Namhlanje, abantu abaninzi baninzi bayazi i-intanethi, kodwa ngaba kukho ulwalamano olunjalo okanye luyinto engafaniyo? Kulula kakhulu ukungazi kakuhle kwi-intanethi kunokuba uphile ebomini, udale i-questionnaire kwaye ulindele iileta ezivela kubasemagunyeni, kodwa le yimeko engamangalisa kwaye iqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ayiyikuphela ngomtshato.
Inzuzo yokuthandana kwikhompyutha
- Kwi-intanethi unokufumana abahlobo abatsha emhlabeni jikelele. Ubomi bwenene, kunzima ukudibana nomntu, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo usuku luququzelele ukunyuka emsebenzini kunye nasekhaya, kwaye ngeveki uchitha ixesha kunye kunye nabahlobo bakho endala okanye nosapho lwakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, akukho xesha lokuba nolwazi olutsha, yilapho i-intanethi iza kunceda.
- Nangona ukuba unxibelelwano luyiyo yonke into, unokuqhubeka ukusuka kwiphepha lemibuzo yomdlali, wenze ezinye izigqibo uze uqonde uhlobo lomntu onjani. Jonga umfanekiso wakhe, ukuba kukho imifanekiso emininzi, apho ehlala kunye neentombi ezahlukeneyo, sinokugqiba ukuba ungumfazi. Ukuba esithombeni unesifo esingenanto sithetha indoda ixakeke ngokubonakala kwayo kwaye kaninzi kunengqondo, ilahleka ngokuthelekisa ne-biceps. Ukuba kwiphepha lemibuzo lenza "i-boyfriend" yenza inani elikhulu leepazamo, oku kubonisa ukungakwazi kwakhe. Kwakhona malunga nomntu unokunikela ubungqina kwiinkcukacha zakhe, okanye kunoko, yintoni amagama abhaliweyo.
- Ngoqhagamshelwano oluqinileyo, abantu baninzi babonisa ukunyaniseka kwabo, umzekelo, amanye amadoda abhala ngokucacileyo: "Ndikhangele intombazana ngesondo" kunye nezinto ezinjalo. Ngolwazi lwakhe, umntu unokubonakalisa yonke into ayifunayo ngaphandle kokuhlazeka kwaye kaninzi ebhaliweyo, ukuba ayibonakali ngathi "yindalo enhle" - inyaniso. Ndiyabulela kule nto uza kukwazi ukuzikhethela iqabane elifanelekileyo kunye neqabane.
- Awudingi ukulungiselela umhlangano wokuqala weeyure, uthenge iingubo ezimnandi kunye nezinto ezinjalo, vele uvule ikhomputer kwaye uqale udlala ngothando. Kwaye xa kufika ixesha lokuba uqhelane ngokwenene, uya kulwazi lomntu, ukulungelelanisa kunye nokudumala okukhulu kunxibelelwano, njengokuba ebomini bokwenyani awudingi ukulinda.
- Kwintetho enomdla ongekho ithuba lokucinga malunga nempendulo okanye isigqibo sakho, unokwenza ntoni kwiibhawuni eziqhelekileyo njengoko ufuna.
Umdla wokuthandana kwikhompyutha
- Amadoda amaninzi ukuba afunde nentombazana enhle azalise imibuzo yabo ngeenkcukacha ezingamanga, kwaye emva kokuyifunda umntu unokufumana ingcamango yokuba phambi kwakho "inkosana yehashe elimhlophe." Ukuba ufumana i-questionnaire enezinto ezininzi ezintle, umzekelo, isityebi, unesizungu, ulungele ukubonelela umphefumlo wakho umlingane, njl.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiindawo zokuthandana kubhalisiwe amadoda ashadileyo anabantwana. Enyanisweni, kunzima ukuba amadoda anjalo aqhelane nomfazi, ongenakutsholwa nge-Intanethi. Apho umfazi onomona akanako ukulawula umlingane, ngaphandle kokuba awazi iphasiwedi. Kwiphepha lala madoda, ngokwenene, akukho zithombe, ukhetha okhethiweyo kwaye uqala ukuthetha naye, kwaye uthumele isithombe kwi-imeyile yakhe.
- Musa ukunyamekela imibuzo ebonisa
ulwazi oluqhelekileyo kuphela, akukho caciso, kwaye isithunzi singase silahleke. Ukusuka kumadoda anjalo azi into enokuyilindela, ngoko kungcono ukuba ungathathi elinye ithuba. - Unxibelelwano olungqinileyo aluyi kuzisa olo lonwabo, njengokuba kunjalo. Uthando , iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, konke oku akunakwenzeka kwi-intanethi.
- Intlanganiso yangempela ayinakuhambelana nokulindela kunye nethembiso, kodwa iya kuzisa ukudideka.
Ngoku unokwenza isigqibo nokuba ufuna ukugqiba ukuthandana kwi-intanethi okanye ulinde "inkosana" yakho ngokwenene.