Impawu zobume

Xa kuchazwa ingcamango yokuba "umlingiswa", ugxininiso oluphambili kufuneka lubekwe kwigama elithi "oluzinzileyo", ekubeni nje ukuziphatha komntu ozinzile, isimo sengqondo esigxina kunye nesigxina ngabantu kunye nehlabathi kunokubhekwa njengomlingiswa.

Nangona kunjalo, ubuqhetseba bomlingani kukuba luyilwe kwaye luphucuke kulo lonke ubomi. Ichaphazela imo yomntu ("Ngubani osikhokelayo, ukusuka kulo kwaye uya kufakwa!"), Imfundo, iimeko. Uhlobo aluyinto ebomvu yomntu, njengengqondo.

Iinkalo ezahlukeneyo ekubunjweni komlingiswa

Okokuqala, makhe siqwalasele iimpawu zeempawu zonyaka.

  1. Iminyaka yokuqala (ukufikelela kwiminyaka eyi-7) umntu ungumbonisi. Ucinga, kodwa akayicombululi ingxaki, ukuxhamla umzila wokucinga, ukuziphatha, imithetho yokuphila kwabantu abadala.
  2. Intombazana (iminyaka eyi-8 ukuya kwe-14) idinga umzekelo, isithixo. Uzama ukuzinza.
  3. Ulutsha (iminyaka eli-15 ukuya kwe-18) - ngokukodwa, umlingiswa womntu, iimvakalelo ezintsha, ezinjengokubandezeleka, intlungu, iya ku. Eli bakala libonakaliswa ngu maximalism, umnqweno wokuthatha yonke into ebomini.
  4. Abantu abadala (iminyaka engama-19 ukuya kwimi-35) - umntu ufunda ukuvuya ngezinto ezincinci, kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ubomi abuhlali kumnandi kakhulu.
  5. Ukuguquka (iminyaka engama-36 ukuya kwimi-40) - imikhosi iyancipha, kodwa oku kuyancitshiswa ngokomoya.
  6. Isigaba sesibini somsebenzi (41 - 65) - ugxininiso lubekwa kwi-capital capital accumulated in the half half of life.
  7. Inxalenye ekhulile (ukususela kwiminyaka engama-66 ubudala) - ubomi bubuhlungu, bumelelwe ngendlela yemigudu yeziganeko, oko kwakubonakala kubalulekile, ngoku i-penny ayifanele i penny, kwaye ezinye iimeko, ngokuchaseneyo, zifudumala umphefumlo.

Isidima

Iimpawu zobumnandi kunye nomlinganisi zithengiswa ngokungahambisani, ukuba kungenxa yokuba ubumnyama buyona nto iphambili ekubunjweni komlingiswa. Ngokomzekelo, isimo sengqondo sichaza ukuguqulwa kokubonakalisa izici zobuntu, kuba indlela i-sanguine ibonakalisa ngayo ukuphazamiseka, kunye nendlela ibukeka ngayo njenge-phlegmatic - izinto ezahlukeneyo.

Ukongezelela, kwaye iimpawu zemiqobo zithintela umoya, oko kukuthi ukubonakaliswa kwayo. Ukuba nesethi yempawu kwindawo yokugcina, ungazifihla kwaye uphazamise ukubonakaliswa kwesimo sakho sengqondo.