Ukukwazi ukunandipha ubomi kwimizuzu encinane kunazo zonke akunikezelwa ngokuzalwa, kodwa kuphuhliswa kwiminyaka emininzi. Omnye ufunda ukuzonwabisa ngexesha elihle emva kokulahleka okukhulu okanye, ekupheleni kwentlekele, abanye banokuqiniseka okungapheliyo ngenxa yobume .
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafakazela ukuba abantu abanako ukuzonwabisa ubomi bahlala ubomi obude kunye novuyo. Kwakhona, ukuvakalelwa kwexesha elihle kubangelwa "ukushicilela" kwimilo ephakamileyo yomlomo, ngelixa ubuso buhlala bunomdla obonwabileyo. Kodwa abantu-ubuso obuthathekayo buba nzima kwaye utshintsho oluncinane "kwiintsuku" ezinobomi babo.
Unokufumana njani uvuyo ebomini?
Umntu ufumana uvuyo ebomini kwimeko yokuba unelisekile kwimiba ejikelezileyo. Oko kukuthi, xa uthanda umsebenzi, ucocekile ekhaya, intsapho enobubele - umntu ufumana iimvakalelo ezintle ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezifanayo abanye abantu banelisekile ngomsebenzi wabo, ngelixa abanye bengenzi. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abazali bayavuya gqitha kukuba umntwana wabo ungumfundi obalaseleyo, ngelixa kwezinye iimeko ezingenzi ukwaneliseka. Ngako oko, kuya kuba nomntu ozonwabela ubomi okanye engaxhomekeke kuye ngokwakhe, kungekhona kwintlalontle ejikelezileyo, tk. kukho abantu abaninzi abacebileyo kunye nabaninzi abanolonwabo ngobomi behlwempu.
Zininzi izihlandlo zivelisa uvuyo ebomini bomntu, kodwa kwindawo yokuqala - iphumle kunye nemizwa emitsha emihle. Nawuphi na umsebenzi oyintandokazi kunye nexesha uyaba mnandi kwaye ulungelelanise. Ngabantu bezinto ezizodwa zobugcisa (abaculi, abaqulunqi) emva kweminyaka embalwa bayiqaphele ukuba sele bekhathele ngokuqulunqa nokuqulunqa ukuba inkqubo yokudala imisebenzi ayinakho ukuhambelana neemvakalelo. Nangona kunjalo, kukufanelekile ukuhamba eholide, utshintshe imeko yendawo emva kweeveki ezimbalwa kwaye umntu uzele uvuyo kunye namandla ukwenza izinto ezintsha.
Unokufumana ulonwabo olungapheliyo kwiintsapho zobomi, kwintsapho edibeneyo wonke umntu uxhasana, kwaye ilungu ngalinye losapho lithatha isimo sengqondo esihle. Kuyinto enhle ukuhamba kunye nomthandwa wakho epakini, ukuvuyela yonke incumo yomntwana. Intsapho ihlabathi elincinci elizaliswe zivuyo, liqondwa kuphela ngamalungu ale seli. Emva koko, unina kuphela onokumomotheka, ukuba umntwana akanxibe ngokungathandabuzekiyo, uchaze ibinzana elichaza nayiphi na intsapho kwintsapho, kodwa ngendlela yakhe.
Kwintsapho edibeneyo, isizukulwana esidala sinokwabelana ngesiluleko esilumkileyo, sikufundise ukuba siphumelele "iikona ezibukhali" zobomi kwaye sikufundise ukuba ujabule nangokungaphumeleli. Ukuba abantu abadala baqonda ukuhluleka ngokumamotheka, isizukulwana esincinane siza kufunda ukujonga kakuhle "kwizifundo zexesha elizayo" kwaye singaqwalasela izigwenxa zabo "isijeziso sikaThixo" ngenxa yokuba abantu abangenangqondo baya kulila iintsuku eziliqela.
Kukho uvuyo oluninzi lobomi lobomi, umzekelo, ilanga likhanya - kwaye abaninzi abantu banomomotheka. Xa umntu ephethe kakuhle, yonke into efika kuye - ukuhleka komntwana womnye umntu, abathandekayo abathandekayo kwibhentshi elandelayo, iintaka eziculayo, ukuwa kweqabunga, njl njl.
Unokufumana njani uvuyo lobomi?
Ukuba uyayazi indlela yokufumana iziphumo kuzo zonke iziganeko, ngoko uyavuya ngoobomi bakho, uyazi indlela yokuvuya kuyo yonke imihla. Emva koko, zonke iimeko
Ukuba uvuyo ebomini ilahlekile ngenxa yeengxaki emsebenzini, khumbula ukuba intsapho ibaluleke ngaphezu kwanoma yimuphi umsebenzi. Ukuza ekhaya emva kosuku olunzima ludiniwe kwaye lucasulwa, uyonakalisa isimo sengqondo somntu wonke, cinga-ngumsebenzi wakho njengale maxhoba. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uthathe isinyathelo esibukhali kutshintsho olutsha, ulahlekelwe ngumsebenzi wakho, owumthwalo namhlanje, kodwa ufumane uxolo kwintsapho kunye nethuba lokufumana umsebenzi ongcono.