Ingcamango enjengokuthi "imfashini yabantwana" ibonakale nje kutshanje. Kwiminyaka engama-200 eyadlulayo, iimpahla ezifashiniweyo zabantwana ziyikopi epheleleyo yengubo yabantu abadala, kwaye kuphela abantu abanemali ephezulu abanakho ukufumana izinto ezinjalo. Ngaphezu koko, imbonakalo yefestile kwakuthetha ukuthobela imithetho eqinile, izambatho zazibonakalisa uluntu, kwaye akuyona indlela yokubonakalisa abantu ngabanye. Iingubo eziphathekayo ezinamantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe zazibandakanya isethi ethile yeenkcukacha zeendleko ezihluka ngokuxhomekeka kwimizila yefashoni, ngaphandle kokuhlukahluka kwiindidi ezithile. Kodwa sele isele kwisiqingatha sesibini senkulungwane ye-20, kunye neenguqu ezinzulu ezenzeka kwiindawo zobomi bezopolitiko, ezentlalontle kunye nezenkcubeko, ezininzi iingcamango kunye neengcamango ezinxulumene nefashoni ziyatshintsha. Ubonakala iimpahla ezifake imfashini kubantwana, ezizinto ezahlukeneyo zezitayela kunye nezitayela. Kwaye ngokubulela ukuphuhliswa kweshishini, abazali abaninzi abanemali eyahlukeneyo bayakwazi ukuthenga iimpahla ezifanelekileyo kunye nezicathulo ezifanelekileyo kubantwana babo kunye nentsha yokukhetha abantwana babo. Iimbobo zezinwele zefestile zabantwana zihluke kwiintlobo zezinwele zekhulu lokugqibela kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo kunye neendlela. Kodwa kwanamhlanje, abaninzi abazali bafumana ubunzima ekufumaneni iimpahla ezifake imfashiselo kubantwana.
Abantwana abancinci kakhulu
Kwenzeke ukuba imfashiso yezambatho zezingane ifuna ukuba abantwana abancincileyo - abantwana babantu abadumileyo. Abazali abaninzi bazama ukwenza abantwana babo bafake imfashini, bembethe njengabantwana abagqokayo beenkwenkwezi, kodwa oku kubangela kuphela ukubunjwa kwengcamango. Ngoko unokuyifundisa njani umntwana ngokufanelekileyo nangendlela enxibekileyo yokugqoka, kungekhona ukulinganisa abameli bomthetho, kodwa ukusebenzisa ingcebiso kunye neengcebiso ngokuchanekileyo? Ukususela kwiminyaka emincinci, abantwana sele benakho ukubonisa ukukhetha kwabo ekukhetheni umbala weengubo, kunye nexesha, kunye nesitayela. Sekuneminyaka engama-nye baqala ukuqokelela ulwazi. Ngeli xesha kwaye kucetyiswa ukuba uqale ukuphuhlisa ukunambitha kunye nesimo sengqondo. Okokuqala, abantwana bathatha umzekelo kumama wabo, ngoko ke oomama kufuneka babone iimpahla zabo, zombini nasezitratweni. Yaye xa abantwana bezama ukukhetha iingubo zabo, musa ukucima iinjongo zabo. Ukuqala, unako ukumnika umntwana ukhetho lwezinto ezininzi ezidibeneyo. Xa umntwana sele ukhethe, unokugxila ekuhlanganiseni ngempumelelo imbala okanye iinkcukacha zengubo. Into ephambili ayikusetyenzisi uxinzelelo, kodwa ukufunda ukulungisa kakuhle ukhetho lomntwana ngaphandle kokungabaza ilungelo lakhe kwimbono yakhe.
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Izambatho eziphathekayo zintombazana
Uninzi ubunzima buvela xa ukhetha iimpahla ezifake imfashiso kumantombazana. Amantombazana athathaka ngokubonakala kwawo, kwaye ukuba kufuneka agqoke iimpahla ezibangelwa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, oko kuya kuba nefuthe elibi kwiimeko zabo zengqondo.
Iingubo eziphathekayo kwiintombazana eziselula zinohlobo lokukhuselwa kunye nenkxaso kwiintsebenziswano kunye noontanga. Ngoko ke, ukuba le ntombazana inengxaki zangaphakathi ezinxulumene noqhagamshelwano, uya kuzama ukuzisombulula ngenxa yokubonakala kwayo. Kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwentombazana ekhetha iingubo ngokusekelwe kwintando yakhe kunye nentombazana isebenzisa iimpahla ukubonakalisa into okanye ukuzimisela kuluntu. Nangona iimeko zombini zombini iingubo zibiza kwaye ziyi-stylish, ziya kukhangeleka. Umsebenzi wabazali kukufundisa intombi yabo ukuba bakhethe iimpahla ezifanelekileyo kumntu wakhe kunye nehlabathi langaphakathi. Kwaye, okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza uphuhliso lomntu nobuntu bomntwana. Xa ukhetha iingubo ezifake imfashiso kumantombazana, ungakhohlwa malunga neenkcukacha ezibalulekileyo:
- Iingubo zokuhamba kufuneka zikhululekile, ezifanelekileyo kwixesha kunye nendlela yokuziphatha kwentombazana kuluntu.
- ukufumana iifomati zesikolo ezifestile imfashini kumantombazana, gcinani engqondweni ukuba kufuneka ifane nesitayela sezoshishino.
- xa kuthengwa iimpahla zangaphandle akufanele zikhokelwe nje ngeendlela zokufashisa, kodwa namathuba omntu. Ngokomzekelo, xa uthengela ingubo entle yintombazana, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ixesha elizayo lingaba lifanelekileyo, kwaye kuya kufuneka uthenge enye entsha.
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Ngokumalunga neenwele zefestile kunye neenwele zeentombazana eziselula, ngoko ke kuyimfuneko ukukhokelwa kungekhona nje ngeendlela eziqhelekileyo. I-haircut kufuneka ihambelane nesitayela esiqhelekileyo, esifanelekileyo kwimisebenzi yokufunda nokuphuma kwesikolo. Okokuqala, ukhetha i-hairstyle yefestile kwintombazana, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela indlela ukhululekile ngayo umntwana kunye neenwele ezikhethiweyo eziza kuziva. Ukujongwa ngeentambo zokubambisa izinwele kukulungele ngexesha leeholide, ukwenzela ukuba le ntombazana inethuba lokutshintshela i-hairstyle entsha kwaye ayizange ibe yinto engathandekiyo, ifunyanwe kwimeko yontanga.
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Iingubo eziphathekayo zabafana
Ukuphuhlisa ingcamango yongcamango ayiluncedo kuphela kumantombazana, kodwa kubafana. Abazali kaninzi abaxhomeki kubaluleka kulo mbandela, kuba abafana bebonisa ukungakhathaleli ukubonakala kwabo. Enyanisweni, lidlala indima ebalulekileyo kwimihla yobutsha kunye nasebusheni. Ukuba le nkwenkwe ayinelisekanga ngokubonakala kwayo, ngoko kwinqanaba elincinane, ubunzima obungaphantsi buya kuphuhlisa. Ukuthenga iimpahla eziphathekayo kumakhwenkwe, kufuneka uqikelele uhlobo lomntwana, kwaye ukhethe izinto ezifanelekileyo kwisimo sokuziphatha kwakhe. Kuyafana nokukhethwa kwekhwele kunye neenwele zeenwele zabafana.
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Xa ukhetha izambatho, umntu akafanele akwazi ukugxila kuphela kwimfashini yefashoni. Ukubonakala kukubonakalisa ihlabathi langaphakathi, kwaye okokuqala kuyimfuneko ukufezekisa ukuvisisana kwangaphakathi, okuqinisekileyo, kuya kuthintela kuphela iingubo, kodwa kunye nomgangatho wobomi bomntwana.