Uxolo oluncono lungcono kunokuxabana okuhle, abaninzi bakholelwa. Kodwa ke iingxabano zihlala zenzeka. Yintoni endiyenza ukuze ndiyenze uxolo?
Ukuba uxabana, umntu kufuneka athathe isinyathelo sokuqala. Kwezinye iimbini, uhlala efana nomntu ofanayo, kwaye kwezinye iindawo, omele uxanduva. Mhlawumbi intombazana ityala. Kwaye kunengqiqo ngokwaneleyo ukuthatha inyathelo lokuqala kulo, kwaye into eyithandayo kuphela ngumbuzo ...
Indlela yokudibanisa nomfana ukuba ndibeka ityala?
Kuya kufuneka sithathe ingxaki yokuxolelana: umntu onqabileyo uya kwenza into ngokwayo ukwenza, ingakumbi emva kokuxabana.
- Ukuba kuwe kunzima kakhulu, bhala kuSim SMS. Umzekelo, "Ndiyamthanda. Ndilikhumbula. Guquka. " Yintoni enye ebhaliweyo kumfana ukuba ayenze - ukuvumela ukuba uqonde ukunyeliswa kwakhe kunye nokuzisola kakhulu kangangokuthi ngokungafanelekile wayefanele amcaphukise. Bonisa ukuba uyamthanda.
- Ungammema ngomhla ngokumisela inkqubo yokuzonwabisa eya kumangalisa iqabane lakho.
- Unokuthetha nje intliziyo ngentliziyo. Cela uxolo uze uzame ukuchaza, kodwa ungamgxeka. Ukuba uphikisana ngenxa yenkquzulwano , xhathisa ngoku ngoku, ngaphandle kokulibala.
Indlela yokuxolelana nomntu emva kokuhlukana?
Kunzima, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Ngokukodwa xa usuqhekeza isityholo. Okubi nakakhulu, ukuba uvele uqhekeke. Kodwa kulo mzekelo, ungazama.
Xa ucinga indlela yokudibanisa nomntu owayengumntu wokuqala, qiniseka ukuba uyayidinga. Ngaba uqinisekile? Emva koko zama ukulungisa iingqalelo zakhe. Gqoka ingubo odibana nayo le ndoda, kwaye ukususela ngoko, phantse ingapheli, njl njl Thetha malunga nokukhathazeka kwakho. Mhlawumbi, umbutho uya kusebenza, kwaye uya kuxolelana. Kufuneka uzame ezininzi iindlela zokukhetha, ukuba uyayithanda kakhulu intanda yakho.