Intombazana nganye, ngokuhlukana kwintanda yakhe, ilahlekile. Iingcamango neemvakalelo malunga nokuba ukhona kwaye ukuba ulungile, musa ukuphuma entloko. Ulwahlulo luvavanyo olunzima lweentliziyo ezimbini zothando. Izizathu zokwahlukana kwexesha elide zinokuba ziimeko ezahlukeneyo, ezingalindelekanga, uhambo olusebenzayo ekuhambeni kweentsapho, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo endleleni eyawa enkundleni iba ngumkhosi.
Incwadi eya emkhosini wendoda ethandekayo yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokumkhumbuza ukuba kungekhona nje intsapho yakhe kunye nezihlobo ezilindele ukubuyela ekhaya, kodwa nawe. Bhala ileta kwintsimi yakho oyithandayo emkhosini, mhlawumbi zonke iintombazana zithandana, ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukwabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho kunye nesiqingatha.
Kubonakala ngathi kunokuba lula kunokuba ubhale incwadi kumntu emkhosini? Kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa kuvela ekubhaliseni, amantombazana aqala ukulahleka kwaye awazi ukuba uya kuqala, indlela yokubonisa iimvakalelo zabo ezingcono kunye nento onokuyenza okanye ongakwazi ukubhala ngayo. Ukuba oku ku malunga nawe, ngoko kufuneka ufunde le nqaku malunga nendlela yokubhala ibhalela emkhosini, kwaye yonke into iya kuba lula kwaye icace.
Indlela yokubhala ibhalela emkhosini?
Umkhosi ubunzima beemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ze-draftee ngokwakhe, ngoko xa efumene imeko "engumkhosi" engaqhelekanga, umfana kufuneka azi ukuba uyamxhasa kungakhathaliseki ukuhlukana kunye nomgama. Ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo okuxhasa umthandayo akulula.
Ukuze wakho umhlobo okanye inkwenkwe ukuba athole ileta yakho, kufuneka wazi ezinye iinkalo zobhaliso obhalwa emkhosini.
Kutheni ungabhala?
- Iincwadi ezineendaba ezimbi malunga nokufa kwezihlobo okanye ekuphelelweni kobudlelwane kunye nejoni akunakufika kuye, kuba emkhosini zonke iileta zifundwa kwakhona. Oku kuyimfuneko ukwenzela ukukhusela amajoni ekuphazamiseni ukuphazamiseka ngokomzimba, okubandakanya kunye nokufikelela kwimikhosi yemikhosi kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi.
- Kwileta kwakhona akuyimfuneko ukuhlambalaza into endiyithandayo nantoni na, ngenxa yokuba isimo sakhe sengqondo asiqinisekanga ngoku kwaye unokuthatha yonke into ayifunde kakhulu entliziyweni yakhe.
Yintoni endiyibhaleyo kule leta?
- Ungaqala njani ileta kumkhosi? Ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho, nditsho ukuba uphoswa ngumama wakho kwaye ulindele ukubuyela kwakhe. Faka inyaniso "Ndiyakuthanda" kwincwadi eya kumntu oyintanda. Akuyi kuba yinto enqabileyo ukukhankanya ukuba uyaziqhenya ngokuba uyasebenza emkhosini kwaye unika umsebenzi wakhe ezweni lakubo.
- Ukuze ubhale incwadi enhle kumntu emkhosini, faka enye into kwimvulophu, inokuba yinto ethile okanye yakho
Ifoto, yile ngqungquthela enobungqina obuya kunika ileta yakho ngokunyaniseka kwaye ikuncede ekuvezeni iimvakalelo zakho. - Buza indlela asebenza ngayo, kwenzeka ntoni kuye. Kwileta yokuphendula, okhethiweyo uya kuchaza onke amava akho, ngoko, ukulahla amava angaphakathi. Oku kuya kunika ijoni ukuba ayinandaba nawe kwaye iimvakalelo zakho ngaye zinzulu kunanini ngaphambili.
Musa ukulibala iileta. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungabiza iqabane lakho, kodwa ndikholelwe, incoko yocingo ayisayi kufaniswa neleta ebhalwe ngesandla sakho, esiza kuqhubeka ngonaphakade. Ukubhala ngexesha lokwahlukana kweencwadi kumntu othandekayo kusondelene nabathandekayo ababini, kuba ekude banalo ixesha lokucinga ngeempazamo zabo. Ngokwahlukana, iintliziyo zothando ziqonda izizathu zengxabano ezavela ngaphambili, kwaye zifumene iimpendulo kwimibandela emininzi yomdla obachaphazelayo, owanceda ukuba benze ngcono.