Abantwana banamhlanje bakhula kwihlabathi apho kukho izilingo ezininzi ezixhalabisa abazali. Omnye wabo iziyobisi ...
Ngokwezibalo, malunga ne-20% yezilwanyana ezixhatshazwayo iziyobisi zingabantwana kunye nabaselula. Kwaye ukuba ngaphambili ingxaki yokubheja kweziyobisi ebilisiwe ekusebenziseni kakubi iziyobisi (inhaling vapor of glue, varnishes, petrooline, njl.), Namhlanje abantwana bazama ukuzama ukuzama izilwanyana "abadala".
Iimbangela zokulutha komntwana kunye nokukhusela
Iminyaka yokuqala yobomi ilungu elincinci lentsapho lisusa kubazali bakhe phantse lonke ixesha. Ngeli thuba, umntwana usuphantsi kokunyamekelwa kwabantu abadala, kwaye ke, banqabile ukuba bacinge ngengxaki enjengomlutha womntwana. Isongelo sibonakala ngexesha apho isangqa soqhagamshelwano sandisa ngokuphawulekayo: umntwana usempembelelo yomnye umntu, kwaye abazali abaninzi, bengayiqondi ukuba intsapho yintoni kumntwana , ayikwazi ukulawula zonke iinyawo zayo. Nangona kunjalo, umoya wentsapho ophilileyo uyona thintelo ekukhuselweni kwezilwanyana kunye nokulutha kweziyobisi zabantwana abaselula. Oku akubhekiseli kukuphila kwangaphandle, kodwa umoya wokuthembela kwawo onke amalungu entsapho.
Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba isiqhamo esinqatshelwe sisiphumo, kwaye ukwazi ukusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa esikolweni, umntwana angabanjwa ngokubambisana nabathengisi beziyobisi ngaphakathi kweso sikolo. Ii-discos zesikolo zanamhlanje - esinye seziza eziphambili zokuthengisa urhwebo ngesikolo. Esi akusona isizathu sokungavumeli umntwana ozithandayo ukuba ahambe kwimibutho, musa ukuphelelwa phawu, kwaye unake ingqalelo impawu eziphazamisayo.
Iimpawu zokulutha komntwana:
- ukuhla kwezemfundo;
- ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwizinto zokuzonwabisa ezidlulileyo, ukunganakwa;
- ukwahlukana, ukuxhatshazwa nokugqithisa ngokweqile;
- ucela imali;
- ukunyaniseka , ukuphepha ukukhulumisana nabazali;
- ukuziphatha okungonelanelekanga;
- i-pallor, i-dilated students.
Ukuba ubona nayiphi na imiqondiso engentla, musa ukukhawuleza ukuvakala i-alamu: ayibonakali ukuba kukho ukulutha kweziyobisi. Nangona kunjalo, qaphela kwaye uthathe isinyathelo xa kunokwenzeka. Ukuqala - nje uthetha kumntwana. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokwaneleyo ukufumanisa isizathu sokuba ayenze kunye / okanye asebenzise iziyobisi.
Fumana ukuba yiyiphi imithi umntwana wakho azame ngayo, kwaye ufumane ixesha lokudla kwabo. Nangona ukuba "nje ukuzama", kuyimfuneko ukufuna uncedo lweengcali.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ungabonakali ugonyamelo olusesikweni. Zama ukusondela kumntwana. Ukuthetha naye njengalinganayo, sitshele ngempazamo yobutsha bakho. Uchitha ixesha elingakumbi kunye. Yeka ihlabathi ngaphandle kweziyobisi libe ngumntwana wakho kunomtsalane kunokuba kukho okwangoku.