Asizange siyeke ukuzama ukungena entloko yendoda kwaye sifumane ukuba zeziphi izidalwa eziyimfihlelo kubasetyhini bathanda, abafazi bathanda amadoda: obunqonqileyo okanye i-pussy, iigundane ezimpunga okanye i-bitch?
Ngaba amadoda afana nabafazi abagciniweyo?
Icandelo lefilimu yanamhlanje libeka ngokusisigxina kwizinto ezintle zokubambisa, amantombazana angama-anorexic. Ngako oko, akukho nto emangalisa ngayo ukuba sinokungabaza ukuba ngaba amadoda afana nabasetyhini abapheleleyo. Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ngokubanzi, amadoda afana nabasetyhini. Bavuyiswa ngamafomu amnandi, athambisa umlomo, ukusuka kumanqanaba afanelekileyo. Amadoda amaninzi acinga ukuba ngumfazi wesimo esifanelekileyo ngesimo se-hourglass - inqwelwe elincinci, isifuba esiphakamileyo kunye neentambo ezijikelezayo. Ngoko amantombazana amancinci akakaze abe ngumda wamaphupha abantu. Kodwa i-pyshekiki ngamaxesha onke ayenandipha ukuthandwa, kwaye amadoda anamhlanje awawudluli. Nangona kunjalo, kuphela ukuba ubukhulu bomzimba buhlonishwa - inxalenye yenyama ayinakwenzeka ukuba inomdla kumntu.
Luhlobo luni lwabasetyhini abafana nabo?
Ukuthetha malunga nababhinqa bathanda amadoda, umntu akakwazi ukucinga ukuba into ephambili ibonakala. Sivame ukumbona kakuhle, abafazi abalungileyo abangekho bonke abadumileyo ngabantu. Iingqondo zithi aba bafazi abanalo i-chakra ejongene nesondo. Iingcali zengqondo zivame ukugxeka le mbono yehlabathi kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuziphatha kakubi kwabasetyhini kunye nabameli bobulili obuhlukile.
Ngoko ke banjani abafazi abafana namadoda ethu anamandla? Makhe sijonge kwiingongoma.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lizithande, kuba loo ntokazi isoloko ilungele kakuhle, ibonakala ikhulu. Kwaye oku kuqinisekisiwe ukubhena abantu. Into eyona nto ayiyikuyidlula kwaye ayiyi kuba idonsa elihle, amadoda abo ahlonishwa kakhulu.
- Amadoda athatyathwa ngamantombazana angenangqondo, kodwa ixesha lovuyo ludlula ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke, ingqiqo yowesifazane ibaluleke kakhulu. Enyanisweni, intombi ehlakaniphile iya kuhlala ingabonakali kwamandla akhe, kungenjalo indoda iya kuqala ukuyibona kumdlali, kwaye kungekhona into enomdla.
- Imfundo idlala indima ebalulekileyo kumfanekiso wesifazana, ukukwazi ukuziphatha emphakathini kuyaxabiswa ngabantu. Kodwa ininzi yesondo iya kuba ngumfazi onokuthi aphule imithetho, asebenze ngokuthe ngqo.
- Kutheni amadoda ehlala ekhetha abafazi abadala kunabo, bathanda ntoni? Abaninzi bakhangwa yizo zesini kunye nolwazi lobomi bomfazi, kwaye ubudala bakhe bubonwa njengesiqinisekiso. Ngendlela, kungenxa yeso sihlandlo apho amadoda acinga ama-wrinkles amancinci emacaleni kwamehlo. Kodwa awukwazi ukugxeka yonke into kwi-subconscious, isizathu sokuzikhethela wena umdala kunokuba ube nethuba lokuhlala nomfazi ocebileyo.
- Amadoda afuna ukuziva enamandla, ethembekileyo, ukuthelekiswa, "emva kwakhe, njengodonga lwamatye" kuya kukukholisa wonke umntu. Yingakho baxabisa abafazi abanika iimvakalelo ezinjalo. Abafazi, nangona kunjalo, bebonisa ukuba bonke banako kwaye bengenaye indoda, bangabangeli nantoni na, "kutheni ufuna yena, ukuba yena kunye nenye into emangalisayo."
- Kwaye enye indoda ifuna ukwazi ukuba ibhinqa liyimfuneko, kwaye kungekhona amathuba okubambisana naye anokubonelela.
- Thina vzahleb sifunda imiyalelo malunga nendlela yokuba yintonga, sinethemba lokuba abafazi abanjalo bafana namadoda. Kodwa oku akukwenyani ngokupheleleyo, i-bitch, okwenene, iya kutsala loo mntu, kodwa kangakanani? Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu afune ukuhlala nomntu ozidlayo, ochaphazelekayo kuphela ekwakheni umsebenzi. Yingakho rhoqo "iigundane ezimpunga" zihlala ngokutshatayo emtshatweni, kwaye zikhulule ubudlelwane obukhululekile, zifihla imfuno yabo yentsapho kunye nokufudumala kokomoya.
Ziziphi iintombi ezifana namadoda aphumelelayo?
Amantombazana amaninzi ephuphayo ngumbusi ocebileyo oza kuthatha isigqibo seengxaki zonke. Kodwa ngaba iinkosana zifuna abafazi abanjalo? Ziziphi iintombi ezinjengezityebi? Yonke into incike kumntu, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo oorhwebo bezoshishino banamanani amaninzi ashintshile. Ngoko, banokuphatha umfazi njengongezwa kwimpumelelo yabo. Kule meko, baya kukhetha oko kusemgangathweni, oko kukuthi, intombazana yembonakalo yomboniso, ngokukhethileyo ayikho ihlakaniphile kwaye ifundiswe, ukuze akwazi ukuthatha ubutyebi bayo. Kodwa abantu abazizityebi banokukhangela ibhinqa kunye nomphefumlo, ngoko iimpawu zabo ziya kuba nomdla omncinci. Inzala yabo iya kubangelwa ngabafazi abaphumelele kakhulu, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo balawulwa ukugcina ubufazi.