Ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi bubuthakathaka, njengentambo yeglasi kunye nentshukumo ephilileyo, ibinzana elihlambalazayo okanye isenzo esingalunganga, kwaye ziyakwazi ukuhamba ngeenqanawa kwangoko. Kodwa xa ushada, abantu bayalilibala kwaye bakhumbule kuphela xa indoda ishiywe, kwaye ingxaki ivela malunga nendlela yokuyibuyisela ngayo. Ungalindelanga ukuba uya kukwazi ukubuyisela umyeni ngokukhawuleza kuba le nkqubo ihamba kancane - oku kungenziwa ngosuku, awukwazi ukuhlaziya ngokukhawuleza imeko, utshintshe ngaphakathi kwaye ubuyele iimvakalelo zakhe.
Kukho iingcebiso ezahlukeneyo malunga nendlela yokubuyisela umyeni, phakathi kwazo zonke iintlobo zeentsimbi. Zithandwa kakhulu ngoku, kodwa abaninzi abaqondi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukubuyisela indoda kuphela ngenxa yokuxhomekeka kweengqondo, akukho mbuzo wokubuyisa iimvakalelo apha. Kwaye iindlela zobugqirha ziza kubhubhisa kuphela ubudlelwane bamaqabane.
Ukuba ufuna ukubuyisela umyeni wakho ngokwakho, ezinye iimfihlelo zengqondo zingakunceda ukuba umyeni wakho abuyele kwintsapho.
Indlela yokubuyisela umyeni - iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo
Iingcali zengqondo zineengcamango zabo ngendlela yokubuyisela kakuhle umyeni kwaye ziqinisekisa ukuba okunokwenzeka.
1. Okokuqala, cinga ukuba ngaba ufuna kakhulu umntu oye wamngcatsha. Akufanele ukukhuphisana nayo ukuba:
- unenjongo ezahlukeneyo ebomini;
- uxhomekeke kuye kuphela ngokwezimali;
- uyika ukugculelwa kwabanye.
Kuyafaneleka ukuzama, xa:
- Uyakuthanda kwaye uyamkhumbula kakhulu;
- Ukulungele ukutshintsha;
- uvuma zakho iimpazamo.
2. Ukuba, ngokuhamba komyeni, ihlabathi lakho lingenanto kwaye ucinga ukuba wenzeni ukuze ubuyisele umyeni, ngokokuqala kufuneka ube nesineke. Kwimeko xa umyeni esithandana nomnye, lungela ukuba akayi kubona into ethile ngethuba elithile, ngaphandle komthandi wakhe omtsha. Ungesabi, naye wada wadlula oku kunye nawe. Emva koko uza kuphawula iimpazamo zalo mfazi omtsha.
3. Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba awufanele ubuyisele ubuhlobo obudala, kufuneka udale ubudlelwane obutsha kunye neqabane elidala. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uphinde ucinge ngobomi bakho kunye, ubalekele izikhalazo ezidlulileyo, uhlalutye iimpazamo uze uzilungise. Yaye ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukubuyisela umyeni wakho othandekayo - zitshintshe wena.
3. Thatha iqela, lihlule libe zimbini, ubhale kwicala elinye, njengoko kubonakala kuwe, ziziphi iimpawu ezithandwayo kumyeni uninzi, kwaye okwesibini - ezinokumphazamisa. Ngoku ezi nhlu ziza kukukhumbuza kuwe, yintoni omele uyenze nokuba yintoni ongayiphepha xa uxhulumana nayo.
4. Kwengqondo, kukho enye ingcebiso ebalulekileyo yokubuyisela umyeni wakho - akudingeki ukuba udibane naye, ngakumbi ukuba unabantwana. Ukumvumela ukuba adibane nabantwana ekhaya okanye ukuzisa ubomi obuqhelekileyo (unokumcela ukuba ancede ukulungisa into endlwini, okanye uchithe ixesha kunye nabantwana kwiholide), unako ukubeka ingqalelo kumyeni wakhe. Umfazi ozilumkileyo akayi kuphepha ukudibanisa kunye nezihlobo zendoda yakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe, kunye necebo elifanelekileyo, abanokumnceda. Abazali be-Sexologists bakholelwa ukuba nangona emva kokuqhawula ngokusemthethweni, ngelixa umyeni engabhalanga ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane obutsha, kubalulekile ukugcina ubuncinane ubudlelwane naye, kunye nezo zesini (ukuba uhambelana nokulala).
5. Xa udibana naye, musa ukuzenza ngathi ulixhoba, ungabonakali ukudabuka kwakho - ujonge kwaye ungakhathazeki. Ngoko udimaza indoda, wayelindele ukuba ukhale, uchaze ubuhlobo oya kumcela ukuba abuyisele, kwaye wena kwaye ngaphandle kwayo akubi.
6. Thatha ixesha: utshintshe iinwele zakho, ubuyekeze i-wardrobe yakho, tyelela i-salon yobuhle, ukuzonwabisa okutsha.
7. Yiya kuma-discos, udibana namadoda. Ewe, ukuba uyazi malunga nale nto, kwaye unako ukuvusa kuye inkohlakalo yomnikazi.
Into ephambili ayikuphindaphinda iimpazamo ezifanayo emva kokuba umyeni abuyele.