Ngethuba lothando, amaqabane anqwenelekayo ngomnye nomnye ukuba aboni nantoni na. Ubomi babo bobulili bohlukeneyo kwaye bungaqhelekanga, ezingenakutsholwa ngobudlelwane obusondeleyo obude behlala phantsi kophahla olulodwa lwabantu. Izizathu zokuba indoda ingayifuni umfazi, zininzi kwaye kunengqiqo ukuza kubazi kakuhle.
I-Monotony kunye nesimo
Enyanisweni, esi sizathu esiqhelekileyo sokuntuleka komntu. Xa amaqabane enza isigqibo sokuhlala kunye, loo mntu ucinga ukuba ngoku uya kulala ngesinye isihlandlo ngosuku, kodwa kuvela ngokuhlukileyo. Intsapho ayinikezeli amalungelo kuphela, kodwa iyanceda. Ibhinqa liyingxenye yesetyhini yomsebenzi wendlu, indoda iyindoda, kwaye kunjalo bobabini basebenzayo, kwaye xa umntwana evela kwintsapho, ixesha liba lingaphantsi komnye. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nokunyamekela kuphela kunokuphupha - kuxhomekeke kwishedyuli yentsana kwaye iba "ngumsebenzi" wangempela, obangela ukuba kuncipha umnqweno.
Ukuba songeza apha ukungabikho kwexesha lokuba ibhinqa lizinyamekele, ukuguga ngokwemveli, kunye nokungahlali kokulala, kuvela njengoko kuvela. Indoda iyeka ukutsala kumlingane ongenalutho-yingakho indoda engathandi ukulala nomkakhe. Akunakuqonda ukuba uyacaphuka kwaye umona umfazi kumntwana, kuba le imeko eqhelekileyo, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana uyindoda. Kakade, umnqweno uyanyamalala kuphela kwiqabane. Ibhinqa elithintekayo ekunyamekeleni umntwana alinakukwazi ukucinga nantoni na into. Ucaphukiswa "yimizamo" yomyeni wakhe, kwaye akaqondi ukuba ungazifuna njani ukulala ngesifo esinjalo.
Amangalo omlomo kunye nokungaqondani kwindlela yengqondo yengqondo zizathu eziqhelekileyo ukuba umfazi akafuni umyeni, kwaye ngokufanayo. Ukongezelela, amaqabane asele asetshenziselwa omnye nomnye, afundisisa zonke izibhengezo, ukuba abazilindeli nto entsha kunye nokwenza uthando "kumatshini". Ukongeza, kudla ukuba kwenzeka ukuba emva kokuqala kobomi bentsapho, amaqabane afumanisa ukuba ahlukeneyo nama- biorhythms . Omnye "i-lark", kwaye umntu "yi-owl". Ngoko ke, umnqweno wendalo wokwenza uthando kusasa, ugijimela eludongeni lokungaqondi nokucaphuka ngenxa yokuba awamniki i-nap.
Ukhohlakele
Ingumphumo wazo zonke ezi zizathu zengqondo ezichaza isizathu sokuba indoda ingathandi ukuba umfazi angabikho. Iqabane likhangele kwaye lifumene kwicala lonke eliye layeka ukufumana kwintsapho - ukunakekelwa, ingqwalasela, ukuncomeka nokungabikho kwamabango. Ukongezelela, inkosikazi izama ukubheka okuhle kumlingani, kwaye ngokwesini i-indefatigable kwaye ihlale ilungele ukulinga. Kucacile ukuba ubuyela ekhaya, indoda ayifuni umfazi emva kokungcatsha kwakhe, kuba sele eyanelisekile umnqweno wakhe, kodwa umfazi ongenamdla akathandani nantoni, kodwa ngehlazo. Ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo malunga nendlela yokujongana nenyaniso yokuba indoda ayifuni umfazi iya kuba yinto engalinganiyo: ukucinga kwakhona ngesimo sakhe sengqondo kunye nokuziphatha, kuba kule imeko bobabini bayasimangalela.
Okokuqala kufuneka uhlale phantsi kwaye uhlalise ngaphandle kokufungela konke ukuxoxa, thola oko umntu akulindeleyo komnye nomnye. Inokwenzeka ukuba, umfazi uya kuphendula kwindoda enengqiqo efanelekileyo ekhaya kunye ne-caress kunye namagama anomusa. Uya kuba nexesha elide lokuzimela, ukunyamekela ukubonakala kwakhe. Kunengqiqo ukutshintsha i-entourage kwaye ungenzi uthando kumbhedlele womtshato, kodwa kwenye indawo, umzekelo, kwibhalkoni. Akunakunqwenela ukuthenga into ethile kwizinto zokudlala zesini kunye nokuhlela umdlalo odlala indima. Ukuba amaqabane awazange alahlekelwe ngumdla omnye komnye ngaphambi kokuphela, kwaye afuna ukuba kunye kunye, yonke into iyayilungiswa kwaye yonke into ixazululwe, into ephambili kukuhlangabezana nezifiso zenye icala kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo ufuna ukuthanda umntu obathandayo.