Umtshato uyinto enhle, imfihlelo engcwele evumela isibini ukuba sibe noqhagamshelwano ngokomoya. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kubakho ukwenza oko kuphela ngokubonisa isatifiketi somtshato, ngoko ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abatsha baya eofisini ye-registry, ngoko kwicawa kwaye emva kokuba baqale ukugubha umtshato. Kodwa abaninzi banquma isiganeko somtshato kungekhona ngosuku lomtshato, kodwa emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa okanye iminyaka emva kwayo. Indlela yokulungiselela umtshato kule meko kwaye ngokubanzi, ngaba unokwenene umtshato womtshato oye wahlala iminyaka emininzi emtshatweni?
Ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka ukutshata ngosuku lomtshato kwaye isibini sitshatileyo sithatha lo mbuthano kwithuba elithile. Kwaye maxa wambi isi sibini siya emtshatweni kwiminyaka embalwa emva komtshato. Ixesha elinjalo lokulinda le sibini ukuqonda ukuchaneka kokukhetha kwabo kuchazwe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala kuchanekile-kubalulekile ukutshata kuphela ukuba kukho imfuno yangaphakathi (ngokomoya) yolu hlobo, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba ngoku ikhoyo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, icawa iyavuma umtshato kuphela xa ithe yenziwa ngokwemigaqo yayo, umtshato womtshato awukho nje ukuhlalisana, ubuhenyu. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka utshatile ngosuku lwakho lomtshato? Ukuba unamathela ngokuthe ngqo kwimithetho yecawa, yebo ewe. Kodwa ukuba intombi engenatyala engatshati, ixesha lokutshata aliyi kudlala indima ekhethekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba isibini esithile sagqiba ukutshata ixesha elithile emva komtshato, ngoko ke kwindlela yokujonga ngayo imigangatho yanamhlanje, akukho nto iyingozi kulo.
Indlela yokulungiselela umtshato?
Umtshato we-Orthodox umtshato ufuna ukulungiswa kwaye akukhona nje kuphela uluhlu lweendwendwe kunye neempahla (nangona oku kufuneke kucatshangelwe). Into ephambili ukuhlanjululwa komoya, kungoko ngaphambi kokuba umtshato ungaphambi kwexesha elide ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba isiqabane esi sibini sibe khona enkonzweni, sivume kwaye sithobele intlanganiso. Ngoku izithethe zomtshato zitshintshile ukuze zithokozise amaxesha amaninzi. Ngoko, ukuzila ukutya kuncitshiswa kwiintsuku ezi-3, kwaye ukuvuma nokudibanisa kuvunyelwe ngentsapho yomtshato.
Kwakhona kufuneka uqaphele umtshato womtshato - ungayithenga kwiivenkile zesonto okanye uzilungiselele. Uza kufuna izindandatho, amathala, amakhandlela omtshato, 4 iehokerkhi phantsi kweebhandlela (ukusuka kwintsimbi efanayo njengetilu), iimpawu zoMsindisi kunye neNtombi.
Indlela yokugqoka umtshato?
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba umtshakazi unyanzelekile ukuba abe khona kwisithethe kwisigqoko somtshato, kodwa oku akunjalo ngokupheleleyo-kunokwenzeka ukuba unxibe nayiphi na ingubo okanye i-suit nekhati ehlangabezana nale mfuno elandelayo.
- Umqolo kunye namahlombe avaliwe;
- Ubude bengubo abukho ngaphezu kweedolo;
- iimpahla ezimhlophe zifuna.
Intloko ifanele ikhutshwe nge-mantilla, i-shawl, i-hekerki okanye isigqubuthelo.
Ngokubhekiselele ekufakeni, akufanele kube lula kakhulu. Kwaye akukho mvalo (kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, ukususa ngaphambi kokungena ecaweni) - akukho mntu unokukuvumela ukuba ubanga umnqamlezo ngomlomo odwebe.
Ukubonakala komyeni kufanele kuhambelane nolu hlobo - iimpahla ezigubungela umzimba (kungekhona i-jeans okanye i-tracksuit), mhlawumbi i-shadow shades.
Imfuno ezifanayo zisetyenziswa kwimpahla yamangqina emtshatweni. Ukongeza, bonke abakhona emtshatweni - umtshakazi nomyeni, amangqina kunye neendwendwe kufuneka babe neminqamlezo.
Elifanelekileyo ixesha lomtshato
Kuyaziwa ukuba ngexesha lezithuba, iiholide ezinkulu kunye necawa, umtshato awugcinwanga. Kwakhona ungatshatanga isibini ngesibini ngoLwesibili, ngeLwesine okanye ngoMgqibelo. Kwaye umhla olungcono kakhulu lomtshato yiCawe, kwaye baninzi banqwenela ukungcwalisa ubudlelwane babo. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba uvumelane kwangaphambili ngosuku lomtshato.
Izidingo zamangqina emtshatweni
AmaNgqina kufuneka abhaptizwe. Emva komthendeleko, baba ngamaqabane okomoya kwaye ukuba kamva bafuna ukutshata, ngoko icawa ayiyi kuvuma umtshato wabo. Nangona kunjalo, kuvunyelwe ukuba amangqina sele sele esele esatshatileyo. Indima yamangqina emtshatweni kukuba ibambe iintsika phezu kweentloko zabasandul 'ukutshata kwimihango (malunga nemizuzu engama-40). Kodwa kwezinye iicawa iimpawu ezisemqoka zomtshato zihleli kwiintloko zeza kusasa. Ngako oko, zonke izinto eziqingqiweyo kufuneka zichazwe kwibandla apho uceba ukuqhuba khona.