Kithina, amagama "iimvakalelo" kunye "neemvakalelo" zithetha ngokufanayo nomxholo omnye-oko sikubona ngaphakathi. Kodwa eqinisweni, iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo kunye neemvakalelo zomntu nje zibonakaliso zokungafundi, kuba phakathi kwale migaqo kulula ukudweba umgca.
Uthini umahluko phakathi kweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo?
Ukucaciswa kweentlukwano zeemvakalelo ezivela kwimvakalelo kufuneka ziqale ngeenkcazelo ngokwayo. Ngoko, iimvakalelo zibonakalisa umntu ngesimo sengqondo somntu kwimeko. Kwaye iimvakalelo zivavanya imeko. Umlinganiselo ubude, kwaye uqikelelo luhlala ixesha elifutshane. Ngako oko umehluko wokuqala ngowona xesha.
Kwindlela yokubonakalisa, iimvakalelo neemvakalelo ziyahluka. Sisoloko siqaphela iimvakalelo zethu kwaye sinokubanika inkcazo-uthando, inzondo, ulonwabo, ukratshi, umona, njl. Kodwa iimvakalelo esizibonakalisa zingacacanga. Xa uthi "ngokupheka ubuchopho", uziva njani? Ukuthukuthela, umsindo, ukukhathala kuzo zonke iimvakalelo.
Iimvakalelo zibonakaliswa ngeemvakalelo. Ziyaxhomekeka, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwimeko enjani. Ngokomzekelo, uthando (ukuvakalelwa) olujongene nolutsha lwakho, ngexesha lokuxabana lingabonakalisa ngolaka, umsindo, umsindo (imvakalelo). Imizwa yenzeke apha kwaye ngoku. Iimvakalelo zizinto ezizinzile, eziqingqiweyo. Ukuba iimvakalelo zihlula into ethile kwimeko, iimvakalelo zikhanyisa yonke imeko.
Imizwa kunye neemvakalelo kumadoda nabasetyhini
Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba iindidi zokubonakalisa iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zineenkcenkcesho zesondo.
Nangona kunjalo, iingcali zithi amandla ovakalelwa kunye neentlungu aziboneliyo ngokwabelana ngesondo, kukho ukuhlukana kuphela ekubonakaleni kwabo. Yaye yonke into, kuba ekuzalweni kwamakhwenkwe namantombazana akhuliswa ukuze enze iindidi zeentlalo ezahlukeneyo. Abafana bafunda ukunqanda ukubonakalisa ukwesaba nokudabuka, kwaye abafazi banciphisa umsindo. Kwaye ngomva wokugqibela, kubonakala ukuba unyaka o-1 ukususela ngexesha lokuzalwa, umsindo kwiintsana ubonakala ngokulinganayo.