Indlela yobudlelwane kwihlabathi lanamhlanje ayifani neyayiminyaka emibini edlulileyo. Into eyona kuphela kukuba ukuziphatha komntu kufumene uhlobo oluthile lokubonakalisa, ngelixa umntu ekwazi ukuzincama, ngaphandle kokwesaba ubomi bakhe, abe ngumxhelo wothando olukhululekile okanye ukunyaniseka ethuneni.
Bonke abantu abavela kwixesha elidlulileyo baqulunqa zonke iifom zomtshato ezaziwayo:
- isithembu (isithembu);
- unogamy (umhlaba);
- i-polyandry (i-polyandry).
Ngoko, u-monogamy ayiyonto kodwa u-monogamy, uhlobo lwentsapho, umtshato womanyano. Olu lwalamano, apho kungekho ndawo yesithathu. Ukuchasene kweli gama isithembu. Kwizilwanyana ezininzi - izidalwa zesithembu.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba i-monogam inemithetho yayo. Ngoko umgaqo wongqingili womtshato kukuba akunakwenzeka ngokusemthethweni ukuzibophelela ngomtshato kwaze kwaba yilapho elinye iqabane lingumtshato obhalisiweyo. Lo mgaqo ugqitywa kuyo yonke imigaqo malunga nomtshato womtshato kuwo onke amazwe aseNtshona.
Kuthetha ukuthini i-monogamy?
Ngokweengxelo zembali, u-monogamy wavela emva kwesithembu. Kwakukholelwa ukuba kumaxesha amandulo kwakucingwa njengento eqhelekileyo, xa uluntu luhlala ngokuvumelana nomthetho othi "Ngubani ofuna, kwaye uyithathe." Kodwa oku akuzange kube negalelo ekusindeni kwentsapho. Ngoko ke, emva kwexesha elithile lexesha, ifomu lentsapho yembali livela njenge-monogamy.
Ndiyabulela kuye, inani leengxabano zebhinqa phakathi kwabantu linciphile. Kulo nxalenye kayise, ukunyamekela kwase kuqalile inzala.
Ukususela kwinqanaba leengqondo, u-monogamy kubantu wanika umntu ithuba lokubonakalisa, elikulo, umnqweno wokuyalela. Kuqinisekisile ukuba inxalenye yomntu wozinzo kwihlabathi lokungaqiniseki.
Yintoni i-monogamy amadoda?
Abaninzi banomdla kulo mbuzo kungekuphela kwento engumntu oyedwa, kodwa nokuba ngaba kukho konke. Ngokwezibalo zophando phakathi kwesondo esinamandla, malunga nama-45% amadoda anako ukuhlala ethembekile kubafazi bawo.
Kungekudala, uluntu lunentsomi yokuba u-monogamy phakathi kwabantu yinto ebonakalayo evela kummandla wefantasy. Kodwa kwakukho. Emva koko, phantse inxalenye yamadoda eplanethi inelisekile xa ithanda omnye kuphela.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba oogqirha bafumana umgubo egazini lamadoda athile. Kwavela ukuba unako ukwenza iprogram yezinto eziphilayo umntu ukuba akhulume kuphela nomfazi omnye, nangona kukho intombi intliziyo. Oogqirha banoluvo lokuba akubona bonke abantu abakwaziyo ukuxhamla. umzimba usetyenziswa kwiipheromones. Kule meko, umrhwebi akanakuyichasa, uthi, ukusuka kumzimba wekosikazi yakhe. Kancinci, uyasetyenziselwa, kwaye isondo sele sele sifana ne-cocktail enamandla, apho iimeko ezintle zempilo.
Ukususela kwimbono yezinto zomzimba kunye neengqondo, ukuxhaswa ngabantu kubalulekile. Kuba ngamaxesha anjalo umsebenzi wentliziyo kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo kuphucula. Uhlobo lomntu lukhethileyo. Inokusekelwe kuzo zombini
Ama-sexologists enza uphando ngalo mbandela kwaye yafumanisa ukuba malunga nama-10% wamadoda ayitshintshi umthandi wabo ngenxa yoloyiko olufanayo, kunye ne-35% eseleyo - kuba nje kwiminyaka yabo emncinci "basebenze" kakhulu. Yilungu lokugqibela elingenakuwela kwisilingo sabasetyhini besini ngenxa yokuba kwiqabane labo bafumana yonke into abaye bayifunayo kwabanye abafazi ixesha elide.
Ukuba yi-monogam okanye i-polygam kuya wonke umntu. Kodwa, ngaphambi kokwenza i zigqibo, kufuneka ulinganise zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki.