Ukuze wenze umtshato kwi-ofisi yeRejista, ufuna kuphela umnqweno womnye, umrhumo womsebenzi karhulumente kunye nesitatimende. Imithetho yomtshato e-Orthodoxy inzima kakhulu, kwaye ukuba nayiphi na ingabonakaliyo, umtshato uya kuba nzima.
Imithetho yomtshato kwiCawa leOthodoki
Ngaphambi kokugqiba isigqibo esinjalo, qiniseka ukuba ufunde yonke imigaqo yomtshato wama-Orthodox, kuba ngamnye kubo unyanzelekile kwaye unyanzelekile.
- Ngomtshato, bobabini bomtshato kufuneka babe ngamaKristu abhaptiziweyo. Ngamanye amaxesha umtshato uvunyelwe kunye namaKristu eminye imiyalelo - amaKatolika, amaLuthere, amaProtestanti. Nangona kunjalo, abantwana abazalelwe kulo mtshato kufuneka babhaptizwe ngokungqongqo. Umtshato kunye nomBuddha, umSilamsi kunye nommeli waluphi na ukholo olungenakwenzeka.
- Imicimbi yomtshato inokwenzeka kuphela emva kokuphela komtshato oseburhulumenteni kwiofisi yokubhalisa. Amacala, xa le ndlela ihlangabezana nobunzima, ixazululwa ngokwalo-ngenxa yale nto kufuneka uyenze ebandleni.
- Umtshato unokwenzeka kuphela ngamaxesha athile, xa icawa yokukhawuleza ayidluli. Xa ukhetha usuku lomtshato, jonga kwikhalenda ye-Orthodox.
- Umtshato, kunye nomtshato osemthethweni, ufumaneka kubantu abangaphezu kweminyaka eyi-18 ubudala.
- Akukho zithintelo kwiindwendwe zesigramente - unako ukumema wonke umntu ofuna.
- Umtshato ungenzeka ngosuku olufanayo kunye nesigqibo somtshato osemthethweni, kodwa kunzima kakhulu emzimbeni.
- Umtshato uya kunqatshwa kubantu abanobuphi na ubungakanani bomhlobo.
- Kubalulekile ukutshata kwiingubo ezihlakaniphile. Ngokufanelekileyo, umtshakazi kufuneka abe neengubo ezifihla izandla, amahlombe, umva kunye nemilenze. Ukuba iingubo ezingenamikhono, udinga ingubo kumagxa akho.
- Umtshato uvunyelwe ukuba uprinte kwifilimu, kodwa kufuneka kwenziwe emva kwemvumelwano yokuqala kunye nombingeleli.
- Ukutshatyalaliswa komtshato webandla kunzima kakhulu, ngoko kufuneka uqukumbele kuphela xa uqinisekile kwiqabane lakho kunye nomanyano wakho. Umtshato ungabakho ngaphezu kwezihlandlo ezintathu ebomini. Ukuba umntu ovela kwisiqabane esele esele umtshato wecawa, okokuqala kuyimfuneko ukufezekiswa kwayo.
- Akunakwenzeka ukutshata nabantu, omnye okanye bobabini abatshatile omnye umntu.
- Nayiphi na imibuzo enayo, kuyimfuneko ukunquma ngokuthe ngqo ngumbingeleli, kungekhona kunye nomlindi, oomama-parishioners okanye umthengisi kwivenkile yesonto.
Yonke imimiselo yomtshato isingqongqo, kwaye ukuba ayinakuhlonishwa emtshatweni, isi sibini sinokungafuni. Ngendlela, ukuba umnikelo osisiseko lomtshato ukhulu kakhulu kuwe, unokuthetha nombingeleli, uchaze imeko kwaye uvumelane ngemali eyahlukileyo.
Imishado imithetho yokukhetha amangqina
Ukuqwalasela yonke imigaqo esele iqwalaselwe, ngaphambi kokuba umtshato wesibini umtshato ukhethe amanqaku, okanye amadoda angcono. Kufuneka bafezekise umsebenzi ojongene nawo, olawulwa yimigaqo eyongezelelweyo.
- Ukuba umtshato oqhelekileyo kuwumkhuba wokukhetha abantu abatsha abangatshatanga njengamangqina, ngoko ngokwenene bakhetha isibini kunye nabantwana, ngokukhethekileyo umtshato, omnye umtshato. Okwangoku, oku akuwona mqathango onyanzelekileyo. AmaNgqina anokutshata, okanye akanalo ulwalamano nomnye. Ungakhethi isibini esithatha ukutshata: isithethe sizala ubuhlobo bokomoya phakathi kwabo (njengabana-godchildren kunye no-godfather, umzekelo), kwaye oku akuthandi. Kuba isibini esitshatileyo sele sele singabi niphumo elibi.
- AmaNgqina kufuneka abhaptizwe, awaziwayo
kunye nemithetho yecawa. Lo ngumgaqo oqinileyo, kwaye ukuba awuhambisani nawo, unokwenyulwa emtshatweni. - Kukholelwa ukuba amangqina aya kuhlala enxulumene nabasandul 'ukutshata, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukukhetha isibini esilumkileyo nesinoxanduva.
- Ukuze kube lula ukuba amangqina abambe isithsaba phezu kwentloko yabasandul 'ukutshata, kufuneka ukuba abe phezulu okanye aphezulu, kwaye kunoko kunamandla kwaye ahlale ehlala.
Ukuba ulahlekelwe, njani ukhetha ibini elifanelekileyo kuzo zonke iiparitha, kungcono ukutshata ngaphandle kwamangqina, ibandla alivunyelwe. Oku kungcono kunokuthabatha amangqina omtshato ongokomoya wabantu abangagcinanga imiyalelo baze bakhokele ubomi abangalunganga.