Ukuba uqaphele ukuba unenkathalo ebubudlelwaneni bakho, ungesabi, kuba kungekho bomi bentsapho ngaphandle kweengxaki, zonke izibini zihamba ngayo. Kwiintsapho, kunokubakho ukuxhatshazwa kubudlelwane ngezikhathi, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba uzame ngokukhawuleza kwaye uphucule imeko ukuze uphephe ingxaki. Ubuhlobo bokwenene buhlala bufezekiswa kuphela ngokusebenza rhoqo kuzo kunye nobunzima obuvela kuzo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokugcina umtshato nokuphucula ubudlelwane.
Indlela yokugcina umtshato, iindlela:
- Iintlanzi zixhobo ezilungileyo kakhulu ezivela kwinqaku leendlela zokugcina umtshato. Musa ukunyanzelisa ubomi, musa ukuthatha yonke into kakhulu. Phatha iziganeko ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuzisa uhleko oluhle kumtshato wakho - oku kuya kukhulula ngokukhawuleza ukuxabana phakathi kwakho, kwaye ubomi buya kuba mnandi ngakumbi.
- Nika ixesha, uchithe, okuya kuba yimiba emibini. Mnike kwihambo edibeneyo, okanye into enomdla kubo bobabini.
- Ufuna ukwazi indlela yokugcina ulwalamano - gwema iingxabano. Ukwenza oku, kwingxoxo, ngaphaya kwezihloko onokuphikisana ngazo, njengomthetho, ezi zihloko zezopolitiko, izalamane, inkolo, izithandwa zangaphambili, ukukhululwa.
- Khumbula ukuqala kobudlelwane bakho. Ukutyelela indawo zeentlanganiso zakho zokuqala, cinga oko kutshintshile ukususela ngelo xesha, mhlawumbi ukuthanda okanye ukuhlonipha kuye kwaphela - oku kuyakuba yimpendulo yendlela yokugcina umtshato kumtshato.
- Ukuqonda nokuxolela iqabane. Ukususela kwiziphoso, akukho mntu ukhuselwe, ngoko ufunde ukuxolela, ukuvumela umntu ukuba alungise. Khumbula ukuba kwingxabano, bobabini badla ngokusola.
- Sebenzisa umgca. Ububele, uthando luyakuboniswa ngabathintana abahlukeneyo ngaphandle kwesondo. Ngoko ubonisa iqabane lakho elithandayo kwaye ufuna ukunyamekela.
- Shiya indawo yeqabane. Ngamanye amaxesha bayeke ukuba bahambe "kwinkululeko", nangomnye ubusuku - umntu ngamnye ufuna iindawo zakhe.
- Umbuzo oqhelekileyo kwintsapho apho ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo baqala ukuwohloka - "Ngaba ulwalamano lungasindiswa?" - unokukwenza, wenza umehluko kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Sitshintsha izithethe zentsapho, zinike ngaphandle kwexesha
izipho, nikela iingcamango ezintsha kwaye nisongelane. - Cinga ngendawo yakho kwisixeko. Into ephambili kukuba ayengaziwa kwabanye, kwaye ayikhethwanga nayiphi na isibini. Kukho ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuchitha ixesha lodwa, ukulungelelanisa imini yabo yothando.
- Musa ukuphazamisa uqhagamshelwano nomnye. Gcina unxibelelwano olukhululekile, ufunde ukuva nokuphulaphula.
Nangemva kokuzama zonke iindlela ezicetywayo, ungayeki. Unelungelo lolwalamano olonwabileyo kufuneka luzuze. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukusebenza nzima kumaqabane.