Yonke imini abantu bayatshintshana kisses, ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphandle kokungcatsha elo xabiso, kwaye xa uhamba ngokujulile, ukubamba konke kuthetha into ethile, kwaye ukubonakaliswa kothando okunjalo kuyahluka kakhulu. Akunakwenzeka ukuthelekisa ukubaluleka kokumangalela nomhlobo kunye nezihlobo, intombi. Ngendlela owakwanga ngayo umntu, kwaye yiyiphi imvakalelo oye wayibona xa unokuqonda kakuhle. Kungenxa yolu nyathelo abantu abavakalayo ukuba ngaba bafanelekile. Ubusiso buvame ukuba luhlobo oluthile lomyalezo obhaliweyo, kungenxa yoko, ngokukodwa abameli be-half half of humanity baqwalasela indlela abathanda ngayo amadoda abo. Kungaba ngumnxeba ongenatyala emlonyeni wakho, ukubamba ngobungane esesidini okanye ukumangalisa okumnandi komntwana wesikolo othandweni, oya kuwukhumbuza ixesha lokuphila. Ngokukhethekileyo, amaninzi amantombazana ayayithanda xa bebanga ngentshiseko, kuba oku kubonisa ukuqala kwintlalo yokuzonwabisa yesondo.
Zivamise emlonyeni nangentsingiselo yalo
Iibini ezithandanayo, eziye zahlala ndawonye ixesha elide, ngokuqinisekileyo azibandakanyi ukubaluleka kokubamba. Abantu bayalibala malunga nokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba ibhinqa lizive lifunwa, kwaye ukukrakra okumnandi emilonyeni kwimeko enjalo akuyi kuba yingozi. Ngokuqhelekileyo abamele isahlulo esinamandla sabantu banqwenela ukubanga abafazi babo ngendlela elula kwaye elula, kumbulela, ngenxa yesidlo esimnandi okanye ezinye izinto zasemakhaya, kodwa ubudlelwane bezocansi akufanele zidlule ngaphandle kwezi zinto. Senza ingqalelo yakho ebakozela entanyeni, izandla, idama nezinye iindawo azibalulekanga. Into ephambili kukuba utyalole kubo ngokunyaniseka, inzondelelo kunye novelwano. Amakhanda anokunceda ukuqonda ukuba ubuhlobo obubini buvumelana.
Kubaluleke kakhulu kukuqala kokubanga. Nangona unesihawu esinamandla kumntu, ukumanga omnye kunokutshintsha ngokupheleleyo ingcamango yakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngendlela umlingane owanga ngayo, unokuxelela into eninzi ngaye, kuze kube mzuzwana apho uvakalelwa khona.
Ukuba umlomo uxinzelelekile, oku kubonisa ukuba iqabane alifuni ukuqhubeka nomdlalo wothando, kwakhona, impendulo ibonisa isimo sengqondo esinzulu. Ukuhamba kweelwimi kunokuthi umntu ufuna ukulala ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukunyakaza okunyanisekileyo kuthetha ukulungela ixesha elide.
Iimpawu zokubanga kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zomzimba
Ukubamba esihlathini kuthetha ukuba iqabane lakho lifuna ukubonisa ukuba uyakudinga kwaye unombulelo kuwe ngokusondela kuye. Ukuba wakho umthandayo uwanga isandla sakho, kuthetha ukuba uyabahlonela kwaye uyakuhlonipha. Kodwa ukuba ucinga ngokubanga kwesandla kunye nenjongo yalo ngcaciso engakumbi, kuyafaneleka ukuthobela ingqalelo uhlobo lokubanga. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu uzama ukumanga zonke iminwe yentombazana, oku kubonisa ukuba uyamncoma, kwaye umgca weengalo zomlomo ngeenkulungwane zithathwa njengobonakaliso bokukhwabanisa ngokwesondo kummeli wesahlulo somntu onobuthathaka.
Ukubethwa ebunzini kuthetha ukuba abameli bobabili ngesini izinto ezahlukeneyo, umzekelo, amadoda abhekisela kwisenzo esinjalo
Ukumanga empumlweni kwakusoloko kuthetha into enhle neyomntwana. Oku kubonisa ukubonisa ububele kunye novelwano. Indlela ephosakeleyo yokubonisa iimvakalelo , uthetha ngothando oluqotho.