme iintlekele ezinjalo, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda into enye: umona wesifo somntu okanye umfazi yintlupheko yengqondo efuna unyango. Zonke iinzame zokujamelana nale ntlekele ngokwabo zivame ukuphela kakubi, kwaye kunye naluphi na ukusola ngesimo esingaqhelekanga somsindo, umntu kufuneka afune uncedo olufanelekileyo.