Kutheni umntwana engathethi kwi-2?

Umntwana ngamnye unalo uhambo lwakhe olulodwa lophuhliso, olungenakuphazamiseka, kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho akathethi nto kwiminyaka emi-2, cinga ngako. Kungenzeka ukuba ulula nje kwaye uza kuthetha ngeveki ezimbalwa okanye ngeenyanga. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungaphutheli ukuphulwa okungakumbi kwintlalo kunye nokuncedisa umntwana ukuba alungelelanise ngempumelelo kuluntu.

Ngoko, izizathu ezingabonwanga ngumntwana kwiminyaka emi-2:

1. Ukuchithwa kwe-system central nervous system. Kule meko, iinzame zabazali abanomdla kunye nabanyamekelayo abakwazi ukuvelisa iziphumo, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukubonisana nodokotela. Ukuba ukwenza oku kungadlulanga iminyaka engama-2.5, mhlawumbi uneminyaka eyi-3-4 umntwana uya kubambisana neontanga zakhe.
2. Abazali abakhulumi kwintsana. Kwenzeka ukuba umntwana akafuni ukuthetha nge-2, kuba akabonanga isidingo soqhagamshelwano. Ukuba ngaba abazali bengathethi naye, kodwa ngokusoloko behamba kunye neetoto kunye neTV , imfuno yokuxoxisana iyancishiswa, ngaphezu koko, kunokuba nzima kunomntwana ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwezandi kunye nezandi.
3. Umlinganiselo ngamnye wophuhliso. Akukho nto iyingozi kukuba umntwana oneminyaka emi-2 engathethi, unokuthetha kakuhle kwi-2.5. Ukuba sele usubonile, ukuba ezinye izinto ezifundwa yinkwenkwe yakho emva kwesikhashana kunabanye, musa ukuyikhawuleza ngentetho, musa ukucinezela.

Ukuba umntwana wakho akanalo izizathu zonyango lokuphuculwa kancinci nokukhawuleza, ngoko unokunceda ngokupheleleyo ukuthetha kwangaphambili, usebenzisa iindlela ezisisiseko:

• uphuhliso lwezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi;
• unxibelelwano lomntu kunye nomntwana, ukufunda iifriythi kunye neengqungquthela zomntwana;
• ukunxibelelana nabaontanga.

Ukuba abazali babengenayo umbuzo, kutheni umntwana engathethi kwiminyaka emi-2, kuyimfuneko ukutyelela zonke iingcali zezingane kwishedyuli. Ngoko unokuthintela zonke iimpazamo kwaye uvumele umntwana ukuba ahlalisane ngokuvisisanayo.