Abasetyhini abaneengqumbo zengxubeba bahlala besengozini kunye nentsholongwane. Asoloko elula, kodwa ahlala elula nabantu abakujikelezile. Nangona kunjalo, yi-melancholics ezenza iindaba ezimnandi kwihlabathi, zityhila kubantu abakujikelezileyo ubuhle bemvelo nolwalamano lwabantu, bhala imifanekiso kunye neenkondlo.
Iimpawu zowesifazane oncibilikisayo
Abasetyhini abaneempawu ezincibilikisayo bahlukaniswa ngolu hlobo:
- Iingcamango ezicebileyo ezikunceda ekudaleni, kodwa zihlala ziphazamisa ubomi. Abafazi-i-melancholic bavame ukulinganisa iimeko zobomi kunye nomoya ngokwabo.
- Ngokumalunga nabantu abakujikelezileyo, ama-introverts angama-melancholic. Ngokukhawuleza bakhathele uluntu kwaye bakhethe ukuhlala bodwa.
- Abayithandi imbopheleleko, ngoko banqanda izikhundla ezikhokelayo.
- Zonke iimvakalelo zigcinwa ngaphakathi kwazo, ngoko ke ubomi babo babengaziwa ngabanye.
- Ngomsebenzi wokukhawuleza ukunyuka, ngoko ke kubasetyhini, iingcibiliki azifanelekanga umsebenzi ohambelana nesantya, uxinzelelo olude, umngcipheko, uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo. Zikulungele ukukhetha ezizodwa zobugcisa.
- Ama-melancholic often have a self-esteem , abazithembi ngokwabo, abanakholwa ngamandla abo.
Abaziqondi kakuhle iimpawu zabo ezilungileyo, kwaye ababi bahlala beqhwaba. - Intetho ye-melancholia ithule, ihlazileyo, ingenayo imibala eqaqambileyo.
- Ama-melancholics athathaka kwaye anengxaki, ngoko ekusebenzelaneni nabo kufuneka uqaphele kakhulu ukuba ungavumeli iincwadana ezibukhali kunye namahlaya angenayo.
- Ubhinqa obuncibilikiyo ubudlelwane buhlala luba nesimo sengqondo. Akabonakalisi iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye ulindele ukuba iqabane liwenze izigqibo ezinoxanduva. Abanikazi be-odnolyuby yomsindo, ngoko nobudlelwane beengxaki banokuhlala kunye nomlingani bonke ubomi bakhe.