Ukwazi ukuba yiyiphi inqununu, unokuklolodela ngendlela ehlekisayo umntu, ubonise iimpazamo okanye umcaphukise. Le ndlela yentetho ijolise ekuhlekeleni, kodwa ngokuthintela ukuhlaziya kwamnyama. Unokuva ukukrakra phantse yonke indawo, ukusuka kubaphathi ukuya kubantwana bakho.
ISarcasm - yintoni na?
AmaJokers kwihlabathi lethu baninzi kwaye ahluke. Ukuba umntu uqala ukwenza ihlaya elibi kwenye, ngoko usebenzisa isicatshulwa esivela kufumaneka ukuba kufumaneke ukufikelela kubantu abaphezulu kunye nobukhulu. Ukuze uqonde ukuba kukuphi ukukhawuleza kuthetha, umntu kufuneka aphendule kwimvelaphi yemvelaphi yale gama.
Unentsingiselo yesiGrike kunye neenguqulelo ezininzi: "ukugqobhoza inyama," "ukugqobhoza inyama," "imilomo ehlabayo," mhlawumbi ibhekisela kumqathango womntu ova into engenamkhethe kwidilesi yakhe, egqoke ihlaya. Izichazi-magama zichaza intsingiselo yaleli gama njengento yokuhlekwa kakubi, ihlazo, ukuhlambalaza, ngoncedo apho bafuna ukumbonisa umntu ngokungahambi kakuhle.
Njani ukuqaphela ukukrakra?
Ukuhlukanisa iinkcazo zeengcamango ezixakile okanye ezihlekisayo zilula. Ngamnye wabo unentsingiselo yakhe. Ukuncitshiswa okuncinci kumnandi amahlaya angenza ukuba ucinge kwaye uhlekise ingxaki okanye umntu ngaphandle kokuhlazisa okanye ukuhlambalaza. I-Irony ininzi "yindoda enetyhefu." Akakwazi ukukhawuleza nje ukuhleka, kodwa akayi kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuba angayithandi le nto okanye loo binzana.
Ngaphandle kweengxelo ezinokukhawuleza ngokukrakra zibuhlungu kakhulu, zinetyhefu kwaye zikhohlakisayo, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba zithini umyalezo. Kule meko, isithethi, njengomthetho, siyayiqonda kakuhle into eyenza umntu aphuthe umntu, kodwa ufezekisa oku. Kule meko, kufanelekile ukuphendula ngokuchanekileyo ngamazwi, ukuze ungavali ngokwakho.
Ungayiphendula njani ngokukhawuleza?
Umbuzo odibeneyo kunye nobuhlungu kakhulu ukuphatha le ndlela yokuthetha ukusuka kwicala lomnye umntu kunye nendlela yokusabela ngayo. Kuphawula ukuba ukukrakra okubukhaliyo akuzwakala ngabantu bonke, kodwa malunga nabo bavumela amahlaya anjalo kwidilesi yabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu onjalo uya kuba "yinkwenkwe yokubetha", nakwidilesi yakhe malunga nangaphandle kwesizathu sokuhlambalaza kakubi wonke umntu ongevila. Zikhusele kwiintlanzi ezihlaselekileyo kwaye unokwenza ngeendlela ezilandelayo:
- ukulahla izakhiwo;
- funda ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza;
- ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukuya kwiikhosi zokukhula komntu.
Iingcali zengqondo zithi ukuhlekwa kwinto evunyelwe abantu abangafanelekanga, abaxhalabisayo ngenxa yokwesaba okanye ukuhlala benetyala , kaninzi bengenakuqonda oko batyala. Qhubekisa oku kungangoko ngokude nje ngamazwi anonkcenkcesha angavumi ukuphendula kummoni, kwaye oku kuya kwenziwa esidlangalaleni. Njengoko umkhuba ubonisa, impendulo ephilileyo, engekho ngaphahlayo, ibuhlungu kakhulu i-joker.
ISarcasm kunye neentloni zibahluko
Ukuze ungakhubeki naluphi na uhlazo kwaye ungenzi nto yintlekele kuwo onke amagama, kubalulekile ukuqonda apho ukukrakra kunye neentloni zikhona, kunokuba zihluke. Ukuba malunga nokuhlambalaza, ngoncedo lwabo bafuna ukuvulela umntu ngokucacileyo, yonke into iyacacile, ngoko ke, ukunyaniseka, ukuba nomxholo wokuhlaziywa okungekho mbi, kuphezulu. Ayikwazi ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuhlekisa okanye ukuchazela. I-Sarcasm yindlela ehlaseleyo kunye nehlazo yokuhlekisa. Ngokubhekiselele, intsingiselo yalo efihlakeleyo kufuneka ihlolwe ukubamba, engabanikiweyo kuwo wonke umntu.
I-Sarcasm ilungile okanye imbi?
Ukuba sithetha ngalabo basetyenziselwa ukuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo rhoqo, ngoko-mthetho njengabantu abahlakaniphile, kodwa kumlinganiselo omkhulu okanye omncinci unqatshelwe ingqwalasela, uthando, ukunakekelwa. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, zixhamle neentsikelelo zobomi kwaye zibona ukuba zifanelekile ukunakwa. Enyanisweni, iintombi ezinjengenzuzo, njengommiselo, kwiintloni zabo ezimbi zinyuka zize zinyanzeliswe, zingacacanga ukuba yiyiphi inqununu.
Ubugcisa bokuziqhayisa abuhlangani naso, kuba kuthatha ukulawula igama, ukusetyenziswa kwalo ngobuchule. Ngexesha elifanayo, i-addressee ye-sarcasm ichanekile, kwaye ingcamango, ihamba kunye nehlazo elibukhali nelinobungozi-icacile. Akuyimfuneko ukuqiqa, ukuhleka okanye ukuhlekisa. Ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani ophethe lesi sixhobo, umphumo wempuphu yakhe iyahluka. Ngelo xesha, asifanele sikhohlwe ukuba umdlali omhle uFaina Ranevskaya waba ngumntu owaziwayo kuphela ngenxa yezakhono zakhe zokwenza, kodwa kunye neengongoma eziqhawulayo ezifanelekileyo kwaye zide ziye kwiingcaphuno.
- Kungcono ukuba ngumntu olungileyo, "umlenze wokufunga" ngaphezu kwesidalwa esithule, esazifundileyo.
- I-Horseradish, ebekwa ngombono wabanye, inikeza ubomi obuzolile novuyo.
- Ngaphantsi komsila omuhle kakhulu wepikoni yile ngqayi inqabileyo. Ngoko ke i-pathos encinci, bentendeni.
- Kutheni na zonke iidenge zifana nabasetyhini?
- Ngaba uyazi ukuba kuthanda ukuthini kwi-movie? Khawucinge ukuba uhlamba kwindawo yokuhlamba uze ukhokele ukhenketho apho.
- Ukufumana ukuqaphela - kuyimfuneko, nokuba kuyimfuneko, ukufa.
- Ubulili besini, ubungqingili, i-masochism, i-sadism ayikho into ephosakeleyo. Iingxaki, eqinisweni, zimbini kuphela: iHockey yentsimi kunye ne-ballet kwiqhwa.
- Yonke into ekhangayo kweli hlabathi iyingozi, okanye iziphatha kakubi, okanye iholele ekutyebeni.
- Ndikuthiyile. Nomaphi apho ndihamba khona, wonke umntu uyakhangeleza athi: "Khangela, lo nguMulia, ungenze ndibe nexhala, kuza."
- Abasetyhini, ngokuqinisekileyo, baqaphele. Ngaba wakha waziva ngelo lifazi elahlekelwa yintloko kuphela ngenxa yokuba le ndoda inemilenze emihle?
- I-Talente yinto yokuzithemba kunye nokukhathazeka okubuhlungu kunye nawe kunye neziphoso zakho, into engakaze ndidibane ne-mediocrity.
- Ngexesha lesine ndibukela le movie kwaye ndimele ndikuxelele ukuba namhlanje abadlali badlala kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili.
Indlela yokufunda ukukhawuleza?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, ukucaphukisa kubonisa ukuziphatha komntu kunye nokuzithemba kwakhe , kodwa xa uqala ukuyisebenzisa ngokungalungile, unokungena kwiinkathazo ezinkulu. Abo banqwenela ukuhleka bamele baqonde indlela yokufunda ukuhlambalaza kunye nokunyaniseka kodwa kungabikho kwisimo esibuhlungu. Into ephambili ukuba ufuna ukulimaza umntu, kufuneka:
- ukuhleka kobuhle;
- nesigama esilungileyo nesilungileyo;
- ukungabikho kwamagama ahlazo kunye namazwi e-parasites;
- ukhetha indawo efanelekileyo okanye imeko yehlaya;
- kujonga kakhulu.
Ukuba uqala ukuzithoba ngokukhawuleza ngamazwi angenangqondo, emva kwenyanga uza kuba nako ukubonisa ngokucacileyo. Into ephambili akuyi kuhamba kakhulu, kuba ukugculela, nakuba kukuhlekisayo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuhlambalaza. Ebomini, olu buchule luncedo kakhulu, kuba intetho eyakhiwe ngokufanelekileyo kunye ne-touch of insolence inceda ukuvula iingcango ezininzi.
ISarcasm kunye neentloni
Ngokwenene nayiphi na intetho kufuneka ibe yingqungquthela yokuhleka. I-Sarcasm ihlekisayo, kuphela ngokunyeliswa kwehlazo. Ngamanye amazwi, ezi zimbini izithethi zokuthetha, ubukho obungenakwenzeka ngaphandle komnye. Abantu abanamahloni abakwazi ukuwasebenzisa entetho yabo, ngoko ke ukungaqondi ukucaphukisa kuthathwa. Ukuphuhlisa ikhono elilodwa ngokwakho, umntu ufunda ngokuzenzekelayo okwesibini. Inzuzo eyona nto kukuba, ukuba bafunde ukuhleka, abantu banokwandisa ukuzithemba kwabo kunye nesimo kuluntu.