Ukuba ucinga ngokucokisekileyo ngokuthandana ngothando lwakho intanda yakho, kuthetha ukuba ithetha kakhulu kuwe kwaye uzama ukuyenza ibe mnandi. Enyanisweni, phantse onke amantombazana acinga malunga nokuqala kobudlelwane malunga nendlela yokubiza umnxeba ongezantsi kwaye ongaqhelekanga. Ukubonisa ukucinga kwakho, yanele. Isiteketiso kufuneka sibe mnandi, sithandane, kodwa singayithuki. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ufuna ukucacisa umntu wakho ukuba ahlekise abantu ngabahlobo neentombi. Ngendlela, khumbula ukuba ukuba igama le-nickname liyakuthandana, kodwa uyisicwenge - akukuhlawulisi ngamehlo kwindoda, kodwa kukubonisa nje ukungabikho kwengcamango.
Amantombazana akafuni nje ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo ngezenzo, kodwa nangomlomo . Ngako oko, akumnandi ukubiza umntu oyintanda nje ngegama, ngokubhekiselele kulo, kuvela izikhundla ezihlukeneyo. Ngokufanayo, amadoda anothando aziphatha ngendlela efanayo nabafazi. Nguwaphi amagama athando onokuthiwa ngumfana - kukuya kuwe. Ingongoma ebalulekileyo kukuba le nickname kufanele ithandwe yizo zombini kwaye ibe yodwa, ngelixa ifika kumntu.
Indlela yokubiza igama elincinci lomfana?
Umthetho omnye nomthetho wokungabikho kwamanani. Njengomthetho, abaninzi abantu bayachukunyiswa xa kuthiwa yi-bunnies, iimpawu, ilanga, i-pussies, i-puppies, iintsana, iintsana okanye iipilisi. Bayazi njani ukuba awuzange ubize indoda yangaphambili? Ngendlela, xa ukhetha isidlaliso, cinga iminyaka yobudala bakho. Kungenzeka ukuba inkwenkwe eneminyaka eyi-17 iya kuyithanda xa umbiza ngokuthi "intsimbi" okanye "ibhinki", ngelixa indoda ehloniphekileyo iya kuziva ukuba yincinci. Asiyi kuthetha ngeziphumo ezisetyenziswayo ngoku, kuba sichaza ukuba ucinga malunga neemeko zokuqala.
Ngokuqhelekileyo "ixesha elinqabileyo" lingabonakalisa ifilimu kunye kunye nokubukela. Kutheni ungabizi u-Kuzey noNafane? Pinky noBrein? Lilo kunye neStitch? UWinnie noPooh? Ungasebenzisa amagama amaqhawe amaqhawe: Superman, Batman Laskovo, ezinye izilwanyana zezilwanyana ezizwakalayo: i-tigrule okanye i-tiger cub, i-tiger, inyosi, intlanzi, ibhokhwe yengonyama, i-hedgehog, i-fawn, i-dolphin, ibhere cub, ukhozi, i-falcon. Nokuba "imvubu" ngamanye amaxesha kulungele, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ungabizi umntu okhethiweyo ngale ndlela kwintlalo - ukuba phakathi kwakho kubonakale inomusa kunye nobumnene, ngokokuba uluntu ungabhenca umntu ukuba ahlekise.
Unokubiza umntu "othandekayo", "othandekayo", "othandekayo", "uthande", "umnandi", "umhlobo wam", "uthakazelisa", "unqabileyo", "ungatshatanga", "unothando", "unyanene". Konke oku kuvakalayo kwaye kukuthandana. Ngokukodwa xa uthetha konke oku ngomphefumlo. Unokuza kunye nento ethile yokuqala, ehambelana nomsebenzi okanye izinto zokuzilibazisa zomntu.
Kutheni ungafiki "impendulo efanele" kumntu oyintanda kwaye ufike ngegama lomnxeba onothando odibene noko ubiza ngokuba yiyo?
Naliphi na umntu uya kuvuya ngamagama athi "inkosana yam", "ukumkani wam", "iqhawe lam", "umkhuseli wam", "umkhonto wam intliziyo", "umkhweli wam", "udonga lwam", "isithunywa sam", " wam uThixo. Kuvule ukuva "ilanga lam", "idayimane", "inkwenkwezi", "umoya" okanye "umoya". Ukuba indoda inwele inwele, ingabizwa ngokuthi "inyanga". Ngendlela, xa uthi "indoda yam" okanye "yinkwenkwe yam" - iya kuvakala kwakhona ihloniphekile kwaye iyathobekile. Ungabiza umntu "uvuyo lwam," "ray," "ikhekhe."
Ungesabi ukubonisa ubuchule bakho kunye nokuqala xa ukhetha igama lomnxeba lomthandayo. Mhlawumbi uya kusebenzisa iingcebiso zethu, kwaye mhlawumbi uza kunye nento yakho, enomphefumlo kunye nobumnene.