Indlela yokuqala incoko nomfana obalaseleyo? Lo mbuzo wabuyela phantse yonke into esikolweni, kodwa sithembele ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kwiindawo zobomi abadala ziza kuwela ezinyaweni zethu. Kwaye ngoku isikolo siphelile, ukwesaba abantwana kusemva, kunye nombuzo wokuba ungene njani kwaye uqale incoko yokuqala kunye nomfana.
Amantombazana amaninzi akholelwa ukuba ukusuka kwimimiselo yokuqala yomnxibelelwano kufuneka udakalise. Nokuba ungakwenza njani, ukuba awuqali ukuthetha nomntu onomdla, mhlawumbi engavamile? Kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onokuthanda le ndlela yokudala, ngakumbi xa ekhangele kuwe ixesha elide, kodwa akayi kukwazi ukuza. Ngokuqinisekiswa kwakhe, unobungozi ngakumbi ukuhlazisa unyuliweyo. Ngoko yintoni omele ukwenze, indlela yokuqala incoko kunye nomntu ngokuchanekileyo, yiyiphi imibuzo eya kuba nomdla kuye? Enyanisweni, uluhlu olulodwa lwemibuzo yokuthetha nomfana alukwazi ukuvakaliswa - bonke abantu bahlukile, kwaye umntu ufuna ukuthetha ngebhola, kwaye umntu ulambile ukuxoxa ngeveli entsha, ngoko kufuneka usebenze kwimeko. Kodwa ukuqala incoko kukho imibinzana emigangatho ephantsi. Yaye ungagcini kwigama elithi "umgangatho"! Emva kwakho konke, asifuni ukufumana umvuzo wonyango lokuqala, kodwa makhe awazi ukuba unomdla kuthi.
Liliphi ixesha?
Ewe, umbuzo unqabileyo, kodwa sele sele ube phakathi kwezizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuthandana. Umlindo wakho kuphela ngeli xesha kulungile ukususa, kwaye ususe ifowuni yakho esikhwameni. Emva kokuba ufunde ixesha, unokudumisa umlindi (ifowuni yefowuni), ukuba unomdla kumntu, uya kuzama ukuxhasa incoko.
Yeka intle enhle!
Umfana uhamba nenja (ikati, i-hamster, i-canary ngesandla), udumisa isilwanyana sakhe. Abantu abathandayo izilwanyana banokuthetha ngezilwanyana zabo ngeeyure, ngoko isihloko sesincoko siqinisekiswa kuwe.
Nceda, nceda
Nasi sele sibonisa ukucinga. Mhlawumbi awuvuli ibhotile yamanzi amaminerali okanye awukwazi ukuyifumana ifowuni yakho yeselula, kwaye wayibona imodeli efanayo? Inhliziyo yesintu esomeleleyo ayiyi kukwazi ukumelana nethuba lokubonisa iimpawu zayo ezilungileyo: amandla, ingqiqo nokuphendula.
Ndingayithanda le ngoma!
Uyayiphulaphula umculo ngokusebenzisa i-headphone, kodwa ngokukhawuleza kangangokuthi ivakalelwa kwabanye? Musa ukulahleka, le yithuba lethu. Sondela kumfana kwaye sitsho siyakuvuyela le ngoma (ukuba uyifumene) okanye unomdla kumdlali (ukuba ingoma ingabonakali). Unokucela ukuyeka le ngoma kwifowuni yakho, kwaye kwinkqubo yokuxoxa ngesihloko somculo ozithandayo.
Ndiyamthanda iincwadi zakhe!
Ngaba uye wakubona indoda ekhangayo kwi-bookshop kwaye awazi ukuba ungaqala njani incoko naye? Kulula nje, jonga kwiincwadi azinomdla kuzo, uze ubuze umbuzo malunga nobuchule balo mbhali, bathi, sele ufune ukufunda into ethile kulolu chungechunge, kodwa ungalindeli.
Kubonakala ngathi ndilahlekile ...
Buza indlela yokufumana nayiphi na isitalato, ivenkile okanye i-cafe. Abafana bathanda ukuzizwa njengabaphathi be-master, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukuba unqatshelwe.
O, ngaba le tablet?
Ngaba babone ezandleni zakhe ezinye izakhono zobugcisa?
Njengoko ubona, ungaqalisa ingxoxo kunye nomntu kunye naliphi na ibinzana, into eyona nto kukuba yinto enjalo, ngoko asiyikuqwalasela kuphela ukubonakala komntu odibeneyo, kodwa kwanokwenzayo. Yaye nokuba uxakekile, kuba umntu osemva angeke ayeke nayiphi na, nokuba yintoni umbuzo wokuqala. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kufuneka ube ngumfazi kwaye ungabi namahloni ukubonisa umdla wakho kumntu. Awukwazi ukuthetha igama, yakha nje amehlo, kwaye yena ngokwakhe ufuna ukukwazi kangcono.