Ukuthandwa nokukhutshwa. Ngaba akunjalo nawuphi na umfazi ofuna? Ukuba indoda ibheka umntu wakhe okhethwe ngumbono emehlweni akhe, ufuna umfazi wayo, ngoko oku kuluphawu olucacileyo lokuba akayi kubheka omnye umntu. Kuwuphawu lokuba indoda ngaphakathi kuye ihlale iyaneliseka ngokwesondo, nto ibalulekile ekuphuculweni kokubomi bakhe.
Ngokuvisisana, ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ngokwenene ukubona abantu, kwaye ngokukodwa isini esahlukileyo, ngokugqithiseleyo, ukwazi ukuba, umzekelo, lo ngumntu ofuna ukufezekisa, ilifa leli bhinqa. Oku akuyi kuxoxwa kuphela kwinqaku lethu.
Inombolo eyimfihlo 1: iimpawu zomdla womntu kumfazi
- Amehlo, jonga . Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba xa umntu ebheka into yokubonga kwakhe, abafundi bakhe bandisa. Ukongezelela, ukuba uyithandile isibindi esihle, uya kuhlolisisa ukusuka entloko ukuya enzwaneni. Ungathandabuzeki, kwisihlwele, uya kukwazi ukukufumana kwangoko.
- Smile . Ungenza njani ukumamotheka kumntu ojika ubomi ibe yindalo? Ngoko ubuntu obunqandekileyo, ukuzama ukungaxhamli ngokungazenzisiyo, xa uthetha nawe, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kunika ukumomotheka okukhulu.
- INtloko . Kwakhona, enye yeempawu eziphambili zomdla womntu kwintombazana kukuthambekela kwentloko ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye. Oku kubonakaliso olucacileyo lokuba uphelele ngokupheleleyo kwingxoxo nawe.
- Izinwele . Ngaba uyathinta iinwele zakho ngokungathi zibandakanyeka? Oku kubonisa ukuba ufuna ukuba yinxalenye yendawo yakho.
- Iingxoxo ezingcolileyo . Bathi amadoda akayiqondi iziphakamiso, kodwa ngokuchasene nale nkcazo, isondo esahlukileyo sisebenzisa iincwadana ezingaqhelekanga, amahlaya anqwenela kumfazi, uyintoni na ayifunayo kuye.
- Ulwimi lweelwimi . Isenzo esona sisisigxina sezo zesini zilandelayo: ubeka izandla zakhe kwiipokethi zeebhulukhwe zakhe, kunye nezontathu ngexesha libonisa. Izandla zakhe ezinqeni zakhe nomzimba wakhe "ukhangele" kwindlela yakho? Ungakujonga ngokukhuselekileyo oku njengomnqweno wendoda ukuba uqhubeke nencoko kwindawo esondeleyo, apho kungekho mntu unokuphazamisa amabini.
- Kubonakala . Ukuba uqhelane nalo mntu kungekhona ngosuku lokuqala, ziqaphele ngokwakho: ngaba libukeka libhetele, yonke imihla iguqula yonke into engcono kwaye ilungile, ngexesha elifanayo nokuba isithinteli sezwi sitshintsha kwingxoxo nawe, nokuba ingaba ityiti yomtya ibophelelwe.
- > Izenzo. Ukuba indoda ifuna ibhinqa, enye yeempawu eziqaqambileyo zezi nguye xa yena, ngokungathi ngengozi, uyakuchukumisa eludongeni okanye uyayigcina isicatshulwa ngesandla sakhe.
Inombolo eyimfihlo yesi-2: iimpawu ukuba umntu akafunanga kuphela, kodwa uthanda nomfazi
- Umdla wesondo . Akagcini nje ngokuchukumisa ngesondo ngomlomo wakhe, kodwa naye uzama ukufumana okungakumbi malunga nomfazi, uzama ukwabelana ngeminqweno yakhe, nangona okokugqibela kufuna ukuba anikele into yokuzilibazisa , izinto ezithandwayo, njl njl.
- Injongo enzulu . Ukuba umntu othile umfazi uthi umntu ufuna ukwakha
ubudlelwane obukhulu kunye nokwenza zonke iintlobo zezinto zokwenza ukuba kwenzeke, apha akukona nje ukukhangwa kwezesondo, kodwa ngokuphathelele uthando. - Uyingxenye yalo . Indoda iya kuhlala iyinyamekela intsapho yakhe. Uya kuzama ukudala iimeko ezintle kakhulu. Xa eqonda ukuba umthandi uyaziva ekhuselekile kwaye ekhululekile, ngoko uya kuhamba ngokuthe ngqo kwiqhinga elibizwa ngokuthi "u-Sex" kwaye njengokungathi wayichukumisa ngengozi yakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba izazi zesondo zifikile kwisigqibo sokuba, ngaphandle kweendlebe, zilapha ukuba indawo eyona ndawo iphela. Ngethuba lokugaya, izandla ezisezulwini, uya kuhamba njengokungathi utyhafisa umfazi.