Isibini ngasinye sothando sinomdla wokuba ulale. Kwaye oko kubaluleke ukuba ngaba bathandana balala, kodwa bavuka njani. Kuye ngomfanekiso wentsasa oqhelekileyo ukuvavanya iziganeko zesibini esithile ephupheni.
Ziziphi iingqondo zengqondo zithetha malunga nento ngexesha lokulala kwesibini?
Iingcali zengqondo zithi ngokusekelwe kwisithuba apho isibini esivame ukuvuswa kwibhedi edibeneyo, umntu unokugweba amandla kunye nokufudumala kobudlelwane, kunye nesigaba sabo. Ngaphezulu, ulwalamano lubonakala. Ukongezelela, ezinye zenza iphupha lesibini esibathandweni lubonisa iimpawu zabalinganiswa.
Yintoni idilesi yokufaka kwiphupha ithi?
Cinga ngeendidi ezimbini zokulala kunye nencazelo yazo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba akuyiyo yithuba elilodwa elifunekayo ukuba lihlolwe, kodwa elinye iqabane apho amaqabane ahlala evuka khona.
- Omnye wabalingani balala emva, okwesibini - kwisisu. Kulo mbini kukho ukuvalwa, kodwa ngokubanzi, bahlobene ngokufudumeleyo.
- Omnye wabalingani ulula isandla sakhe, kwaye kukho kukho intloko okanye intamo yesibini. Ngaloo mibini, wonke umntu unomhlobo ohlukeneyo kunye nomdla, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo kukho ithemba kunye nokuqonda phakathi kwabo.
- Elinye iqabane limbumbana elinye lisemva. Esi sikhundla sibonisa ukunyamekela nokunyamekela phakathi kwebini, ukungabikho kwemibango ebonakalayo. Iingcali zengqondo ziqinisekile ukuba ukuba isibini silele, kukho imibuzo engaphendulwanga phakathi kwabo.
- Abalingani balala kunye nomqolo wabo emhlane. Ulwalamano olunjalo luzinzile, luqinile kwaye lunokwethenjelwa, baqwalasela iminqweno yabo bobabini abathathi-nxaxheba ngokulinganayo, okwangoku bahlala kwindawo yabo kwaye bangakhathazeki.
- Esi sibini silala ubuso nobuso, sisusa imilenze nezandla. Oku kubonisa ukuba abathandekayo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, bafuna ukuba basondele kakhulu. Njengomthetho, kuphela onomona kunye nabanikazi bendawo abahlala kule ndawo.
- Omnye wamaqabane athatha ininzi yebhedi, icala lesibini elincinane. Njengomthetho, lowo owayesakuba ngumntu oyedwa ucinga ukuba nguye oyintloko kwaye unqwenela ukuzibamba imihla ngemihla ekulawuleni kwakhe.
Ukuze uhlalutye ngokucokisekileyo ubuhlobo, kufuneka uqwalasele ingqalelo nje yokulala, kodwa kunye nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ngenxa yale nto kulunge ukujongana neengcali zengqondo.
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