Ukongezelela kootitshala abaqinileyo, idayari kunye namabakala kunye neengqungquthela ezinomsoco kwigumbi lokudlela, iintsuku zesikolo abaninzi bakhunjulwa ngenxa yokuthandana kwabo. Maxa wambi abafana baxhomekeke kumandla, badonsa kwii-pigtails, okanye ummelwane akazange ahlale evumela ukuba sibhale phantsi ekulawuleni, kodwa loo nto yayingumlingo-ingakhathazeki kwaye iyonwabile. Kwaye kwakumnandi ukuba ukuphosa kwidiski yokuthanda uthando kumfundi ofunda naye. Kwakudingeka ukuba utshintshe ukubhala ngesandla, ewe, kwaye ngaphandle kokusayinela. Emva koko uya kuqaphela ukuba ngubani inqaku ...
Ngethamsanqa, asizange sikhohlwe ukuba sibhale njani inqaku. Yonke ngoku kwaye sishiya imilayezo eya kumyeni kwifriji ngendlela yohlu lwezinto ezifuneka ukuthengwa kwivenkile, okanye isikhumbuzo sento ebalulekileyo. Kutheni ungasususi konke oku "emsebenzini" ngamagqabi kwaye ushiye enye kuphela, kodwa loo myalezo obalulekileyo - ileta kumyeni wakho othandekayo. Yiloo nto esiya kuyenza ukubhala.
Khumbula konke
Kwiinkxalabo zemihla ngemihla, ubudlelwane kunye nabathandekayo baba yinto eqhelekileyo, balinganiswe kwaye bathatyathwa ngokungenakunikwa. Mhlawumbi le nto inomtsalane wayo, kodwa ukuba unomnqweno "wokugubha" iimvakalelo zakho ncinane, ubhale incwadi enothando kumyeni wakho, ngokunjalo, ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ngenxa yokuba ndifuna, ngenxa yothando, ngenxa yokuba umphefumlo ufuna ...
Bhala ileta kumyeni wakho othandekayo malunga nendlela odibene ngayo, malunga neemvakalelo ezakuphazamisa ngexesha lokutyelela elinde ixesha elide, umkhumbuze ngokuthuthumela oye wabangela kuye, wenze ukuba axoxise loo mvakalelo eyayinzima kakhulu kuwe xa nonke uqale nje. Akukho imfuneko ukukhangela isigqi okanye ukucaphula ama-classic, ngoko ke ukuba ubhale njani incwadi enothando kumyeni wakho, intliziyo yakho iya kukuxelela. Into eyona nto ukubhala ngokunyanisekileyo, ngokunyanisekileyo nangaphandle kwintanethi ye-intanethi, lo "mhlobo" apha uya kubakho ngokugqithiseleyo.
"Uyakhumbula indlela esidibana ngayo? Yayiyimini yam yokuqala yokusebenza, okanye yesibini, andiyikhumbuli ... Kususela ekuseni ndakuzama ukubeka ibhande lam, elalibizwa ngokuba yinyumba ... Kwaye ngoku uyeza ukusebenza, kwaye kwakukho mna, njengomqeqeshi. Andizange ndihlekise, ungenakubona nje ...
Kwaye emva kwam usuku. Ndaya kwi cafe nje ukuba ndibe neti. Utshintshe i-bulb yokukhanya kwisibane sokukhanyisa phezu kwe-counter counter, isitshintshile ixesha elide, ngokuqinisekileyo akuzange iwele kumanqanaba ... Ndabona indlela endikhangele ngayo, yonke amehlo ayigqalayo)) kwaye ndiyakhumbula ukuba uyithandile ingubo eluhlaza eluhlaza apho ndafika , Ndiyathembisa ukuba ngomso ndiya kubeka ... kwaye sinokuya endaweni ethile. Ndicebisa ukulungelelanisa i-chaos elula, siza kuqala ngokutyelela ibha ye karaoke, kwaye siza kuhlala ekhaya ... Uthanda njani le ngcamango? .. "
Kwileta efanayo, kukho into ethi "ifake" kwaye ibuyele engqondweni ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, ekubangela ukuba ube nakho konke iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo apho esi siqalo sinxulumene nawe. Imvelaphi kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, ukulula okubhaliweyo kunika inkcazo engapheliyo malunga neenkcukacha, ubuncinane obukhunjulwayo ngamnye. Gxininisa into ekukhunjulwe ngumyeni wakho (umzekelo, ileta - ingubo eluhlaza). Kwawe ezimbini, ezi "zinto ezincinane" azikho. Le nxalenye yebali lakho kwaye ezi zikhumbuzo ziza kukubangela ukwesaba. Ileta enomxholo ofanayo unokubhalwa kumyeni wakhe ngomhla wesiganeko somtshato, makamfumene ekuseni phantsi komlambo ...
Kwabo bathanda ...
Ulunge ngakumbi kunobumba obuhle kunye nesibhengezo sothando lomyeni wakhe kuphela ... inobumba obuthathaka. Uthando lwendoda kunye nomfazi bahluke ngokungafaniyo ekubonakaleni kwabo. Uthando lomfazi kumntu luthando lwakhe lwengqondo olubangelwa yile ndoda. Uthando lomntu ludibaniswa nolonwabo olwenzeka ngalo mfazi. Akukho nto ongayenza, kodwa ukuba ufuna "ukugubungela" iqabane lakho - velisa iifenasi. Ngaphezu koko, akuyi kuxhamla kuphela umntu wakho, kodwa nawe uya kuzuza.
Incwadi yesimo esingafanelekanga akufanele ibe yinto engacacisekanga njengomdla "onomdla" kumda. IZityhilelo malunga nendlela ofuna ukuzenza ngayo ukuthanda uthando nomyeni wakho, inkcazo ecacileyo yazo zonke onokuthanda ukuzenza, uya kuphoqa umyeni wakho ukuba agqibe izinto ezisebenzayo kwangaphambili kunokuqhelekileyo.
Thumela ileta nge-imeyile okanye usetyenziswe kwakhona yi-SMS-koy-nayiphi na indlela efanelekileyo. Ngokubhekiselele kumbhalo, ngoko, ukuba unamava amaninzi kulo mbandela, ngoko unokusebenzisa i-intanethi, ukuphefumlelwa, ukuthetha.
Ngamanye amaxesha kukho iimeko xa kunzima ukuqala incoko, umzekelo, kukho ukuphambana phakathi kwakho. Kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuba uxolise ngenxa yezinto zonke abazithethayo, kunye nesipho sokuthetha sinyamalale. Kwimeko apho, thabatha iphepha uze ubhale ileta kumyeni wakho ngokuthandana naye, malunga nokuba uyithande kangakanani kuwe. Unokuxolisa, unokuyiguqulela yonke into ehlekisayo, ukuba kufanelekile. Ngaloo ndlela uya kuyinyamekela iqabane lakho kunye nosapho lwakho. Ninyamekele iimvakalelo zomnye nomnye.
"Andizange ndilale ubusuku bonke ... Ndixolele ngezolo, ndaya kude kakhulu. Uyamangalisa, andiyi kuyeka ukubonga indalo yokuhlangana nawe ...
PS Thenga isonka kunye nobisi ngokuhlwa. "