Abasetyhini abaninzi banengxaki yokungahlambuluki, ukungagcwaliseki, njl. Ukususela phi na iinkolelo kunye nendlela yokonwaba kunye nokuphumelela, nangona kukho naziphi iimeko zokuphila, oku kuya kuxoxwa emva koko.
Amantombazana amaninzi ekuphefumlweni komphefumlo abavakalelwa yimfuneko yamava amahle, kwaye entloko bahlala becinga ingcamango efanayo "Ndifuna ukuvuya." Ukuba senza umbuzo oyintloko kule ngxaki ngale ndlela "ndiza kuvuyiswa nini na?", Emva koko lo mzuzwana awuze ufike. Ukuze ulungele kwaye unemizamo encinci ukufezekisa okufunekayo, kufuneka uhlawule iingcebiso ezimbalwa ngezansi.
Indlela yokuba mnandi kwaye uyonwabile?
Ingxaki yexesha lanamhlanje ikhona kwinto yokuba ukuba umntu uyonwabile, ngoko akanandaba nantoni na. Enye into umntu onobunzima obunzima kunye nobungqingili obangela umdla kunye nenceba kunye nezihlobo zakhe nabahlobo bakhe, kunye nabangamazi ngokupheleleyo. Amantombazana athembele kakhulu kule nto yokuba ziza ziza neengxaki kunye nemingcipheko endleleni eya kwizinto ezifunwayo, ngelixa liye lathi "Ndiya kuvuyiswa nantoni na," kunokumisa nje kwaye ujabule le ntliziyo.
Utshintsho lufanele luqale nawe. Musa ukutshintsha uxanduva ngenxa yokungabikho kwexesha kuwe okanye kwiimeko zokuphila. Ukuze ube nolonwabo, kubalulekile ukuba wenze umgudu omkhulu ukufunda ukufunda ubonwabo kwizinto ezilula.
Iindlela ezili-10 zokuba ngumntu onoyolo
- Unganqikazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho, vulela abantu abatsha abafumana kuwe endleleni.
- Musa ukukhathazeka ngezihlwele. Iiseli zamagulane ziphucula ngokukhawuleza, ukwenzela ukuba zihlale zijikeleza, kufuneka zinyamekele.
- Zithande. Naluphi na idatha yangaphandle ongenayo, khumbula ukuba iimpazamo, kwakunye nesidima santoni na. Eyona nto ibhetele, yilelo bhinqa elizibukeleyo kwaye likwazi ukugxininisa inzuzo yalo.
- Sebenzisa ixesha elininzi nabantu abasondele kuwe. Izihlobo kunye nabahlobo baya kuqonda kwaye bakwamkele, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ungubani, ngoko ke yindlela efanelekileyo yokuzinqabisa nokuzalisa umthombo womphefumlo.
- Zi nwabisa. Nangona uneminyaka engakanani kunye nokuba utshatile, ungakulibali wena kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uzinike ithuba lokuzonwabisa okanye ubuncinci nje.
- Gwema iimeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Oku akusebenzi kancinci kwinto yokuba kufuneka ubaleke xa uvakalelwa kukuba umoya uyafudumala, kodwa kunokuba iziganeko zongquzulwano kunye nezinto ezixinzezelekileyo akufanele zithathwe entliziyweni. Kwaye nangona kunjalo ukuguqula ibe yingxaki yesikali "jikelele".
- Ngaphantsi kwehla. Smile kaninzi. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafumanisa ukuba ukuncwina kukwandisa ukhenketho kwabasetyhini emehlweni kwesini esahlukileyo ngo-22%.
- Qaphela njengomntu. Ukuba ucinga ukuba i-robot yakho ibuthathaka kwaye ixolise, zifumane uhlobo oluthile lokuzilibazisa ukunambitha.
- Sebenzisa ixesha ngokuhlakanipha. Musa ukulibazisa isiganeko esimnandi kuwe ebhokisini elide, unike ixesha kubathandekayo bakho, yenza okuthandayo
shishini kwaye ufumane uvuyo lobomi. - Yonke imihla, funda into entsha. Funda iincwadi, sebenzisa i-intanethi, ufumane ihlabathi.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukusebenzisa le mithetho ingentla ayiyi kukwanela ukuba kuphumelele kwaye kulungile, ngoko kufuneka ufumane isiluleko somntu ngamnye kwi-psychologist. Ukucebisa abaxumi kulo mbandela lukhokelo olupheleleyo oluhlukeneyo kwengqondo, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba uthathe uthabatha uncedo lwenzululwazi, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana iimpendulo kuyo yonke imibuzo yakho malunga nendlela onokuvuya ngayo.