Ukukhulelwa kunye nesondo - ingadibaniswa na? Iyeza lanamhlanje alinanto ngokuchasene nolwalamano lwabafazi ngexesha elihle kakhulu, kokubili kubo kunye nakumfazi. Kodwa umbuzo wokuba isondo sivumelekile kwiimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa sihlala sisengxaki. Kwaye iingcamango zeogqirha apha zingaphambukisa.
Abanye bathi isondo sokuqala likhuselekile kulo mfazi kunye nomntwana wakhe. Ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa, izitho zomzimba zesini zivelisa ngokugqithiseleyo i-hormone, ngoko ke umfazi ufumana umnqweno omkhulu wesini. Kukho imfuneko yokuba sisondele ngokomoya nangokwenyama kumntu othandekayo, uzive ukhuseleko lwakhe kwaye uzive uthanda.
Abanye banokuqiniseka ukuba isondo esinjalo sinobungozi kuba ngexesha le-orgasm, izicatshulwa ze-uterine zingakhokelela ekuzalweni kwangaphambi kokuqala okanye ukutshatyalaliswa kwesisu. Kukholelwa ukuba umfazi, esesimweni, uhlala eziva ephilileyo kwaye ngenxa yokukhathala kwakhe rhoqo, ukwenzela ukuba umnqweno wakhe wesini unciphise.
Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba iziphakamiso ezinjalo "ngokuchasene" zavela, okokuqala, ukukhusela lo mfazi kwiinkathalo ezingaphezulu kuye kumyeni wakhe. Emva koko, akuyena wonke umlingane onothando uyayinyamekela umfazi ukuba uyakwazi ukuphulaphula intlalontle yakhe, inikwe isikhundla sakhe, kwaye uya kukwazi ukunika ukwaneliseka kwakhe.
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Abazali abaninzi bayesaba ukuba bangalimaza umntwana wabo ngokwenza uthando, kodwa okokuqala, umntwana uncinci kumanyathelo okuqala okukhulelwa ukuba akunakwenzeka ukumlimaza. Okwesibini, isilumko somama osisilumko siqinisekisile ukuba isondo kungekuphela kokukhulelwa kwangaphambili, kodwa nakwiinyanga ezidlulileyo akunakonakalisa umntwana. Ekubeni umntwana ekhuselwe ngokuqinisekileyo ngamanzi e-ocacodial, i-uterus kunye ne-placenta, ngaphezu koko, umlomo wesibeleko ovela kwicala lomfazi uphazamiswa ngeplagi. Kwakhona kwaziwa ukuba ubuhlobo obusondeleyo buhamba kunye nokukhululwa kwe-endorphins - i-hormone yovuyo. Abasetyhini abaninzi bayaqaphela ukuba isondo ngexesha lokuqala lokukhulelwa linceda ukufezekisa i-orgasms eqaqambileyo, ngelixa unika ukwaneliseka okunzulu. Oogqirha bathi ukuba ngethuba le-orgasm, kukho ukuqeqeshwa ngaphambi kokubeleka.
Cinga ngeenzuzo ezithathwa ngokwesini ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwangaphambili:
- Akukho sikhumba esikhulu esikhulayo, esenza imida eyahlukileyo.
- I-Orgasm ifumaneka ngokukhawuleza kunexesha eliqhelekileyo, kuba kwiingxenye zentsimbi encinci ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ukunikezelwa kwegazi kwanda.
- Ubundlobongela buqeqesha imisipha yeso sibele, esiluncedo ngexesha lokubeletha.
- Ukufika kwiiveki ezingama-13 ukuya kwe-14, i-embryo idinga i-spermatozoa njengento ephezulu yeprotheni.
Kodwa kusekho izizathu zokuthi kungani ufanele ugweme ukulala ngokwesigaba sokuqala:
- Ubukho besongelo lokukhulelwa kwesisu.
- Ukuzalwa kwangaphambili (kwi-anemnesis).
- Ukuvuza kwe-amniotic fluid (ingozi enkulu yokusuleleka).
- Izikhundla okanye iplascent ephantsi.
- Ukukhulelwa okuninzi.
- Ukuhlanjululwa kwi-vagina (kule meko kuyimfuneko ukubonisana nomzimba wezifo zentsholongwane njengoko le nto ingaba noqhagamshelwano oluphuma kumlomo wesibeleko sombeletho).
- Kubalulekile ukuyeka ukulala ngesondo xa, ngaphambi kokuqala kokukhulelwa, kufuneka ukuba kube nokuya esikhathini. Oku kubangelwa kukuba kule mihla ingozi yokukhulelwa kwesisu iyakhula, kuba umzimba wesibhozo kwiminyaka emininzi ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kuqhele ukukhupha isisu kunye noshintsho olujikelezayo.
Ngokomzekelo, umama ozayo unokufumana ubuhlungu obukhulu beentlanzi ze-mammary, i-toxicosis, i-malaise kunye neentloko. Ukuba kulo meko, akayi kuba yilapho ubuhlobo kunye nesisombululo sinye kule meko - lindela. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba akukho zichaso ezikhethekileyo, ngoko isondo, ingakumbi nge-orgasm, inzuzo ayikhona kuphela kumama, kodwa nakumntwana.