Kulo mbuzo wendlela yokulungisa iimpazamo zexesha elidlulileyo, oku kulandelayo kufuneka kuphendulwe: ngaba kuyimfuneko? Konke esiye sabona, nangona kukho na iimpazamo zethu kuba namava angabalulekanga. Ngaba akayi kukhubeka-ayengazi ukuba enze njani kwimeko efanayo. Umntu kufuneka afunde kwiipazamo zakhe, ngaphandle koko oku kukhangelelwa ngaphandle.
Bangaphi abantu - amaninzi amaninzi
Iimpazamo zeminyaka edlulileyo "zinokubethelela" ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ezibangela iintlungu ezibuhlungu ezinkumbulo. Ngelishwa, libale
- into eyayingenakwenzeka. Asizange siphume ngepilisi yamatshini "sichitha" iinqununu ezithile ezisuka kwimemori yethu. Ngoko ke, umbuzo wokuba ulibale njani iimpazamo ezidlulileyo akufanelekanga. Unokwenza lula umthwalo wakho ngokwenza oku kulandelayo:
- kwamkela okwenzekayo. Oku sele kwenzekile kwaye ihleli kwixesha elidlulileyo. Awukwazi ukulungisa nantoni na;
- uzame ukubonelela ngeemeko zeziganeko;
- ungabi nantoni na embi nawuphi na umntu kwaye ungamangaleli mntu;
- ungazigxeka, ayiyi kutshintsha nantoni na. Ufunde le sifundo;
- Hlala kwaye ujabule kuyo yonke imihla.
Ukulungisa iimpazamo zeminyaka edlulileyo kwezinye iimeko kunokubonakala ngathi kunene. Zingaphi kangangoko kwiintombi zamantombazana zizala abantwana kwaye zizinike kwiinkedama. Kwixesha elizayo, ukuphakama kwiinyawo zabo, bakhumbula oko bakwenzileyo baze baqhube emva kwekhiti. Kwaye lo mntwana usuvele wamkela intsapho ehloniphekileyo, unempilo, unxibe kwaye unaphakade ngonaphakade. Kule meko, ukungenelela komama we-biological kuphazamisa umntwana kuphela. Kungenzeka ukuba konke oku kwenziwayo "ukwenza izilungiso" ngokwabo, ukuzola. Kufana nokuzingca. Cinga, kodwa ngaba uyayifuna le nyaniso inenzondelelo kumntu owake waphosa? Ngoku yibangela uxanduva lento oyenzayo. Ukunyamekela kuya kubonisa ukungabikho kokuphazamiseka kwixesha lomntwana.
Ukuba umntwana uhlala kwintandane, umnqweno wakho wokumyisa ekhaya awuvumelekile. Nangona kunjalo, zilungele ukuba akayi kukukhawuleza entanyeni yakhe, enika iingalo zakhe.
Enye into eqhelekileyo "impazamo yexesha elidlulileyo" ngamava ekusebenziseni kwezinye iindawo ezingafanelekanga. Amantombazana amaninzi asuswa kwiindawo ezingenanto kwi-intanethi, amaphephancwadi kunye nezinye iiprojekthi ezifanayo. Kwixesha elizayo, abaninzi banokuzisola kunye namava abo. Ungakhathazeki ngokuzisola. Yayiyintoni-yayiyiyo. Ngenxa yoko, ngelo xesha kwakulungile. Kwaye akukho mntu unelungelo lokugweba.
Ixesha elidlulileyo alikwazi ukulungiswa, kodwa ukusebenzela inzuzo yakho kwikamva - nceda.