Iingcamango zizahlula umntwana kumntu omdala. Yile nto eyenza ubuntu bomntwana. Ukuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo kweengcamango kubantwana akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali, ootitshala kwi-kindergartens, iingcali ezikolweni zokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili. Indawo ebalulekileyo kule nkqubo idlalwe yimidlalo yokuphuhliswa kwengcamango kubantwana, eziqhelekileyo kwisenzo sengqondo kunye nokufundisa.
Ukuba ngaba ootitshala bezakhono bajonga le nkqubo kwiinkalo eziyinkimbinkimbi (izifundo ezinokwinkcazo, izimo ezifanayo, iingxoxo), abazali bangazimela ngokuzimeleyo ukuphuhliswa kwengcamango yabantwana beminyaka yobudala, ngokudlala nje nabo kwimidlalo "eyiyo".
Kutheni uhlakulela ingcamango?
Ekuqondeni kweminye, ukucinga kuhambelana nefantasy, kodwa ayikho. Akunakwenzeka ukufezekisa impumelelo esikolweni ukuba ingcamango ingaphuhliswa. Umntwana onjalo akaqondi kakuhle into ebalulekileyo yokufundisa, unengxaki yokukhumbula, ukuseka izixhumanisi phakathi kwezinto, ukuxazulula iingxaki ezibonakalayo kunye nezifundo. Kwaye kunzima ukubonisa iingcamango nentetho. Imisebenzi ekhethekileyo yokuphuhliswa kwengcamango, eyenzelwe abantwana, yincandelo ekudaleni "ipad" efanelekileyo yenkqubo yokucinga.
Siyidlale ngokuxhamla
Ukuba indima yomdlalo ekuphuculweni kwengcamango inkulu, kuya kuba nengqiqo ukucinga ukuba imidlalo enjalo kufuneka ibe nzima. Nangona kunjalo, ngenhlanhla, oku akunjalo. Umama ngamnye uyakhumbula, kubonakala ngathi, umdlalo, xa umntwana eqala ukuhleka xa ebona umama ejonga ngaphantsi kwephepha. Enyanisweni, wayeselindele ukubonakala kwakhe, nangona wabona kuphela iphepha. Intsana eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala inako "ukugqiba" umfanekiso womama engaboni phambi kwayo. Ngokufanayo, yonke imidlalo yokuphuhliswa kwengcamango yokudala "umsebenzi", apho kungekho nto inzima.
Umntwana oneminyaka engama-50 ubudala unokunikwa umdlalo wokudlala imidlalo apho kuyimfuneko ukuxelisa amanyathelo athile. Ukwenza oku, khetha ingoma okanye inkondlo, uphinde uphinde uhambise yonke into esiyithetha ngayo: sihamba phezu kweqhwa njengeMamontenok, sidlala i-accordion njengengwenya yaseGena, ulila ngokukhalela ibhola, njengoTanya. Uneminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala, kuyathakazelisa ukudlala i-animation, oko kukuthi, umntwana kufuneka azivelele ngento ethile, umzekelo, isinyithi, kwaye ubonise yonke into edlalwa ngayo nale nto. Umdala omdala, imidlalo enokubaluleka kwaye ecacileyo ingaba. Ngomntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, unokwenza ukuba ulungiselele indlu yaseshashalazini kuyo yonke intsapho.
Ungalindelanga ukuba le midlalo ihlakulele ingcamango yabantwana besikolo sokuqala iza kunika iziphumo ezilungileyo ngokukhawuleza. Kumntwana ubandakanyeke kwinkqubo yokudala, kufuneka azi imithetho nemimiselo yomdlalo. Ekuqaleni, ukucinga "kuya kuphefumula", kwaye
Nangona kunjalo, musa ukukhawuleza izinto. Umdlalo ukongeza kwimisebenzi yokuphuhlisa kufuneka ujonge kwaye ujabule umntwana. Ukubandakanya kwimidlalo yengqondo nomntwana malunga nemizuzu eyi-10-15, uze uthathe ikhefu.
Ezi zakhono ziza kuba luncedo kakhulu kwixesha elizayo, kuba, ngaphandle kokuphuhliswa kwengqondo, zenza igalelo ekuphuhliseni ukunyuka. Umfundi ufunda ukugxininisa ingqalelo yakhe, ukucinga, ukuhlalutya. Musa ukulungisa umntwana ukuba namhlanje ufuna ukuba yi-hedgehog eneenaliti ezibomvu. Makhe acingisise, inceda kakhulu. Ekugqibeleni, uya kusenza ngelinye ilanga aqiniseke ukuba ayikho i-hedgehogs engekhoyo, kodwa namhlanje uya kumonwaba kwaye anomdla.