Ubala amaxuku, ahamba emafini, avuma iimpazamo zokuqala ... Ngokuqinisekileyo ngamnye umzali uvile izikhalazo ezifanayo ngutitshala malunga nokungafanelanga komntwana. Kwaye babonakala bevelisa umntwana ngokusemandleni abo, kwaye bamnika ixesha elaneleyo. Nangona kunjalo, ingqondo yomntwana kufuneka ihlale iphantsi koxinzelelo. Kuphela ke imisebenzi yememori kunye neengqalelo ayiyi kubaphazamisa abazali nabafundisi. Yaye nangona ukuphuhliswa kwengqalelo yabantwana kuyinkqubo echukumisayo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo luyinkimbinkimbi, kubalulekile ukuzama.
Iimpawu zengqalelo kubantwana
Ingqalelo kukuba, okokuqala, ukusabela okuzinzile komntwana kwimpembelelo yangaphandle yendalo. Kukho iintlobo ezintathu zengqalelo:
- ukungazibandakanyi - ayifuni umzamo kwaye uvela ngokwawo. Ubonakalisa ekuphenduleni komntwana kuzo zonke izinto ezikhanyayo, ezivakalayo nezingavamile;
- ngokungahambelaniyo - ngokuqhelekileyo yenziwa ngumntu oneminyaka engama-7 kwaye ikhula njengoko umntu ekhula. Eyona nto ibonakalisa ukuba umntu ugxininise oko akumele akwenze, kungekhona oko akufunayo. Izenzo ezinjalo zidinga ukunyaniseka, kuya kuba namandla kunye nokuzimela;
- Ukuqwalaselwa komntu ngamnye-kuvela ngokufanayo, nangona kunjalo, uHaharazuetsya ukuba umntu wenza imisebenzi ngokuzonwabisa, ukuphefumlelwa kunye nokungaboni.
Ukuba umbuzo ungxamisekileyo kuwe: "Ungayigcina njani ingqalelo yomntwana?" Okokuqala simele sikhumbule ukuba esikolweni sakhe sasekuqaleni nasesikolweni esiphantsi kwakhe ukubonakala ngokungabonakali kubangele. Ukwenza umdla kumntwana ngeli xesha kungakuba yinto entsha okanye eqaqambileyo. Ekuqaleni kwesikolo, kubalulekile ukuqeqesha ngokuzithandela abantwana. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokunyusa iinjongo zokufunda (ukukhuthazwa, isithembiso somvuzo wokuvavanya kakuhle, njl.), Kunye nokudlala kunye nokuzivocavoca.
Imidlalo yokuqwalasela abantwana
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale naluphi na uqeqesho, khumbula ezinye zeendlela zokuphuhlisa ingqalelo kubantwana:
- Musa ukufihla imizwa yakho. Ukudlala nomntwana, ubonise umdla, ujabule okanye ukumangaliswa;
- cinga ngeendlela ezingavamile zokutsala ingqalelo yomntwana. Ungalibali ukuba unokuyityelela ngoncedo lwento engalindelekanga, ecacileyo okanye engqondweni;
- nakuphi na umsebenzi, ukunika umntwana umsebenzi, qinisekisa ukuba kuqondakala, ukhonkco, ububele kunye neyinyathelo ngeyinyathelo;
- ukujongana nomntwana xa kunesimo sakhe sengqondo kunye nenhlalakahle, kunye nakubakho kungekho mingcipheko eseduze, ngohlobo lwezathoyizi ezikhanyayo, izandi, umculo kunye nezinto ezihambahambayo;
- Ukuba umntwana uxakekile, ungamphazamisi ukuba anike isabelo esitsha.
Ukuphuhlisa umdlalo wokuzonwabisa kubantwana ulwahlula kwiindidi eziliqela kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezijoliswe kuzo. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukujongana nomntwana, qaphela oko ufuna ukukuhlakulela.
1. Ukuphuhliswa kwengqwalaselo. Umsebenzi osisiseko, okhuthazwa kubo bonke abangayaziyo ukunyusela ingqwalasela kumntwana - "uvavanyo lokufunda ubungqina". Umntwana unikezelwa okukhethwa kwezi zimbini kule sifundo. Umbhalo omkhulu kwiileta okanye kwincwadi eqhelekileyo enefonti enkulu. Ngokwemiyalelo, kufuneka ufumane iileta ezifanayo phakathi kwemizuzu emi-7 ukuya kwemizuzu (umzekelo, "kuphela" okanye "c" kuphela) kwaye uyaphumelele. Nangona umntwana ejongene nokukhangela kubalulekile ukuba angamnceda aze ambukele ucinge ngemigca. Kwiminyaka engama-7-8, abantwana kufuneka bakwazi ukubona malunga ne-350-400 ibinzana ngemizuzu emi-5 kwaye bangavumeli iiposiso ezingaphezulu kwe-10. Yenza yonke imihla ngemizuzu engama-7-10. Kancinci, unokwenza umsebenzi ube nzima kwaye ukwandise inani leencwadi ukuya ku-4-5.
2. Ukwandisa inani lokuqwalaselwa nokuphuhlisa imemori yesikhashana. Ukuphuhlisa umdlalo wabantwana abakweli bhloko ibonakaliswe ngokukhumbula ngenani elithile kunye nokuhlelwa kweendawo zezinto. Umzekelo omhle unokuba ngumsebenzi olandelayo:
- indawo phambi komntwana ukusuka kuma-3 ukuya kuma-7 amathoyizi. Nika umntwana ukuba avalwe amehlo akhe aze asuse omnye wabo. Ukuvula amehlo, umntwana kufuneka athethe yiphi iitokethi ezaneleyo;
- Nika umntwana emibini imifanekiso ecwangcisekileyo ifane kwaye ucele ukufumana zonke iintlukwano;
- lo msebenzi ngowona ongaphambili. Kulo mfanekiso, umntwana ufuna ukufumana izinto eziliqela ezifanayo.
3. Ukuqeqesha nokuphuhliswa kwengqalelo. Umntwana unikezelwa kanye kanye imisebenzi emibini, emele enze ngokufanayo. Umzekelo: umntwana ufunda incwadi kwaye uyabetha izandla kwisigatshana ngasinye okanye unqongqo kwitafile nge pencil.
4. Ukuphuhliswa kwamandla okutshintsha. Apha ungasebenzisa nokuzivocavoca ukuphuhlisa ingqalelo yabantwana ngoncedo lokuphonononga.
Ngethuba lokuqala ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuphuhlisa ingqalelo yomntwana, okokuqala, khumbula ukuba wena ngokwakho kufuneka uqaphele. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - iiklasi eziqhelekileyo neziqhelekileyo. Ungadlala nomntwana naphina, endleleni eya kwisitolo, kumgca okanye kwizothutho. Ukuzonwabisa okunjalo kuya kuzisa inzuzo enkulu kumntwana kwaye kuphuhlise kuye ingqalelo kuphela, kodwa nokuzithemba.