Umntu ongathandekiyo

Ukutshatyalaliswa mhlawumbi kuyinto ebaluleke kunazo zonke umfazi anganika umntu. Emva kwakho konke, sonke siphupha ngokuphana komphefumlo, imiqondiso ebanzi kunye nezenzo ezintle. Ukusuka kumntu omncinci awunakwenzeka ukuba ulinde. Ukongezelela, umntu omncinci ngombono wethu ungumntu onzima, kwaye akaxhamli nje kuphela ngezipho, kodwa ngeemvakalelo.

Ngenxa yobulungisa kubalulekile ukuba besithi abancinci bancinci kumlinganiselo ongaphantsi, kodwa kuthi ngokwethu sithola le mgangatho ngokugqithiseleyo. Kodwa makhe siqale, sibone ukuba ngubani umntu omncinci, kwaye nokuba ingaba yintloni nje, okanye i-pettiness ayibonakali kwicandelo elilodwa lezinto.

Ubomi bethu buqulethe imicimbi eninzi, ekwahlukana nayo, ikwahlukana kwezinye iimeko ezincinane. Yaye yonke into, nokuba yincinci, yiphumo yezigqibo zethu. Abanye sithatha ngokungathandekiyo, abanye sinokuyicingisisa. Umntu omncinci uphelela ingqalelo nje kwiinkcukacha, kubona kubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa, ngelishwa, kwiimbono ezinkulu nemicimbi, izandla zabo azifaneli zifikelele, kuba ixesha lidliwa yiinkathazo ezincinci. Umfutho ongumFilisti, ukukhathazeka-konke oku kunqanda umntu ukuba angakhuphuki ngaphezu kwengxabano, ukuziva ubomi kwaye, kubaluleke kakhulu - ukufikelela eziphakamileyo. Iinkcukacha zize zikwazi ukuqonda ubuncinane bomntu omncinci kangangokuthi umfanekiso opheleleyo awunakongeza entloko yakhe.

Isitshixo sentlanzi

Ukuqhathaniswa kuluhlu oluphambene nokungabikho kwengqondo, kwaye nokuba nayiphi na ingqongqo ingakhokelela kwiingxaki zansuku zonke. Ngoko, umzekelo, umntu omncinci unakho ukubeka iliso ngenyameko umyalelo endlwini ngaphandle kokubona iingxaki zeengqondo ezingcolileyo. Kuye, umsebenzi wesikolo somntwana ubaluleke kakhulu kunokuxazulula iingxaki ezinzulu. Oku akuthethi ukuba umntu omncinci uphelelwe ngumsindo uhlobo. Uphelelwe yinto emfutshane.

Uhlobo lwezindlu, ngaphezu koko, uthathe ixesha kunye nokuzwela kwengqondo kumntu. Usizi emehlweni alukhombisikiyo olungabonakaliyo kunye neepennies, izigqibo ezizenzekelayo ezingenakho ukulungiswa, ngaphandle kweempembelelo ezinamandla zomphefumlo, zichithwa njengento engalunganga ekuqaleni. Ngenxa yokuba abantu abancinci kakhulu banceda ukuphumla nokwenza into engavamile. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukujonga emehlweni abo bathandekayo, ukuphupha ngaphezulu, ukuphulaphula umphefumlo wakho. Kwaye ke ukugqithisa kugqityiwe kube yintsholongwane, inenkathalo kwaye, ngokubanzi, ibe nomgangatho onokuthi ungomeleza nayiphi na intsapho.