Mhlawumbi, yonke intombazana iphupha lolwalamano olonwabileyo, xa umntu ethanda kwaye egqoke ezandleni zakhe. Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, amadoda ngokuya ngokungafani namaphulo wabasetyhini, abacaphukisayo, bethengisa kwaye aphumele. Amantombazana amaninzi angathanda ukwazi indlela yokwenza umfana aziqonde ukuba uyavuya.
Ngesizathu esithile, isithethe siye saqulunqa ukuba xa intombazana ivuma ukulwa kunye nokuvuma iimvakalelo, abafana bayaqonda ukuba injongo ifikeleleke kwaye unako ukuphumla. Yingakho iingqondo zeengqondo zithi kufuneka uhlale unomdla kwaye ugcine umntu efanelekileyo.
Indlela yokufundisa umntu ongayithandiyo?
Okokuqala, kuyafaneleka ukuba uzikhethele indlela indoda ekufuneka ivakalise ngayo isimo sayo sengqondo. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantu babeka izipho ezahlukeneyo kunye nezinto eziphathekayo kule ngcamango, ngoxa abanye bakholelwa ukuba ukubonga kubonakalisa ukuthetha ngomlomo.
Amantombazana amaninzi, ngokweengcali ze-psychologists, ukucinga ngento umntu engayithandiyo kwaye engayithobeliyo, ekhupha ngokwabo, ezayo ngezizathu ezingekho. Abameli abaninzi abanesondo esomeleleyo banethemba lokuba amantombazana enza imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo endlwini, kuba ayithandayo, kwaye awanako ukubenza bazive behle. Ngenxa yokungaqondi kakuhle, kukho ukuvakalelwa kukuba umntu othandekayo akayithandiyo kwaye akayithandi.
Indlela yokufundisa umfana ukuba akuqonde:
- Okokuqala, hlalutya ulwalamano , mhlawumbi ngokwenene ungumfazi ongeyena kunye nompheki, oko kuthetha ukuba ukuziphatha okunjalo kwintanda kulungile. Ukulungisa imeko, kufuneka usebenze ngokwakho.
- Xa kwenzeka ukuba yonke into ilungile kwaye loo mfana uqobo wayekekile ukuqonda oko kwenziwa kuye, umane umcime. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba yena,
Ukubuya ekhaya kwakuhlala kusasa isidlo esitshisayo etafileni, uze ubale nje ngale nkcubeko. "Isiteleka esinjalo" siya kunceda loo mntu ukuba akhangele le meko ngendlela eyahlukileyo. - Ukuqonda into enokuyenza xa umntu engayiboni, kubalulekile ukuba akhumbule indlela esebenzayo kakhulu - zinyamekele. Thatha ixesha kungekuphela nje, kodwa kunye neenguqu zangaphakathi. Yenza i-hairstyle entsha, ubuyekeze ikhabethe yakho, ulahlekelwe isisindo, fumana i- hobby yakho, njl njl. Xa ubona intombazana enomdla kwaye inomdla, ecaleni kwayo, uya kuxabisa ubuncwane obunjalo.
- Menze abe nomona. Thatha ukuthandana kwamanye amadoda, uphendule kumanconywa, musa ukunyathela ngaphaya komgca, kuba yonke into ingaphela ngokuphuka kobudlelwane.