Kwimiba yokukhohlisa, ekuqalekeni, yonke into icacile. Ndiye ndambatha isambatho esifutshane, izicathulo eziqhakaziweyo, iisitokethi ze-fishnet kwaye unokuqiniseka ukuba unomdla nomnxuwa wokujonga abantu. Kodwa ukuba into yokudumisa, umzekelo, umphathi wakho okanye umlingani-ntsebenziswano, ngokohlobo lwesambatho esifanayo kwi-ofisi ye-ofisi akunakwenzeka ukuba lufanelekile. Kulo mbuzo, umbuzo uvela, "Indlela yokuthabatha umfana ngokujonga?" Kwaye ngokubanzi, ingaba ingqwalaselo enjalo iya kuphumelela ngokwaneleyo.
Ngoko, iliso elikhangayo ...
"Ndiyayithanda xa ndibona umdla kwintombazana. Kubonakala kum ukuba ukuba undijonga ngenkalipho kwaye akafihleli amehlo akhe, ngoko uzimisele ukumelana ngakumbi ... "
"Ndiyayithanda xa intombazana ibonisa ukunyaniseka kwayo, njengokungathi ithi ngamehlo akhe:" Yeyiphi indoda epholileyo! Andiyi kukwenzela inkobe yekhofi kunye naye ... "
"... Ujika kakhulu xa intombazana i ndizama ngenyameko, ibiza ukuba ithathe isinyathelo kuqala sam izandla ..."
Ngoko, masibale iziphumo. Amadoda ayaqwalasela indlela abajongwa ngayo ngesondo esilungileyo, ngaphezu koko - bajonga amehlo ukuba abe sixhobo esinamandla sokukhohlisa, ngaloo ndlela, ukwazi indlela yokuyenga umfana onjengekhangelo elingaphandle kwintombazana.
Masilungise izinto ezigqithisiweyo. Ukuze insizwa etafileni elandelayo ikuqwalasele, ngombono wakho kufuneka kube nomdla ovulekileyo, udibaniswe nokunconywa okuncinane. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ungadluli. Awudingi ukumbheka kuye "ne-puppy ecstasy," ngokukhawuleza ukugqabhuka, kwaye uguquke. Ufanele uziphathe njengengonyama, apho yena, ngokwenene, into enomdla kakhulu, kodwa ayikho. Ekubeni, nangona abantu bengavumi, kwamehlo amabhinqa bafuna ukufunda umngeni, umnxeba wokulwa okanye, ukuba ufuna, isimemo sokuthatha inxaxheba kwi-adventure enomdla.
Yiba njalo, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule umgaqo obalulekileyo wendlela yokuzonwabisa nomfana onokubukeka-ukumnika ithemba lokwenza kwakho kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukuzithemba ukuba "uyinto ekhohlisayo."
Umyalelo wenyathelo-nge-nyathelo ekukhohliseni okanye indlela yokonwaba indoda ekhangelekayo:
- Ngaphambi kokuba unikele lo mboniso, thumela kuye ukukhanya okumangalisayo, okumangalisayo okuya kuba yisimemo kwingxoxo.
- Khangela "ngokukhawuleza" ngokubhekisele kwisebe enomdla, uze uthathe amehlo akho kwicala.
- Ukususela ngamaxesha umphonsa ukujonga okukhawuleza "ngaphantsi kwe-eyelashes", ngelixa engakulibali ukumomotheka.
- Inkqubo yokuphatha "ukudubula" amehlo. Oko kukuthi, ekuqaleni, musa ukumnika ithuba lokuhlangana nawe, ukhangela kude, ngokukhawuleza,
ngokukhawuleza xa ebeka ingqalelo kuwe. Ngokwamadoda amaninzi, lo mdlalo ubangela uvuyo kunye nokuzonwabisa. - Kwakhona, ungalibali ngokumamatheka. Funda ukumomotheka ngamehlo akho, okuya kwenza ukuba ukhangeleke ngakumbi.
- Ukuba isifundo somdla wakho siqala ukubheka ngokuqhelekileyo kwinqanaba lakho, ngelixa ungafihleli ukumomotheka - uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo. Kule meko, mncedise, ummise ukuba awukwazi ukumazana. Ukwenza oku, imizuzwana embalwa ukudibana namehlo akhe, kwakhona ukhangele. Ngomphumo omkhulu, phinda le nkqubo kaninzi.
Nangona kunjalo, ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuthabatha umfana onomkhanyo kunqwenela kuphela kulao matyala, ukuba le nto inomdla kakhulu kuwe. Ukuba kukho nje uzimisele ukuvavanya amandla okukhangela kwakho, ngoko usengozini yokuba yintlanzi yokukhathalela kwakhe. Kwaye unomdla ogqithiseleyo, njengokuba uyazi, akuyona into engcono kunokunqongophala ngokupheleleyo komdla.