Uyintoni na - umfazi okhangayo emehlweni abantu? Abaninzi bafuna ukuthandwa nokuthanda, kodwa abazi ukuba baqale kuphi. Kodwa ukuthabatha akunzima kakhulu. Ngelo xesha, akukho datha yangaphandle okanye umlingisi odlala indima. Imeko ebalulekileyo yokukhangisa kukuzithemba nokuzithanda.
Indlela yokuthandwa ngabantu: into ephambili
Ukuba ungeyithandwa kakhulu, mhlawumbi, ingxaki kukuba awunalo uthando olwaneleyo. Intombazana ejongene nokuzithoba, iyaziveza yona kunye namazwi, kunye nezenzo zokugcina.
Ungazithembela njani kuwe? Ukuba ngaba abazali abazange bakhulise kuwe, unokuzenza ngokwakho kwaye kungekudala ufumane iziphumo ezintle.
- Uthando ngokwakho lufanelekile. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka nje ukwazi ukuba ungumntu ontle kwaye ufanelekele konke okulungileyo. Ukwenza oku, fumana "iDayari yokuThembela" -tha incwadana okanye incwadana kwaye ubhale phantsi zonke iingenelo zakho kunye nempumelelo. Kufuneka kwenziwe ngokoqobo imizuzu engama-5-10 ngosuku, kodwa rhoqo kwaye iphinda ifunde kwakhona into ebhaliweyo.
- Ukuzithemba kutholakala lula ngabo bantu baziyo ukuba baneetalente nezakhono ezibahlula kwabanye. Cinga, ngaba unayo? Ukuba akunjalo, akunandaba. Yenza nje into yokuzilibazisa - ukufotowa, ukubetheka, imidlalo, ukudansa okanye into endiyithandayo. Ukuphuhlisa kwindawo ekhethiweyo kwaye uphumelele, uya kukholelwa lula kuwe.
- Ukuzithemba kuyimfuneko ukuphuhlisa ngokwayo kwaye ube nolwazi kunoma yiphina insimu encinane. Khetha into ethile, oko kukulungele ukuba ube yingcali. Oku kuya kukunyanzela ukuba wakhe ukuzithemba.
Kwaye, ke, akukho mfazi onokuzithemba kuze kube sekupheleni, ukuba akaqinisekanga ngokubonakala kwakhe. Ewe, awukwazi "ukukhula" ngamapentimitha angama-10 okanye utshintshe uhlobo lomfanekiso, kodwa unokulawula ubunzima bakho, unakekele ulusu lwakho, iinwele, amazinyo kunye nezipikili, uze wenze idatha yakho yemvelo ibe iphelele!
Ukhangeleka njani kumadoda?
Ukuze ukhangeleke ujonge, kufuneka uqaphele izibonakaliso eziphambili zobuhle besifazane. Mhlawumbi ngaphambi kokuba ube mnandi kumadoda, kuya kufuneka ulahlekelwe isisindo, u tyelele i-dermatologist, udokotela wamazinyo kunye ne-trichologist, utshintshe i-wardrobe yakho okanye umbala weenwele - kodwa kholwani mna, umphumo uya kuwufumana!
- Into ephambili abantu abayinyamekelayo yinto eqhelekileyo. Akunandaba ukuba unxibe ama-48 okanye 42 ubuninzi beengubo. Into ephambili - umzobo wakho kufuneka uhambelane: ayikho isisu esisiqhayisayo, ayikho inqabana. Ukuba kuyimfuneko - ukunciphisa umzimba, yenzeni kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, kodwa yenza ukuba umlinganiselo wakho uphelele! Oku kuya kwandisa ukuzithemba.
- Indima ekhethekileyo ekubonakala kwintombazana idlala ngesikhumba. Ngethamsanqa, ngoku kukho izixhobo ezininzi kunoma yiluphi uhlobo onokuhlala uhlala ulujonga kakuhle kwaye luhle. Ukuba unengxaki yesikhumba - bhalisela i-dermatologist, ungalibali. Mhlawumbi ingxaki enokukukhathaza iminyaka emininzi iza kulungiswa kwiiveki okanye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa.
- Endaweni yesithathu yizinwele. Okokuqala - bafanele bahlambuluke, banomdla ngombala, baphelele kwaye bahlambuluke kakuhle. Njalo qhawula iingcambu, ukuba kuyimfuneko, sebenzisa i-shampoos yezobugcisa kunye neentlobo zeenwele.
Khetha i-hairstyle ngesimboli esilula, okwazi ukuyenza ngokulula. - Izambatho zikwindawo yesine. Xa uphuma endlwini, ixesha ngalinye lidala umfanekiso oqinileyo apho zonke iinkcukacha zidibene kunye kwaye zikhangelelana. Ungasebenzisa izixhobo ezi zinto. Ukuphuhlisa umboniso, ukuhlaziywa kwamaphephancwadi kunye nokufunda iingcebiso zabapenzi.
- Indawo yesihlanu ukulungiswa kweenkcukacha ezincinci - ukumamatheka, izandla, iinyawo. Jonga umququzelelo wakho kunye nokuhamba nge-pedicure, tyelela udokotela wamazinyo rhoqo. Kufuneka uphelele!
Ukuzinyamekela rhoqo kwandisa ukuzithemba. Xa utyalomali ngakumbi ekuphuhliseni nasekubonakaleni kwakho, uyazixabisa ngokwakho kwaye ukhathalela ngakumbi amadoda.