Njengamantombazana amancinci, simele silindele isikhulu, kodwa lo mlingiso awuhlali ukhawuleza ukufikelela endleleni yethu. Emva kwexesha, ukulinda kucaphukisa kwaye siyaqonda ukuba ukukhangela loo mnye kufuneka kuthathwe ngesandla. Kodwa ungaphi na umntu oqhelekileyo kunye nendlela yokwenza okulungileyo? Makhe sicinge ngalo mbuzo kunye.
Ukwazi njani umntu ofanelekileyo?
Ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ngeendawo apho ukwazi khona umntu ontle, ohloniphekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukugqiba oko sitshala imali kule ngcamango. Emva kokuqonda uhlobo luni lomntu esiyidingayo, kuya kuba lula ukunquma indawo yokuhlala yakhe. Kuyavuma, akufanelekanga ukukhangela umviwa wesayensi kwivenkile yokulungisa imoto. Yaye emva kokumisela umfanekiso wesithandwa, sifuna ukunqoba kwakhe.
Kuphi ukudibana nomntu ocebileyo?
Senze isigqibo sokuba ulonwabo ufuna ubutyebi (akunjalo, kungekhona ukuchuma okuphakathi)? Emva koko uza kufuneka usebenze kanzima wena kunye nokufumana umviwa. Njengendoda ecebile ngokwenene ithuba lokuhlangana kwivenkile lingenanto. Ngoko ke, sifunda uluhlu lwabantu abazizityebi beli dolophu kwaye ukhethe uviwo lwakho. Ukukhetha, ukukhangela ulwazi malunga nalo (amajelo amaninzi ngokubhekiselele kobuntu abadumileyo angaphambuki, ngoko ke, into efundwayo), sifuna indawo apho lo mntu uhlala khona. Mhlawumbi udlalwa kwindawo ethile yokutyela, iklabhu okanye yena ngokwakhe ungumnikazi weyiphi na indawo yokuzonwabisa. Emva kokuba siqokelele yonke idatha efunekayo, siya kunqoba, kuphela esikukhumbulayo ngokukhuphisana-imfuno yabantu abaphumelele kangaka uphakamileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uqhubele phambili bonke abaphiswano.
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Kuphi ukufumana umntu oqhelekileyo, umntu ohloniphekileyo aze amazi? Ewe, isityebi sabo, imali ayiyona nto ephambili. Ukuba ucinga ngokufanayo, makhe sijonge kwiindawo zokuhlala ezi ndawo ziqhelekileyo. Kwaye, ngokukhawuleza sisitshabalalisa iibhola kunye nemivalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho amadoda amaninzi apho, kwaye mhlawumbi ziqhelekileyo, kodwa ziza khona ukuphumla, kungenxa yoko ayiyi kukwazi ukubopha ubudlelwane obude kwiqela. Inokwenzeka ukuba, omaziyo uya kugqiba ngobusuku obudibeneyo, emva koko loo mntu uya kulibala malunga nentlanganiso.
- Ukuba awufuni ukuchitha ixesha lokukhangela umntu wamaphupha akho, ngoko ukhangele osebenza nabo-mhlawumbi phakathi kwabo kwaye ufihle umviwa ofanelekileyo. Kodwa kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba iincwadi zesevisi azivunyelwanga kuzo zonke iinkampani, kwaye i-ofisi yeengcali ziza kuhlamba rhoqo amathambo esibini sakho.
- Ngaba uyaphupha ngengqondo onokuxhasa incoko malunga neengcamango zokubhala okanye umntu odala? Emva koko uqondisa indlela eya kwiilayibrari (igumbi lokufunda), iibhrari, imiboniso, iiferenethi kunye neemyuziyam. Indlela yokwazisa apha ilula kakhulu-ukuvakalisa umsebenzi (umboniso, umyuziyamu) okanye ukuza kumbuzo malunga nencwadi okanye umbhali (ilayibrari, iincwadi zokugcina impahla) kumntu oyithandayo. Kuphela kwindawo yokuzonwabisa kuyakufaneleka ukuba ukhange ngokukhethekileyo ekukhethweni kwakho, kuba indawo enjalo isoloko ihanjelwa ngamabini. Ngoko sijonga kakuhle, kutheni sifuna umntu oxakekile?
- Indawo yokuzivocavoca yindawo enhle yokujonga umfana onedatha elungileyo. Kuphela kuyimfuneko ukuba uziphathe ngokusemthethweni ngendlela enokwenzeka - ufikelele ekuqeqesheni kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ungacingi ukuba ukhangela amadoda, kwaye kungekudala. I-Parn, ebona ngenyameko kwiindawo zokuzivocavoca, intombikazi, akukho nto iyenzayo malunga naye ayicingi. Ngoko uya kuba nesihe kuphela. Ngoko ke, xa ufunda ukuqeqeshwa, umntu akufanele acinge nje ngenzuzo
ukunikezelwa komzimba wakhe-ukugxininisa isidima somntu onqabelayo, kodwa engaphelelekanga, agqoke ubucwebe, ukwenza i-gym ayifanelekanga. - Yaye ke, unokuqhelana nomfana kwi-Intanethi. Kodwa kuninzi ukukholelwa yonke into awaya kuyithetha nge-correspondence ayifanelekanga, mhlawumbi, xa udibana no-70% webali malunga nawe uya kuba yinyani. Ewe, ukuthandana kwe-intanethi kufana neLotter, kodwa le ndlela yokuphanda idibene kunye nabanye. Emva kwakho konke, akukho mntu uyazi ukuba ngubani ohambahambayo kuphela-phantsi kweefestile zendlu yakho okanye, emva kokubona isithombe sakho kwisayithi, liyure ukuza neqhosha lokuqala ukuqala unxibelelwano.