Xa uthanda, okokuqala, kuyathakazelisa ukwazi ukuba ngaba oku kudibeneyo. Kodwa amadoda alungile, kwaye akwazi ukuzifihla kakuhle iimvakalelo zabo. Umntu nje uloyiko lokuba anganqatshwa okanye abukeke ebuthathaka emehlweni omthandayo.
Kodwa akusiyo yonke into elawulwa ngumntu. Umzekelo, i-gesticulation, eyaziwa nzima kakhulu ukulawula. Imimicry, amehlo kunye nezenzo zitsho kakhulu, nangona umntu engafuni. Ulwazi lweelwimi lwezandla luya kunceda ukubala indoda ethandeni ngesangqa sohlobo.
Iimpawu ezininzi ezingabonakaliyo zingabonwa ngokujonga ubuso bomntu othandweni. Uvalo lukhawuleza lubonakalisa ebusweni, oluba luvulekile kwaye lunobungane. Emehlweni kwangoko kukho uvuyo, kwaye bavutha nje ngovuyo. Xa amehlo ejoliswe kumfazi abathandayo, abafundi bavule kunye neenki. Ukwandiswa kweebheji kunye nokubonakala kobuhlungu emadleleni kubonisa uvuyo lwendoda.
Naka ingqalelo, njengendoda ethandwayo ibukeka, ukuba uhlala kwinkampani yabantu abaqhelekileyo, uya kuhlala ukhangeleka. Xa uzama ukuguqulela ingqalelo yakho, amehlo akhe aya kubuyela kuwe ngokuzikhethela. Ukufihla imfesane yakhe, umntu angakucinga ngento efanelekileyo yokubonga kwakhe, ezama ukumbamba amehlo akhe onke amanqaku.
Ukuba, xa encokola nawe, amathumbu akhe avulekile, umlomo uvuliwe kancane, iilebhu ziphakanyiswa kwaye zidlalwa, kwaye intloko ithambile kwindlela oya kuyo, unokuvuya - unomdla kakhulu kuwe kunye namaphupha ukuze wandise le ngxoxo.
Umzimba womntu uphinde ubonise into yothando. Jonga ngokukhawuleza kwaye ulwimi lomzimba luya kuxelela indoda enothando nawe.
Ulwimi lweelwimi lomntu othandweni
- wayehlala ehlenga okanye ephazamisa iinwele zakhe, kwaye akusiyo okokuqala ngxoxo;
- ilungisa iimpahla okanye i-hairdress, njengokungathi ikhupha uthuli olungekhoyo kwindoda;
- uchukumisa ubuso kunye nokutsala kumaqhosha eengubo;
- Ulungelelanisa amahlombe kwaye uzame ukudweba esiswini;
- iikopi zakho zentshukumo;
- Ubeka isandla sakhe ehlombe lakho okanye esinqeni sakho.
Ungaphuthelwa njengobungqina obubalulekileyo - ilizwi lomntu othandwayo. Xa uthetha ngelizwi lakho eliyintandokazi, amazwi aya kutshintsha, iya kuba mncinci kwaye iqiniseke ngakumbi, ayiyi kuba nayiphi na imibala ephilileyo kunye neyobuhlanga.
Imizobo ebonisa ukukhangwa ngokwesondo, indoda ethandwayo
- zibeka inyawo;
- Izandla zisezinqeni okanye ezinqeni, ngoko amadoda agxininisa kwizinto ezintle;
- isithupha sisemva kwebhanti;
- uthinta umqala kunye nentsimbi;
- idlala ngezinto ezijikelezayo.
Kuya kubakho ukuqaphela indlela indoda ethandwayo ibonakala ngayo. Ngezinye izihlandlo xa umntu ethandana naye, uyayilumkisa ngokubonakala kwakhe. Uzama ukuba mnandi kwaye ahlambuluke kakuhle, kunye neentlobo ezikhethiweyo zokugqoka kunye ne-cologne. Unako ukuhamba ngekhati elingakhange ligcinwe kwivenkile, kodwa ukuba kukho ncinane nje ithuba, ukudibana nomntu othakazelisayo apho, uya kufaka i-suit yakhe engcono yokuthenga.
Kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ulwimi lwezandla luyinkimbinkimbi, kwaye akusoloko kulula ukwenza izibonakaliso zomzimba. Kwaye ukuba awukhathaleli lo mntu, kuya kuba nzima ukuchazela ngokucacileyo ukuziphatha kwakhe, umnqweno oqinileyo wokusondeza into enqwenelekayo inokufakela ukuqonda. Kule meko, kuphela iimpawu eziqinisekisa ukuba iingcamango zibonwa, ezinye izibonakaliso zilahlwa ngokungazi. Kubonakala ngathi indoda inomdla kuwe. Abathandana ngokuqhelekileyo baphatha yonke into bayayithanda kwaye, ukuze baphephe oku, umntu akafanele enze izigqibo ezikhawulezayo. Ukuze ungadabuki kamva, kungcono ukulinda de ukutshintshi kuqinisekiswe ngobungqina obuninzi beemvakalelo zakhe kuwe. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba luncedo, ukubonakaliswa kwenkathalo, okanye isipho esingalindelekanga kweholide okanye isimemo somhla, njl.