Wonke umntu onesiqhelo esiseburhulumenteni angakwazi ukufunda iimvakalelo zabanye ngokungazi kwaye afumane ingcamango yokuba umntu ulungile okanye awunjalo, ulungile okanye ulungile. Abanye abantu baqondwa njengengenayo, malunga nabo bathi "hayi," ngelixa abanye benza impembelelo enamandla. Oku kukhwankqisayo, yintoni-kule nqaku yonke malunga neempawu zomntu onjalo.
Ziyintoni intlungu kumntu?
Kunzima ukuchaza eli gama. Ukukhankanywa kweenkokheli ezinempawu ezinjalo kwi-Old and New Testamentamente. Kukho umntu onobukrakra nguThixo onobubele, ubabalo olukhethekileyo. Kwimbali yamandulo yamaGrike eli gama lisetyenziswe ngokumalunga nabantu abakwazi ukutsala ingqalelo kubo. Kwaye amaHaritha ayebizwa ngokuba ngabankulunkulukazi babalo, ubabalo nobuhle. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ukunyaniseka kunokubizwa ngokuba ngumntu othakazelisayo, umntu okholisa onikwe iimpawu zomnxibelelwano.
Abo banamandla angaphezu kwamandla angaphantsi bawa phantsi kwesi ncazelo. Yiba nokuba kunjalo, unokuqiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ubuntu obunomdla ngumntu ongeyena mntu onobuntu obonakalisiweyo, umkhanyo othelekiswa nomlingo. Kubantu abaneempawu kunye neenqweno zenkokheli, abantu bayolulela kwaye banqabise ngokuzonwabisa phantsi kwemibala yozuko lwabo.
Charisma - Psychology
Ubuntu buyabonwa ngeempawu kunye neepropati ezikhokelela abantu emva kwazo, zibakhothamele, zithembe kwaye zikholelwe kumathuba angenamkhawulo. I-Charisma isesigcini sokuqatshelwa luluntu jikelele, esilungiselelwe umntu. Nantsi indlela akwenza ngayo, acinga, athetha. I-Charisma njengobungakanani bomntu ibonakaliswe kumgangatho wendalo. Umntu akafaki umgudu omkhulu kule nto, kodwa ukuzithemba kwakhe, intlalontle, amandla kunye nezinye izicwangciso banabantu, bayilandela ngokukhawuleza inkokheli kwaye bazive benqwenelekayo ukuba bajikeleze.
Iyintoni intshutshiso ebonakalayo?
Le propati ayinanto yokwenza nomsebenzi wokuziphatha nokuziphatha. Ubume be-Charismatic bunokuphumelela ngokulinganayo bobabini abangcwele kunye nezobugebengu. Eli gama libhekisela kwiimpawu zengqondo kunye neengqondo kwaye ngokukhethekileyo kuvelwano, kwaye oku kuvulela amathuba obunkokheli obufanelekileyo, mbe mbelelo kubantu. Yiloo nto inzondelelo kwaye iveza ngokwakho ukususela ebuntwaneni, idibanisa ngokwezigaba zokuqala zobomi, ibe ngumgangatho wobuntu bomntu. Umntu onjalo unokubonakala ngathi nantoni na, asebenze nabani na, kodwa akayi kuphawula.
Uthini umahluko phakathi kwesithandwa somfazi kunye nesithandwa somntu?
Kucacile ukuba lo bunjani bomgangatho abuxhomekeke kubulili, kodwa abubonakali ngokuhambelana nobulili. Ingcamango yentshukumo ingxulunyaniswa ngokungathandabuzeki kunye nokuthambekela kobunkokeli kunye nokukwazi ukuchaphazela abantu, kodwa amadoda alolo hlobo kwaye athambe ukuhlala eyokuqala kuyo yonke into. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba ilawulwe, ilawulwe kwaye isebenze. Enye into ngabafazi. Ukubuza, ubuhlungu - yintoni na kwaye ibonakalisa ngayo, unokuphendula ukuba oku kude kunemikhankaso yomholi. Uhlobo "oluqhelekileyo kwisiketi" akunakwenzeka ukuba lukhokele abantu emva kwakhe. Nanku kukho enye into.
Utyando lwabafazi
Ngokumalunga nalaba bameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo bathi "manki". Akunjalo ukuba zihle kwaye zikhangeleke ngendlela ebonakalayo, kodwa ukuzithemba kwabo, ukukhanya kwangaphakathi kunye nekhontrakthi akushiyi mntu ongathandabuzekiyo, ngegama- Kulowo nalowo banamagama kunye nomcebisi onobubele. Abo banomdla kwi-charisma kumfazi kufuneka baphendule ukuba le ngqiqo yokuzixabisa idibene nenhlonipho yangempela kunye nomdla kwabanye. Loo mntu uvulekile kwaye unemvelo, uvuyo, ukhanyise kwaye uhlale ekhangele, nangona kungenjalo inkokeli.
Utyando lwabantu
Kuye kuye kuhlala isihlwele - abahlobo, abadumileyo, oogxa. Abasemagunyeni bathemba abo bangaphantsi kweeprojekthi ezibalulekileyo, kwaye oogxa baqaphela ukuba inkokeli iya eofisini ukuba idibanise, kwaye ihlawulise amandla. Indoda enomdla ihlala ihamba ngehashe. Unako ukuchaza ngokucacileyo iingcamango zakhe, ukuzithemba, inomdla, ukulungele ukuba yinkokheli kwaye uthathe ingozi. Ngomntu onobukrakra ufudumele, ulungile kwaye ukhululekile. Aura ephumayo isenza sibuye siphinde siyamncede size sivuyiswe kukuba kukho umntu onempawu ezinje.
Indlela yokuhlakulela intshutshiso?
Amakhono akhethekileyo angafumaneki kwabanye abantu anikezelwa ngokuzalwa, kodwa kukho uluvo lokuba, ukuba lufunwa, luyakwazi ukuphuhliswa ngokwabo, into ephambili kukuqonda ukuba isebenza njani. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi indlela yokuba ngumntu onobukrakra, kufuneka uhlakulele iimpawu ezilandelayo:
- Ukuzimela. Njalo kwaye kuyo yonke into uthembele kuwe, xanduva lwakho lobomi.
- Ukubonakala okulibalekiyo. Akukho imfuneko yokwenza itekisi kumqolo wonke okanye udayi obunwele bezinwele zakho, ukwenzela ukuba i-charisma ibonakale, kodwa ezinye i-"zest" ezikhethekileyo kufuneka zihlale zikhona.
- Efanelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukubona konke kwizinto ezilungileyo kuphela kwaye ukukholelwa kwinto efanelekileyo.
- Ukunyaniseka nokunyamezela, ukuzithemba. Abantu abaneentlungu zi.
- Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo nezenzo.
- Zihloniphe wena kunye nabanye, ehambelana nobuntu obushushu.
- Ukukholiswa, inomdla kwabanye.
- I-Oratory enye enye "ihashe" yeenkokeli ezinomdla.
- Ukukwazi ukuphulaphula nokuthetha ngenye yeempawu eziphambili zomntu.
Yiyo imfihlelo yomsindo. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ngo-Olivia Fox Cubain, onguchwepheshe kwiinkalo kwaye wabhala nencwadi malunga nalo, kubalulekile ukuvakalisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukufudumala kunye nomdla kumnxibelelwano. Efuna ukwazi indlela yokuba ngumsindo, umntu kufuneka abe nomnqweno oqinileyo kunye noxanduva oluphakathi, kwaye umqobo omkhulu kumgaqo wokufikelela ekujoliswe kuyo kuya kuba ukunganeliseki, ukugxeka, ukungaqiniseki, ukuphazamiseka ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ubuchule obutsha buza kunceda bobabini emsebenzini nasemsebenzini.
Ukuphuhliswa kobuhlungu - ukusetyenziswa
- Unokwakha umfanekiso omhle xa uthabatha umntu wakho odeleyo ngeenyawo ezivaliweyo, ucinga ubuso bakhe buso, impawu kunye namehlo, intetho yezwi kunye nezinye iimpawu ezityebileyo, ezithakazelisayo kwaye zenze uvelwano. Zonke iinkcukacha zemiba, zonke iinkcukacha zomfanekiso womntu onomsindo. Ukuvula amehlo akho, unokubona ukuba umfanekiso ocingayo uphuma ngokucinga ngokungenasikweni, kodwa injongo yolu hlobo luhlalutyo olunzulu, olubonelela ngolwabiwo lweempawu ezili-10 ezibalulekileyo zomntu owenziweyo.
- Ukuphuhliswa kwentlungu kubandakanya ukubeka inkqubo yenhlanhla kunye nenhlanhla. Kufuneka uphumule, vala amehlo akho kwaye uqale ucinge ngephambili yakho, indlela yokufezekisa ngayo kwaye umgangatho wobomi uya kutshintsha emva koko. Qinisekisa ukusebenza kwalolu hlobo lunokuba ngaba ucinga ngabo bonke abantu abaphumelele kulo msebenzi.
Indlela yokuba yinkokeli yekhrismatic?
UMax Weber, isazi senzululwazi esaziwayo saseJamani, wathetha malunga nenkokheli ezinjalo iimpawu zobuntu okokuqala ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20. Ngokomzekelo, wazisa iinkokheli ezivelele kumazwe ahlukeneyo. Ukususela kokungeniswa kwayo, amagosa karhulumente ahlala ebizwa ngokuba ngumsindo, ngenxa yokuba aphuma ngokucacileyo ngokumalunga nobunzima bebonke. Utshutshiso lwenkokeli kwishishini ngokuqhelekileyo lubeka imiphumo yabo, kungekhona ulwazi kunye nezakhono zobungcali. Ukumomotheka ngokubanzi, iintetho ezikholisayo kunye neempawu ezilungileyo zomntu, abantu bakulungele ukuxolela yonke into baze bahambe.
Ukuze ube yinkokheli enesizotha, kufuneka ube nembono kwaye ukholwe kuyo ngentliziyo yakho yonke. Kule ndlela kuphela kunokwenzeka ukuba udlulisele ingcamango kubo bonke abantu kwaye ubahlawule ngokungazinzi. Umkhokeli onobubele uyazi indlela yokufumana ulwimi olufanayo kunye nomnxibelelwano, ukuthetha noluntu. Uhlala echukumisa kakhulu imeko kunye nemvakalelo yabanye, uhlala nabo, bathi, "ngokulinganayo." Kwizifundo zobungcali bezobugcisa kunye nokusebenza, unokufunda ukukhanya kunye nokubonakalisa intetho kunye nempawu ezithandwayo kubuntu kunye nobuhlungu. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho.
I-Charisma e-Orthodoxy
Kwizithethe zakudala zamaKristu ezifana nesipho sasineziprofeti, abenzi bemimangaliso. Oku kwakuyintlungu yabo, oko kuthetha ukuthini namhlanje ngeli xesha, kunokuthiwa ubabalo luthunyelwa kubo bonke abantu ekudibeneyo koMoya oyiNgcwele, oko kukuthi, ngexesha lomthandazo. Umhla wokugqibela wehla kubapostile bakaKristu ngomhla wePentekoste kwindlu yeZiyon waza wabanika izipho ezikhethekileyo ezi-9 - i-charisma, eyabenza ukuba bashumayele iVangeli emhlabeni jikelele kwaye baguqula abantu ebuKristwini.
Izipho zokuqala ezintathu ziquka ubulumko, ulwazi kunye nokukwazi ukubona imimoya. Okwesibini - ukholo, imimangaliso kunye nokukwazi ukuphilisa, kunye nesiprofeto esithathu esiseleyo, isipho seelwimi kunye nokutolika kwabo. I-Charisma ebuKristwini yehla kuwo wonke umntu ogcina imiyalelo kaThixo, ukutyelela itempile, ukuthandaza, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimimiselo. Ubuntu obunjalo, buyathunyelwa ngesimo sezipho zoMoya oyiNgcwele. Oku kunjalo ngokwenene kumaPentekoste.
Eyona nto ininzi abantu abanomdla kwihlabathi
Baquka okuqhelekileyo kubo bonke abantu njengoNapoleon, uLenin, uHitler, uStalin, iTrotsky . Ubuntu obudumile bobubele bexesha lethu - uMaxim Galkin, uRenata Litvinova, u-Andrey Malakhov, uSergei Lavrov, uVladimir Putin, u-Orlando Bloom, uJohnny Depp, uDonald Trump , njl njl. Bathandwa okanye bangathandwa, kodwa abayekanga iifowuni zamaphephancwadi namaphephandaba, bathetha , umgangatho wabo uxoxwa kwaye umntu unokuqiniseka ukuba baya kuthetha nangemva kokufa.
Indlela yokuhlakulela iincwadi zentlalo
- "I-Charisma: Indlela yokuphembelela, ukuyiqinisekisa nokukhuthaza" ngumsebenzi ka-Olivia Fox Cubain. Kule ncwadi, ulungisa iingcinga zeengcali, uthetha ngeentlobo kunye nokuziphatha, unceda ukunqoba izithintelo ngokusebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuzivocavoca, njl njl.
- "Utshutshiso lwenkokheli . " Iincwadi ezilungileyo kakhulu malunga ne-charisma ziquka lo msebenzi weRadislav Gandapas. Kuloo nto, uthetha ngendlela onokuyihlakulela ngayo le mfanelo yobuntu, yintoni inzuzo kunye nobutyebi bayo.